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[Courageous]

Hello guys !

Is there a place for forgiveness in a relationship? When to forgive, when not to do it? Should we accept all the requests of his girlfriend? For example, she asks you for water, she asks you to charge her phone, she asks you to connect the computer. What impact is there when you do everything she asks? . What are the signs of a good girlfriend? And what are the signs of a bad girlfriend? My girlfriend is behaving badly. She wants to know everything about me, but when it comes to her, she says I have to mind my own business. I have to beg her often to tell me what's bothering her. Sometimes when she gives a ****, she blocks me. I remain open to suggestions for solutions and opinions

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Hello guys !

Is there a place for forgiveness in a relationship? When to forgive, when not to do it? Should we accept all the requests of his girlfriend? For example, she asks you for water, she asks you to charge her phone, she asks you to connect the computer. What impact is there when you do everything she asks? . What are the signs of a good girlfriend? And what are the signs of a bad girlfriend? My girlfriend is behaving badly. She wants to know everything about me, but when it comes to her, she says I have to mind my own business. I have to beg her often to tell me what's bothering her. Sometimes when she gives a ****, she blocks me. I remain open to suggestions for solutions and opinions

She does this because you have no respect for yourself to walk away from her.

She does this because she is trying to get you to dump her.

She will dump you once her respect level for you has reached zero.

Man up and dump her first and respect yourself from the beginning with the next woman so you don't find yourself in the same position again.

These are painful but valuable lessons men need to learn and very worthwhile, as long as you actually learn what you need to from it and don't make the same mistakes again.

The problem stems from guys having to learn the same lesson...as the song Legendary says:

"A new answer to the same question...
How many times will you learn the same lesson?
Fighting tooth and nail on the way up...
Tell them the truth but they think it's just made up"

Ideally, only once. Unfortunately the reality is many guys learn the same lesson over and over again because they don't actually learn.

Right now this girl is "telling you the truth" but you "think it's just made up".

 

[Modern Man Advice]

Hello guys !

Is there a place for forgiveness in a relationship? When to forgive, when not to do it? Should we accept all the requests of his girlfriend? For example, she asks you for water, she asks you to charge her phone, she asks you to connect the computer. What impact is there when you do everything she asks? . What are the signs of a good girlfriend? And what are the signs of a bad girlfriend? My girlfriend is behaving badly. She wants to know everything about me, but when it comes to her, she says I have to mind my own business. I have to beg her often to tell me what's bothering her. Sometimes when she gives a ****, she blocks me. I remain open to suggestions for solutions and opinions

My opinion: Your mental health comes first. She is clearly detrimental to it. Move on.

 

[Stanley]

There is a time and place for forgiveness, but that doesn't mean you let that person back into your life. I've had relationships from the past come back and apologize and own up their wrongs on a few occasions. I accept their apology and do forgive them, but am not foolish enough to let them in my world in any capacity beyond that. Leave another's wrongs where they lie.

This chick sounds immature, insecure and is messing with your head. Reevaluate if you want to have that negative influence on you. That and don't be a doormat for her with all the chores and favors she's asking you to do. Relationships are two way streets and if she isn't carrying her weight let that burden drop and hit the bricks.