Cerwin Vega
Master Don Juan
A friend of mine without an approved account is looking for advice (@Moti_Zayn_Bagadol)
I went on three dates with a girl I met on tinder, everything went really well, I broke the physical barrier by escalating on the first date. She doesn't speak much english, we communicate mostly with google translate and I speak her language to an extent.
Second date everything went very well we went bowling we were both very physically comfortable and touchy and making out, I suggested we go to mine she said it’s too early I respected it and everything went very fine.
She tried to break it off with me when we got home tho, texted me “everything is really good except the language barrier and she doesn't want a relationship based only on physical attraction”, I responded with only “I like you and want to see where this goes” she said actually ok let’s do that.
Third date I wanted to cool things down a bit, took her to a cafe and as always we did really well that she also kept complimenting me. Out of nowhere I asked her if I could walk her home wasn't even expecting anything her eyes sparked and she asked if I was sure I said yeah.
We walk home we make out in front if her door, she invites in; we make out for 4-5 hours and she keeps telling me she needs time to be able to get to next steps, I respected it but still teased her.
She finally unbuckled my jeans and I do her’s too, I started fingering her and she was really into it until she came. Then she held my wrist and told me to stop. We cuddled for a 15 mins then she tells me she’s getting sleepy and if it’s ok if I leave soonish.
I left and didn't think much of it, till she texted me telling me “she’s sorry this is not working and she doesn't feel it physically enough even tho she feels really good next to me” to which I responded with ok.
Now I want to contact her again cuz that statement doesn't match what I witnessed with her actions at all and I want us to give it one more try.
My question is, it's already been a week, how do I initiate it again?
I went on three dates with a girl I met on tinder, everything went really well, I broke the physical barrier by escalating on the first date. She doesn't speak much english, we communicate mostly with google translate and I speak her language to an extent.
Second date everything went very well we went bowling we were both very physically comfortable and touchy and making out, I suggested we go to mine she said it’s too early I respected it and everything went very fine.
She tried to break it off with me when we got home tho, texted me “everything is really good except the language barrier and she doesn't want a relationship based only on physical attraction”, I responded with only “I like you and want to see where this goes” she said actually ok let’s do that.
Third date I wanted to cool things down a bit, took her to a cafe and as always we did really well that she also kept complimenting me. Out of nowhere I asked her if I could walk her home wasn't even expecting anything her eyes sparked and she asked if I was sure I said yeah.
We walk home we make out in front if her door, she invites in; we make out for 4-5 hours and she keeps telling me she needs time to be able to get to next steps, I respected it but still teased her.
She finally unbuckled my jeans and I do her’s too, I started fingering her and she was really into it until she came. Then she held my wrist and told me to stop. We cuddled for a 15 mins then she tells me she’s getting sleepy and if it’s ok if I leave soonish.
I left and didn't think much of it, till she texted me telling me “she’s sorry this is not working and she doesn't feel it physically enough even tho she feels really good next to me” to which I responded with ok.
Now I want to contact her again cuz that statement doesn't match what I witnessed with her actions at all and I want us to give it one more try.
My question is, it's already been a week, how do I initiate it again?
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