Girl Returned my books but…

[SargeMaximus]

So that girl that had my books returned them but she is clearly not into me anymore. She left them in the door in a plastic bag and texted me that she left them. Didn’t even want to see me apparently.

Not sure what happened. This is the same girl who was saying she couldn’t stop thinking about the orgasm I gave her. I didn’t contact her till a month later and by then she was already clearly off me.

Another point towards the “giving women orgasms is beta” theory I have.

anyhow, its a mystery.

 

[Dr.Suave]

The way I see it, its her loss bro

 

[SargeMaximus]

The way I see it, its her loss bro

Same here but I’m just curious why the sudden shift. I noticed she blocked me on Instagram. Perhaps I’m not cool enough on Instagram or something.
I’ve never contacted her nor liked any of her posts on Instagram

 

[SargeMaximus]

I noticed @Divorced w 3 laughed at my post. I used your suggestion and it failed miserably. Good job bro. This is why I will keep you on ignore

 

[Luni]

How is it a mystery? You didn't contact her till a month later? Strike while the iron is hot, always. She told you she couldn't stop thinking about you making her ***.. that is not beta. You're too in your head. She's probably just disappointed you left her hanging. And she should be.

If a woman cums when it doesn't happen often for her.. She's extremely vulnerable after, infact, there's nothing more alpha than being in that position. Why didn't you see her again? Your behavior would suggest you weren't interested. She would've clung onto you, at least momentarily.

 

[Divorced w 3]

I noticed @Divorced w 3 laughed at my post. I used your suggestion and it failed miserably. Good job bro. This is why I will keep you on ignore

You mean you went from being ghosted to having her answer you and return your crap? You’re welcome James Baldwin.

 

[SargeMaximus]

How is it a mystery? You didn't contact her till a month later? Strike while the iron is hot, always. She told you she couldn't stop thinking about you making her ***.. that is not beta. You're too in your head. She's probably just disappointed you left her hanging. And she should be.

If a woman cums when it doesn't happen often for her.. She's extremely vulnerable after, infact, there's nothing more alpha than being in that position. Why didn't you see her again? Your behavior would suggest you weren't interested. She would've clung onto you, at least momentarily.

She told me she would be busy with school for a month so that’s why.
@catsmeow2

Also, isn't not contacting a girl supposed to make them want you more? Seems like you guys keep changing your story on what "works" depending on what field results I get.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Yeah some girls, I made an entire post about that on a different thread.
Uncertainty and wondering can increase interest and attraction.

But a month is too long.

But in this instance, since she told you she'd be busy with school for a month, then your silence was justified.
That was the missing context I didn't have initially.

So it remains a mystery. Last I knew she was gushing about the orgasm I gave her. Then she’s aloof. It has happened so much I avoid giving women orgasms now. But it was an accident with her or I wouldn’t have done it

 

[Luni]

Ya'll overthinking the game, woah

 

[Luni]

Who takes what any woman says seriously? The medium is the message, follow your agenda. She'll either play ball or not. I have never waited long to message a girl or avoided liking an ig pic (within reason). I assume my attention is of her utmost desire. If she behaves appropriately (she ****ed you), I will reward her as such.

Attention is the coin of the female realm. It's the same adage for everything, if she likes you, you're not a creep. And if she doesn't... Always assume she likes you. Stop **** blocking yourselves

 

[SargeMaximus]

Who takes what any woman says seriously? The medium is the message, follow your agenda. She'll either play ball or not. I have never waited long to message a girl or avoided liking an ig pic (within reason). I assume my attention is of her utmost desire. If she behaves appropriately (she ****ed you), I will reward her as such.

Attention is the coin of the female realm. It's the same adage for everything, if she likes you, you're not a creep. And if she doesn't... Always assume she likes you. Stop **** blocking yourselves

How do you make sure you don’t turn into a simp giving her too much attention?

 

[Luni]

How do you make sure you don’t turn into a simp giving her too much attention?

