Is It Ok If GF Getting A Massage From A Man?

[soulforge]

How do you guys feel about your Girlfriend getting a body massage, by a male masseuse?

I know the masseuse, he's a good looking guy, however he is getting married soon and has a woman.

The only thing that concerns me is this... From time to time I massage my chicks neck and she tells me that she feels like she is about to c.u.m haha because it feels that good

So would you be ok with a dude massaging your girlfriend?

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

I wouldn’t care, but I know every woman assumes I’m getting a happy ending or sex from my masseuse, so I never tell them about my massage appointments anymore.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Nope. I do not permit my wife to get massages from male masseuse. I have no shame in it.

 

[soulforge]

Nope. I do not permit my wife to get massages from male masseuse. I have no shame in it.

Why do you believe it's an issue?

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Nope. I do not permit my wife to get massages from male masseuse. I have no shame in it.

da fuq

 

[Macadellic]

Not okay with it.
Perhaps she needs a real man that is secure in himself to have his wife, gf, etc be rubbed down by another man.

Conversely,
It takes a real woman to accept me going to get rubbed down by other women.

She gets equality or chivalry but doesn’t get both.

Her actions, tone, decides what she gets from me.

Now if you excuse me I’m going to get rubbed down by my girl friend who is a professional.

I’m going to have girl friends if I want.
I’m going to do it.
You are jealous, possessive and insecure.
You women are all the same.

I need to take a break.

 

[soulforge]

Not okay with it.
Perhaps she needs a real man that is secure in himself to have his wife, gf, etc be rubbed down by another man.

Conversely,
It takes a real woman to accept me going to get rubbed down by other women.

She gets equality or chivalry but doesn’t get both.

Her actions, tone, decides what she gets from me.

Now if you excuse me I’m going to get rubbed down by my girl friend who is a professional.

I’m going to have girl friends if I want.
I’m going to do it.
You are jealous, possessive and insecure.
You women are all the same.

I need to take a break.

Huh what

 

[EyeBRollin]

Why do you believe it's an issue?

It is not appropriate for another man to be feeling up my wife. I don’t know why you guys try to rationalize the indefensible.

 

[soulforge]

It is not appropriate for another man to be feeling up my wife. I don’t know why you guys try to rationalize the indefensible.

I kinda feel the same way about this. When I have massaged her, she has told me that she feels like c.u.m.m.i.n.g.

Another man with his hands all over her body isn't something I feel comfortable with

 

[Macadellic]

Huh what

Go to massage parlors.
Let your wife, gf, whatever be the one that starts threads on forums about

“My husband, bf, etc. goes to get rubbed down by woman… is this okay?”

 

[EyeBRollin]

Another man with his hands all over her body isn't something I feel comfortable with

This is normal. You should never be okay with another man rubbing down your woman.

 

[soulforge]

This is normal. You should never be okay with another man rubbing down your woman.

I'm not happy about it.. but I don't want to come across as insecure either... But in all honesty it's something I don't like, because the guy who is doing the massage, I know him

 

[Macadellic]

This is normal. You should never be okay with another man rubbing down your woman.

What’s the big deal!
It’s just a massage!
You need to relax!!

Is what she says^^

Okay cool no big deal,
I’m going to get an 8 hand massage from Korean girls be back babe.

I love equality
Everything she can do I can do better
Yes I can!

Yum yum god bless equality
I want more

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

I'm not happy about it.. but I don't want to come across as insecure either... But in all honesty it's something I don't like, because the guy who is doing the massage, I know him

You sure you don’t have a crush on this guy or something

 

[soulforge]

You sure you don’t have a crush on this guy or something

Lol no. But I'm not keen on the idea of his hands all over my girl

 

[Macadellic]

Lol no. But I'm not keen on the idea of his hands all over my girl

Get c/ucked bro watch the massage
Show her how secure of a real man you are

 

[soulforge]

Get c/ucked bro watch the massage
Show her how secure of a real man you are

Dude why you so angry and bitter

 

[EyeBRollin]

I'm not happy about it.. but I don't want to come across as insecure either... But in all honesty it's something I don't like, because the guy who is doing the massage, I know him

Stop caring about “coming across as insecure.” That is female manipulation. Kill off that guilty gene.

I don’t feel guilty at all. My wife is well taken care of, so there are boundaries she has to respect. The alternative is her going back on the streets with all the single, miserable, “hard working” broads.

 

[Macadellic]

Dude why you so angry and bitter

Dude it’s just a massage
Your welcome to watch

 

[soulforge]

Stop caring about “coming across as insecure.” That is female manipulation. Kill off that guilty gene.

I don’t feel guilty at all. My wife is well taken care of, so there are boundaries she has to respect. The alternative is her going back on the streets with all the single, miserable, “hard working” broads.

What if I tell her its not acceptable and she goes anyway or creates drama?