BackInTheGame78
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I never post kids and I would never date someone who does either. They have no business being on a dating site, IMO.Can you paint a bit of a picture on how your profiles are built out? For instance based on your prior posts it seems like you and I have a similar situation. Do you post kids, do you not? Are you forward in your intentions to be casual, do you post dogs, do you have a pic of you in an exotic location? Interested to hear - I did have a bumble and I have to say, would get a lot of likes but they were usually just placeholders and maybe a couple generated conversation
With you on Tinder, absolutely garbage
I have a couple of normal pics of me and then a lot of nature related pics as I go hiking a lot and to some pretty cool places. Forest waterfalls, hiking pics with cool birds in ponds, sunsets over water, etc. Women eat that sh!t up, but it's more of an added bonus as I really do enjoy being outdoors a lot and going to all those places. It's like where I find peace in nature and balance away from everything. And then one of my sleeve which is super unique and very cool.
I don't bring up intentions stuff unless they ask, it's always that you are looking for a relationship on the profile. Otherwise you deter women from talking to you as some will assume you just want to get laid. It doesn't matter what your intentions actually are, always put you want a relationship.
You can always go towards casual from relationship but can't go from relationship from casual. Only really works well in one direction.