My Experiences with Choosing Signals Part 1

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

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Yeah man, I just want to share some of my most memorable choosing signal experiences. First of all, let me say that, I have counted about 16 cases in my life, from 2006-2022, where I've received choosing signals from women (some more obvious than others).

I don't like (and I refuse) to cheat myself, so please believe that all of these cases, I truly believe that these women were choosing me (I am speaking of the ones which are not so obvious).

Also, all of my experiences were memorable in their own special way...but I will focus on the experiences which involves women that I was not much acquainted with, in order to keep things more entertaining.

If you recall (or gave a damn) about my choosing signal thread, I identified 3 of the most common ways that I woman will choose you...

1. You notice her constantly starting at you.

2. You notice her constantly in your vicinity.

3. She approaches you and expresses that she is feeling you.

Lets see how my experiences line up with those 3..

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Case 1: I was in the military, stationed at Fort Bragg and serving in Iraq. I opted to leave Fort Bragg and get reassigned to Fort Huachuca, AZ.

At the time, I was on a puzzy-spree, and after an emotional, amicable breakup with my girlfriend, I knew I was about to go to AZ and plant some seed around the state.

Anyways, there was a Burger King on post, not to far from the barracks.

I went into the the Burger King to grab a bit, and there was a tall, light-skinned woman (employee) behind the counter.

I could tell that even as I ordered my food, she just KEPT looking at me. She was walking back and forth working, but she KEPT looking my way.

At first, I didn't think anything of it. But when I sat down to eat my food, I kept looking her way to see if she was still looking at me...and she was.

It was OBVIOUS AS FUK...she just couldn't stop staring.

It was obvious that she was choosing me HEAVY.

So after I finished eating, I stood up to go. And when I stood up, I gave her the "phone" signal, and she caught on that I was asking for her number.

She gave me the "hold on" signal (when you put up your index finger).

Guess what she did next?

She came out to the dining area with a bucket and rag, and acted as if she was wiping off the tables, and discretely placed her number (which was on an empty receipt paper) on the table and continued as if she was wiping off the tables.

I grabbed the number off the table and left.

I got a room for the weekend, and it was ON LIKE DONKEY KONG.

When you find yourself raw deep in the puzzy of a woman who choose you, it is one of the best feelings in the world.

She choose me .

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Case 2: As mentioned above, I was stationed at Fort Huachuca, AZ. The town outside of FH is Sierra Vista.

Sierra Vista is a small little town, and I loved it.

The town had only a small handful of clubs, but the most popular club was Club Rendezvous.

I would go club-hopping through Sierra Vista and would normally hit up Rendezvous once or twice during the night. I didn't go there to dance or drink, I was always looking for puzzy.

On this particular night, I found it.

I was walking through the club, going out towards the main dance floor to see what kind of action was out there.

As I walked that direction, there was this dark-skinned black bbw WITH HUGE ASS TITTIES walking my way. We were walking the opposite direction and when we passed each other, we both did double-takes...my double-take was because of them big ass titties...and her double-take was because she saw a tall, handsome man.

So me and her began to talk and long story short, we wound up making-out on one of the lounges..she was ALL OVER ME. And we almost had a little bit of an audience, too. It was intense, a lot of intense, deep kissing and emotional touching...she was definitely letting it be known that I was the one.

The music was LOUD, but we had our our tune going on.

She wound up spending a night in my room at the barracks and I sealed the deal. We are both bigger than average sized humans for our genders, and the beds in the barracks aren't that large...but despite that minor inconvenience, me and her got it on and slept in each others arms for the night.

You could tell that as we spooned and she held my hands to her body, that she was in a mentally comfortable and content place.

And as MAN, that is how you want a woman to feel...safe, secure, and comfortable.

Indeed, she choose me

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Case 3: In my choosing signals thread, I briefly shared the story of how I met my wife..I will run through it again and add end-game depth.

It goes like this; I am now venturing to Phoenix, AZ for the weekends.

I had already conquered Sierra Vista and now it was time to expand my territory. There was one particular little spot (club) in Phoenix that I used to go to...but someone had referred me to an even smaller spot that was around the corner from this one. I went to that little spot to see what the action was looking like there.

When I walked in and surveyed the scene, I saw an attractive black woman stand up and point my direction, and she had the biggest smile on her face.

Me and her laugh about this today, she told me why she did it.

She told me that as she sat with her homegirl, her homegirl had asked her which one of the dudes in there that would she "take home tonight".

And that is when I just HAPPENED walked in, and she pointed to me..."that one".

That is how it happened, yall lol.

So when I saw her point to me, I immediately went over to holla at her. She was sitting on a stool at a high table with her homegirl...and I went over and spit game to her. She wore a black, low cut top with mouth-watering cleavage and the titties were BANGING.

