I reinstalled OLD

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Can you paint a bit of a picture on how your profiles are built out? For instance based on your prior posts it seems like you and I have a similar situation. Do you post kids, do you not? Are you forward in your intentions to be casual, do you post dogs, do you have a pic of you in an exotic location? Interested to hear - I did have a bumble and I have to say, would get a lot of likes but they were usually just placeholders and maybe a couple generated conversation

With you on Tinder, absolutely garbage
I never post kids and I would never date someone who does either. They have no business being on a dating site, IMO.

I have a couple of normal pics of me and then a lot of nature related pics as I go hiking a lot and to some pretty cool places. Forest waterfalls, hiking pics with cool birds in ponds, sunsets over water, etc. Women eat that sh!t up, but it's more of an added bonus as I really do enjoy being outdoors a lot and going to all those places. It's like where I find peace in nature and balance away from everything. And then one of my sleeve which is super unique and very cool.

I don't bring up intentions stuff unless they ask, it's always that you are looking for a relationship on the profile. Otherwise you deter women from talking to you as some will assume you just want to get laid. It doesn't matter what your intentions actually are, always put you want a relationship.
You can always go towards casual from relationship but can't go from relationship from casual. Only really works well in one direction.
 

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The only true online dating option that is worth a damn nowadays is instagram. This of course requires a lot of time and money to build up with good pictures, of you traveling, doing cool things, etc. However, if you are in your thirties it is pretty cringe to be posting this stuff in my opinion.

OP I would recommend to you to make new friends, try different group activities/clubs, and also hit up the bars either on friday or saturday night. Barhopping for 3-4 hours once a week is not a big deal, there can be diamonds in the rough found on occasion (birthday parties of a friend, get together from a friend in town for the weekend), etc.

It is a better investment of your time rather than the apps. The only value found in the apps is to meet people who recently moved to your area, who are new obviously and do not have an established social circle yet, and are hence on the apps.

I bet most high value women find a lot of guys on these apps repulsive, I don't blame them.
 

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Never tried Tinder but based on what I have heard probably never will. I clean up on Bumble and Hinge tho.
Interesting. I’ve done well on Tinder and Hinge, but have found Bumble to be a complete waste of time, even though you mostly see the same people on all three.
 

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The hilarious part is believing everything anons post on SS lol
Imagine just believing every rando says hes killin it?
This place is full of keyboard warriors, no doubt. But there's no more efficient way to wrack up bodycount today than OLD, if you're good looking (and possibly willing to lie about your age). Quality (both in terms of the girl and the relationship) is another matter -- that tends to be questionable.
 

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All of us? Lol dude im married to a girl you could put in comercials and magazines. Oh but wait those girls just fck anyone right? Come on bro
What would you like? Me to post vids of my wife? Dox her?
Comone bro. Men without frame and the things they say. Ive been reading your posts for a long while now.
Your def of cope is off lol
I don’t believe you in the slightest. I fvcked Heidi Klum btw. Not really, but saying things don’t mean sh!t on a forum without proof
 

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Th tree is known by its fruit. Words have weight if you have ears.
Not the typical incel clmputer chair OLD loser as is rampant online.
80% of the hot girls are chasing the top 20% of guys because they like to shop. If yiu want to get laid dont go tl Walmart.
Frame is everything "sarge"
What is your point exactly? Your posts are poorly written and poorly edited.
 

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the hate on OLD is real :lol:

Go ahead and waste your time tricking at grocery stores & bars every week while I get laid putting in 0 effort from my computer chair. All of that time & money y’all waste, im utilizing it for wayyy more productive stuff.
Hey, if OLD works for you great! Don't fix what isn't broken. I don't know why people are giving you a hard time. Why is everyone so negative on here? They should be supporting each other. If OLD sucked for them, then don't use it. Do whatever works for you.

That beings said, Swipe apps are bad for a lot of guys. I wish they'd switch back to where you can email anyone you want. They BURY some guys and never show them to girls. It's basically a shadow ban and then they sell boosts. It's looks shaming at its finest.

On another note, when dogs(or any animal) become more important than humans, it's a sign of moral decay. It's fine to have a pet, but this has gone far beyond that and now encompasses both men and women. I've seen lunatics on FB crying to save some dog who killed a person. Enough to make me vomit. There are plenty of shelter dogs who never hurt anyone to adopt, yet they want to save some vicious dog who killed a person. Dog should be put down immediately. Sickos.

When she says if my dog/cat doesn't like you, then it won't work OR my dog comes before you, that's a massive red flag. She's projecting emotions onto a pet that simply aren't there and relating down to an animal due to interpersonal failures with other people. That dog is an emotional crutch, not a pet, which is what it should be. Society seems to care more about dogs then men nowadays to be honest. Date a single mom with a dog, And you're 4th in line of importance. 1)Children 2)Dogs 3)Goldfish 4)Man
 

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Hey, if OLD works for you great! Don't fix what isn't broken. I don't know why people are giving you a hard time. Why is everyone so negative on here? They should be supporting each other. If OLD sucked for them, then don't use it. Do whatever works for you.
It's just an expression of the self-congratulatory elitism surrounding cold approach in seduction communities. A utilitarian outlook is more sensible: do what works.
 

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The hot girl normal guys consider an 8+ is nexting 80% of men online. And that includes most of you. Period.
Just like fatties and uggos..... I've see it personally a lower value woman nexting 80+% of profiles. I was flabbergasted... Then seeing what she would match..... There's no rhyme or reason.... Though I'm not against OLD. It is, what it is....
 
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The hot girl normal guys consider an 8+ is nexting 80% of men online. And that includes most of you. Period.
Are you kidding me? I wish it was that way! The average woman is only swiping 2 percent of men she sees on the latest study I saw. Google it. And the swipes she does see don't include the sub 6 guys that have been buried and not show to her by the algorithm

There's a video done by better bachelor on youtube "New Tinder user swipe data shows women only want...the top 1% of men"

The 80/20 rule just means if you're in the top 20 percent in looks you've got a shot because what every woman finds attractive is different and you're high enough up there where SOME will swipe on you and tinder won't bury you.

But like I said, no reason to crap on these guys on the forum who use OLD. If it works for them, great. I'd advise men who don't have luck on swipe apps to boycott them since they are not fair to men. But it's unrealistic to expect men who are having luck on them to do the same.
 

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Ok 2% I was off by 18% lol
Point is uts not 2014 any more and the best girls have left that bs behind. You can thank the incel army
I don't think incels are to blame. Too much simping is a massive problem beyond them.

I think that many of the online dating apps that used to let you email girls without matching became swipe apps. Tinder was not popular in 2014 and online dating was WAY better back then. You now have apps where a guy can't even message first once matching. How is that equality?

These swipe apps were designed in a way on purpose because women complained about seeing ugly guys(feeling "overwhelmed") so they caved. This is another example of listening to women and it not working out. Now that same woman misses out on a great guy she thinks is cute, but other girls don't think is a chad. That's the guy that is actually more likely to commit to her. So many women end up on a rotation cycle on the app never leaving. Good business model, but not good for relationships. Just my opinion.

OLD had it's best days for average guys long ago. No question about that.
 
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Work on your frame my friend. Then you wont need your "computer chair"

OLD as is from the beginning as is now "a barrier" whether you want to except it now or when you are an old man.
OLD is like thinking video sex is real. I gotta an ocean in Nevada to sell you
my frame is fine, just because you suck at OLD doesn’t mean it’s “evil” lol
 
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