You must establish that you're a high value man. Desired by many. Go for drinks and subtly flirt with with the server or talk to another girl swiftly. Or have pics with other girls on ig. Anything to subconsciously imply that if you give her attention, she must be special. A woman craves attention from a man with genuine options. That man, by default, cannot be put in the simp category.
But this status in her brain must be obtained organically.

 

[SargeMaximus]

@SargeMaximus what was the context of her telling you (after she raved about the great orgasm you gave her) she would be busy with school for a month?

It kinda sounds like a blow off which doesn't make sense given the great sex you just had.

I still feel like something is missing.

She told me before we fvcked that she would be busy with school for a month. I just said no worries

 

[SargeMaximus]

Sarge, I really feel like there may have been (and still may be) some serious shyt testing happening on her part.

Like her telling you one thing, but meaning another. Hoping you're some sort of psychic mind reader who knows what she wants (you chasing her) without her actually having to tell you and in fact, telling you the opposite!

Since you're not a mind reader and she clearly told you she'd be busy for a month, you left her alone, and didn't chase her.
And thus, you failed the shyt test.

I could be wrong but that's the sense I get.

Failed a sh!t test by not chasing her? I doubt it

 

[SargeMaximus]

Okay like I said, it was just a theory, nothing else makes much sense either.

And women have been known to play those types of "chase me" games, I know a few!

So the theory isn't that far off.

Yeah I do too. When I did my holiday splurge of texting my exes, one of them said they would only talk via phone call. Well I told them I wouldn’t so take care. They texted me the next day.
So all in all I think if a girl is into you she will chase YOU (although I can’t remember if you’re a woman or not, but you know what I mean).

 

[SargeMaximus]

I agree with you. And yes I am a woman saying this!

Hell when I was single and TRULY into a guy and my attraction was sky high, there were times I made a damn fool of myself.

I double texted, triple texted! haha

That's what we do when truly into a man, it's instinctive, like we almost can't help ourselves sometimes.

I will also say that any woman who insists she will dump a guy if he doesn't ask her out while either on the date or soon thereafter (like the next day), is full of crap.

When a chick is truly into you, you can wait a week and she will still be there, waiting,, in fact she probably would have texted your first!

A month? That may be too long, but you never know. I have been known to still be interested after three months of silence.

So sad to say Sarge, the most likely answer is that she just wasn't feeling it enough, regardless of her orgasm.

I'm sorry mate.

It’s fine. This just adds more weight to my argument about orgasms. Giving them to women has been a death sentence for me. My longest relationship? I never made her cvm. And we fvcked every day, sometimes 3 times a day. We were like rabbits

 

[Bokanovsky]

So that girl that had my books returned them but she is clearly not into me anymore. She left them in the door in a plastic bag and texted me that she left them. Didn’t even want to see me apparently.

Not sure what happened. This is the same girl who was saying she couldn’t stop thinking about the orgasm I gave her. I didn’t contact her till a month later and by then she was already clearly off me.

Another point towards the “giving women orgasms is beta” theory I have.

anyhow, its a mystery.

You contact her a month after you had sex and you're surprised that she has lost interest? Next time, try waiting a year or two.

 

[SargeMaximus]

You contact her a month after you had sex and you're surprised that she has lost interest? Next time, try waiting a year or two.

Read the thread bro. She told me she would be busy with school for the month

 

[Bokanovsky]

Read the thread bro. She told me she would be busy with school for the month

I read that bro. My point is that even if you're not hanging out, there has to be some form of contact to keep her interested. The fact that this is not obvious to you is bewildering.

 

[SargeMaximus]

I read that bro. My point is that even if you're not hanging out, there has to be some form of contact to keep her interested. The fact that this is not obvious to you is bewildering.

It’s so bewildering!
Look, supposedly not contacting a girl every five seconds is supposed to be a good thing so I figured I didn’t have to