These guys have some explaining to do.
slate.com
(NOTE: On one of her earlier articles, she mentioned being 48.)
The link below is the article about her being 48.
I don’t know what I’m doing. I’m thrilled. Introducing Feeld Notes.
slate.com
48 most likely chunky and trying to date “hot” guys in their 30’s - yeah only if the guys’ only other option is to FAP.
She’s probably getting pumped and dumped left and right but that’s ok. They all learn eventually.
Yes, you're correct. In reading the 2 articles, she does state that she's 48 and chunky. She has been divorced and sexless for 10 years. She's also a feline enthusiast and likely owns somewhere between 1-3 cats. She is complete crap herself.
Let's talk about her experiences on Feeld between the 2 articles
- She has sex with 29 year old and the sex with subpar. She has it with him 3 times. The guy had a small-ish to average sized penis. Apparently he was able to get a decent erection with an overweight 48 year old, which is an achievement. The guy unmatches her on Feeld the day after the third time they had sex.
- She watches some guy masturbate over FaceTime
- 3 men in their 30s ghost her before actually meeting her.
- She mentions ghosting some men too, including a man who wanted to urinate in her mouth
Feeld is a sex app. It's mostly for less conventional sexual arrangements for people with subpar social skills who can't find these less conventional sexual arrangements in real life. Most people are going to have lousy experiences on it. An overweight, 48 year old woman with multiple cats isn't going to have any SMV. She actually did well getting a 29 year old guy to have sex with her 3 times.
Her experiences on Feeld are a lot like most average men's experiences on Tinder/Hinge/Bumble. In fact, she probably did better on Feeld than most men do on the conventional dating apps.
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I thought it most interesting part was the quote below from the article I linked above.
My peers weren’t quite fuccking all the time either. Marriage and kids got in the way. So did aging parents and midcareer obligations. This felt especially true of middle-aged women like me, on whom the brunt of caregiving and emotional needs are placed, and who “age out” of what is considered to be sexy in a woman.
Most people in extended relationships that you see do not have good sex lives. If they have been together 5+ years (often married 3+ years), their sex lives are usually lousy.
The biggest reason that people stop having sex isn't career demands, children, or caregiving for elderly adults. While all of these are obstacles, they are not root causes. The root cause of sexlessness in extended relationships is boredom due to extended monogamy. After a certain point (often around 5 years of total time in an exclusive relationship but can be less depending on the beta-ness of the man), women no longer are sexually around by their mates. This is important because women are the gatekeepers to sex.
The article below illustrates how these sexless social circles work.
Last week many of you emailed and Facebooked me links to a sad yet educational event on Reddit. If you don’t already know what I’m talking about, a husband created a spreadsheet tracking all the times he asked his wife for sex, notating when she...
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Her attitude was, "Hey, we had sex three times in 27 days! That's pretty good! And he's still complaining?!?"
If you've never been married to a woman, that probably sounds insane. Which it is. As a man who has been married, works with married men every day, and whose family and social circle is filled with married guys, allow me to explain exactly how this woman logic works. I don't normally talk about when I was married since it was so long ago, but this story will illustrate how mono-married women create these bizarre non-sexual bubbles for themselves, and reinforce them with other married women.
Confused at my frustration, she did what most women do: she talked to several of her girlfriends to get their opinions. All of these girlfriends were also married, and had also been married for longer than three years.
The response from all of them was "You fucck him three times A MONTH? Oh my god! I have sex with my husband like once every FOUR OR FIVE MONTHS! You're giving it to him three times a month and he's still complaining??? He should be thankful!!!"
I'm not exaggerating. That's exactly what they said.
That's how this works, folks. Post-three-year married women get bored with having sex with their own husbands, then band together with other post-three-year married women in frigid solidarity.