As i stood there talking to her, I could see most of the guys in there hating...and at one point it seemed like the entire spotlight of the club was on us.

She sat there cheesing as I talked to her and we were vibing. I wound up touching her arm and noticed how silky smooth her skin was, and she told me that she "hydrates her skin".

I got her number, and after a while, I left.

When I got into the my car and sat in the parking lot, I texted her "you should come to my room".

Her: We were just getting ready to leave, too. Where is your room?

Me: At the Motel 6 in Tempe.

Her: Are you going there now?

Me: Yup. I am just leaving the parking lot headed that way.

Her: Ok, I will follow you.

So she wound up following me to my room. We get in the room, and we talked.

As we talked, I eventually asked her if I could suck them big ass titties, and she playfully told me no...but after a while I began to make sexual advances towards her and she began to relent.

I didn't get the puzzy that night, because she was determined not to give it up on the first night...

But two weeks later (only because of distance), I was knee deep in the puzzy, and the rest...is history.

Me and her laugh and joke about the entire thing, and she has a different recollection of the night in question than I...but don't believe her story, believe mines lol...because that is INDEED what happened lol.

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More experiences tomorrow...Part 2.

 

[The Duke]

Good stories, I think your concept is valid, but in order for it to work a man must have solid awareness. I think many struggle with this. A man needs to be in a position to pick up on the signals, interpret them correctly, then advance. That's really the key to being successful with women in any setting.

With your examples you were very observant of your surroundings, and were keyed in on potential prospects that might convey interest. Once they did,(chose you thru signals) you advanced and made it happen.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Good stories, I think your concept is valid, but in order for it to work a man must have solid awareness. I think many struggle with this. A man needs to be in a position to pick up on the signals, interpret them correctly, then advance. That's really the key to being successful with women in any setting. With your examples you were very observant of your surroundings, and were keyed in on potential prospects that might convey interest. Once they did,(chose you thru signals) you advanced and made it happen.

Correct...and in the cases I provided thus far, those were the more obvious cases.

I haven't shared the less-obvious cases yet where things weren't as obvious, but since I have a good grasp on how to interpret the signals/vibe, I can put those in my "she choose me" category.

The way things have been going for me along this journey, even when I am not out actively cold approaching, I am still discretely looking for choosing signals while I am out.

When you've dedicated a large portion of your life to always being on alert, it becomes second nature and you can't even walk out the house without your antennas up an running.

 

[2Rocky]

If you recall (or gave a damn) about my choosing signal thread, I identified 3 of the most common ways that I woman will choose you...

1. You notice her constantly starting at you.

2. You notice her constantly in your vicinity.

3. She approaches you and expresses that she is feeling you.

Lets see how my experiences line up with those 3..

This has been my experience. Most often when I am on my way to do something with a sense of purpose, and I make eye contact she returns it

Some examples:
Walking into a bar and I feel her eyes on me at that moment.

Stewardess coming off a flight caught my eye after looking me up and down. My female companion even noticed and made eye contact and grinned at her.

A woman in a beer line where I was serving said "I like your Hat". This has happened more than once and seems to be a common ice breaker for women.

A woman in line ahead of me in a sundress. She kept glancing at me and after she left she walked up to me in line and said "I'm headed home to my husband but I have to say you are just beautiful...." I've never been called beautiful before

A union rep in a grocery store talking with one of the employees made eye contact and made sure I could see the DD breast outline in her blouse. I discerned her role there when I stopped and chatted with her. I think I was buying diapers or something...

A cute single mom with a 5 year old little girl prompted the child to tell me "I like your boots", and we have a conversation at the store

Walking through a parking lot, an attractive and way too young for me 20 something girl is staring at me . I say hello, (just being polite) and she says "Where do I know you from?"

BUT most recently:
walking to the bleachers at a HS basketball game and a tall attractive blonde is on the court with others, shooting around but she is not in court shoes. In fact it's jeans and casual dress shoes. We make eye contact, smile and I go on my way... I ascertain from watching she is a new bench coach for my daughter's team. Two weeks later, during the team warm up, I take my daughter an inhaler, and BC sidles up next to me and asks which one is mine. I mention her name and BC immediately starts complimenting her. She says that my daughter reminds her of her teammate in high school she would practice with. Then she introduces herself...But I don't return with my name... I waited until she asked...then she starts giving details about her life.

What made this interaction so interesting to me is that at that moment, chatting up a parent is the last thing a coach wants to do. They are focused on the players and the game that is about to start in less than 5 minutes. If I wasn't in an exclusive relationship, and my mother, ex wife, and LTR weren't staring at me from 30 feet away, I might have suggested continuing the convo after the game. She was definitely giving the green light.

I think we can definitely give off an Approachable vibe if we work on it and use eye contact correctly...