I noticed this "theory" seems to be true more and more.
Women who are interested in you will initiate texts/messages at least 50% of the time if not much more.
Sometimes I will text a woman who I might have hooked up with months ago or even a couple of years ago to see if I can get things going again.
I think I have a near 100% fail rate when this happens. I matched with a pretty sexy chick on Bumble the other day and she didn't respond to my last message. Since it's a new year, I figured I would text her with a "Happy New Year" (no harm, no foul). She already wrote me back that we are not compatible.
So, if it feels like you are "pulling teeth" to get a woman to text you back or hang out with you, her interest level is low.
Women who initiate at least half the time or more are almost always interested.
You can apply this theory to physical space as well. If there is a cute girl at the gym you have your eye on and you are wondering how she feels about you?
For God's sake, do not follow her around or stare at her. Continue to do your own thing and if she likes you, she will put herself in your proximity to let you talk to her.
Women who are interested in you will initiate texts/messages at least 50% of the time if not much more.
Sometimes I will text a woman who I might have hooked up with months ago or even a couple of years ago to see if I can get things going again.
I think I have a near 100% fail rate when this happens. I matched with a pretty sexy chick on Bumble the other day and she didn't respond to my last message. Since it's a new year, I figured I would text her with a "Happy New Year" (no harm, no foul). She already wrote me back that we are not compatible.
So, if it feels like you are "pulling teeth" to get a woman to text you back or hang out with you, her interest level is low.
Women who initiate at least half the time or more are almost always interested.
You can apply this theory to physical space as well. If there is a cute girl at the gym you have your eye on and you are wondering how she feels about you?
For God's sake, do not follow her around or stare at her. Continue to do your own thing and if she likes you, she will put herself in your proximity to let you talk to her.
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