Straight to your house dates

[FlexpertHamilton]

Anyone have experience with this?

I've pulled it off a few times from approaches, and a handful of times from OLD but the latter is particularly difficult to get them to agree to it, though it's possible. A couple years ago, I somehow managed to get a 19 year old college girl to drive an hour to my place, but I have no idea how I did it.

Is there perhaps something you can do/say to improve the odds they'll agree to come to your place? Would it help if you said something specific, eg: lets get takeout and watch a cheesy movie at my place.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

First date: I refuse to do because I don’t trust strangers

Second or third: either plan a date nearby and ask them to come to my place afterwards or straight up ask to my place

 

[soulforge]

That's not a date... If she comes straight to your house it's more likely a hook up.

I met a chick of Bumble around a year ago.. She was 19 and I am 47... Was a straight up hook-up.. I even suggested meeting in a bar, she was more than happy to come to my house.

Most chicks that have come straight to my house, I have smashed on first meet

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Got to talk to them for a while and engage in lotsa sexting, but it can certainly be done. You just need some kind of hook at your place like always - movie, mixed drink, guitar serenade, cooking your fave dish for dinner, something exotic at your place, etc. Once they feel comfortable enough, ask what they're up to one day and suggest the hook.

I don't think it's up anymore but there was a thread on Roosh's forum called "zero date bangs" that covered this, if anyone remembers.

 

[RazorRambo24]

Happens often off Tinder... Why waste time and buffer anything when you both know what you want lol.. The less horny girls thoughat least want you to take them to eat or drink before taking them straight to the pad.

Easiest way to tell if a tinder chick is straight for the smash: her main pic is slutty/something like her wearing lingerie, usually looking high af in her pic lol

 

[Murk]

Done this 4-5 times off OLD, had opportunities to do it many more times, kinda exciting, rarely see those girls again, it’s so trashy and whorish.

Caught chlamydia off the first girl I did this with years ago after a bad breakup, also tried anal with her. She got a cab to my place and spent £60 and brought a litre of Smirnoff with her. I kicked her out crying 3 hours later. She was 18-19. I still have her number I randomly saw her WhatsApp picture and she looks to be married now. Poor guy will never know what she got up to, she would have done that 10-15 times I’m sure.

All girls I did this will I fvcked bareback on first meet at my place. How gross and erotic at the same time, there’s something that turns me on about barebacking a random on the first meet. I’m pleased to say I haven’t done this in years though. I like being boring now.

 

[The Duke]

I've had several straight to their/my house first date lays with OLD girls and a few with girls I met out. I always tried to go to their house so it was easier to bail if needed. With the majority there was comfort and rapport built beforehand with texts and phone calls or in person conversation. They were already attracted to my appearance, just needed to make them feel comfortable.

Most of these girls had a little lower SMV than me. Everybody is always a "sucker" for a good deal right?

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

It’s can be done if your text game is spot on, and you catch her at the right moment of thirst. Even if she’s a 7>, it can be done if you can pull off the no pressure vibe, she’s coming over to have a dinner I cooked, see the sunset, watch a show.

It takes some doing if you want anything if better than average quality. It’s easier if you’re both time restricted professionals. It’s a no brainer if you’ve talked and vibed already too.

 

[corsica]

Anyone have experience with this?

A couple years ago, I somehow managed to get a 19 year old college girl to drive an hour to my place, but I have no idea how I did it.

 

[SargeMaximus]

It’s the only way I date. Had countless new girls come over or me go over to theirs.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

First date: I refuse to do because I don’t trust strangers

Second or third: either plan a date nearby and ask them to come to my place afterwards or straight up ask to my place

That's what I do for 2nd and 3rd, but I want to skip that part, hence the thread.

That's not a date... If she comes straight to your house it's more likely a hook up.

I met a chick of Bumble around a year ago.. She was 19 and I am 47... Was a straight up hook-up.. I even suggested meeting in a bar, she was more than happy to come to my house.

Most chicks that have come straight to my house, I have smashed on first meet

I know it's not a date...

Your post literally says nothing.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

That's what I do for 2nd and 3rd, but I want to skip that part, hence the thread.



I know it's not a date...

Your post literally says nothing.

A lot of times it will serve as a "date" as the action isn't guaranteed and they will want to talk for an hour or so to comfort themselves.

 

[SW15]

I don't think it's up anymore but there was a thread on Roosh's forum called "zero date bangs" that covered this, if anyone remembers.

"Zero date bangs" + same night lays from either daygame/nightgame are very appealing to a lot of men. Men are getting frustrated with going on dates.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Yeah, I had a chick come over the first week of the pandemic. We were in a vacation group chat. The trip got cancelled due to lockdown, so I flew her in using airline points. Never met her before picking her up from the airport. I was inside of her less than 10 minutes after we got to my house. She knew what was up the moment she got on that plane.

 

[Modern Man Advice]

Simple: Right time, right girl. That's it.

Comes down to timing. Women are in the moment creatures, we all know this. So if you are not weird/creepy, make it fun, connect, and build rapport AND the girl is in the mood at that exact moment, she will likely say yes.

We can discuss gaming strategies but what will work with that girl at that moment will most likely not work with that same girl some other time. And some girls simply just don't, no matter who you are, do, and say. It's called self-preservation.

To your question, yes I have experienced this a few times. A really cute Asian girl that was in college and was stressed out for finals and needed to "de-stress". Another girl was just visiting for the week, but we had been chatting for a few days and had already been sexually explicit over text. Etc, etc.

I don't think I did anything different other than build rapport, make it fun, build sexual tension and carefully sexualize the conversation. Again, I just think it was just timing.

 

[Stanley]

This thread is why I need my own place lol