First Date Cancel

[Harrison0409]

If a woman cancels the date what’s the best coarse of action?Also is it a **** test?

 

[SW15]

If she cancels with no effort to re-schedule, then you go no-contact. The interaction is likely dead.

If she offers a re-schedule, you can continue to communicate and work out details. In some cases, women that offer re-schedules are lower interest. There's much more gray area in this 2nd category.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Just dont be butthurt. Let suppose she said she was sick. Just write "No problem. Let me know when you feel better" and then you go no contact until she reaches out.

 

[Robert28]

If she cancels with no effort to re-schedule, then you go no-contact. The interaction is likely dead.

If she offers a re-schedule, you can continue to communicate and work out details. In some cases, women that offer re-schedules are lower interest. There's much more gray area in this 2nd category.

Be careful with this. I’ve had women cancel second dates the day of, then continue keeping contact with you like normal for a couple weeks after. They’d always say “hey I’m really sorry, vague reason, can we reschedule?” But they never follow through with the reschedule BUT they continue to text you.

 

[SW15]

Be careful with this. I’ve had women cancel second dates the day of, then continue keeping contact with you like normal for a couple weeks after. They’d always say “hey I’m really sorry, vague reason, can we reschedule?” But they never follow through with the reschedule BUT they continue to text you.

That's why I said there was gray area with this. She needs to offer a re-schedule with a concrete plan immediate.

Let's say she's canceling a Monday night date. Upon sending the cancellation text (women never call to cancel anymore), they need to immediately offer something like a Wednesday night or Thursday night option.

 

[Robert28]

That's why I said there was gray area with this. She needs to offer a re-schedule with a concrete plan immediate.

Let's say she's canceling a Monday night date. Upon sending the cancellation text (women never call to cancel anymore), they need to immediately offer something like a Wednesday night or Thursday night option.

Yep. I can’t figure out why they keep in touch like normal for a couple weeks afterwards after they cancel if they know they aren’t interested. Women are stupid.

 

[Zimbabwe]

I love how they always happen to get sick or have some family emergency, coincidentally right before the date is about to happen.

Move on and find someone who values tou, because clearly this one doesn't.

 

[corsica]

If the girl is interested in you, she will find time to see you.

The screenshot you posted shows that the girl is trying to reschedule so I wouldn't rule her out yet.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Let her know the ball is in her court with rescheduling and make zero effort to do anything unless she explicitly asks when you can get together.

 

[Harrison0409]

Let her know the ball is in her court with rescheduling and make zero effort to do anything unless she explicitly asks when you can get together.

I made sure to that in the text.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I made sure to that in the text.

You made it a little too easy on her and then basically made it seem like you had nothing else to do and would accept any day she chose.

 

[bat soup]

If a woman cancels the date what’s the best coarse of action?Also is it a **** test? View attachment 9172

- Something came up.
- That's understandable.

LOL.

 

[Rainman4707]

She has made an effort to reschedule....so accept her offer.

If she had flaked and made no counter offer then that's different.

I was meant to be meeting a girl yesterday. We had it planned. I texted her to say "we still on for today" heard nothing from her"

She just messaged me saying her phone was broke LOL. I seen her online yesterday....so she's a bare faced liar.

 

[The Duke]

Yep. I can’t figure out why they keep in touch like normal for a couple weeks afterwards after they cancel if they know they aren’t interested. Women are stupid.

Their desire for validation is strong. A man that keeps responding and entertaining her provides that.

 

[Gamisch]

Yep. I can’t figure out why they keep in touch like normal for a couple weeks afterwards after they cancel if they know they aren’t interested. Women are stupid.

Because had puts you on 24th place. Or maybe 4th, but not the top priority you'd like to be.

And besides that, she might assume you know the game well enough to figure it out yourself.

And let's be honest; we men sometimes also keep a "uglier " chick around ,keeping texting her in case there is nothing else to fvck.

- Something came up.
- That's understandable.

LOL.

Haha savage. But I am curious, can you elaborate why you dont like these responses?

 

[Harrison0409]

You made it a little too easy on her and then basically made it seem like you had nothing else to do and would accept any day she chose.

What would have you done? I’m here to learn and get ideas.

 

[Harrison0409]

- Something came up.
- That's understandable.

LOL.

What do you suggest,That’s the reason for this post.

 

[Robert28]

What do you suggest,That’s the reason for this post.

I suggest you do nothing. If you haven’t heard from her by now, who knows if you will or not. Probably better that you don’t becsuse the last thing you need is some validation ***** wasting your time texting when she never plans on rescheduling.

 

[bat soup]

What do you suggest,That’s the reason for this post.

I imagine what "came up" was probably another man's dik.

Words vs actions with women. A load of talk about wanting to meet means nothing if she doesn't actually turn up.

Excuses are excuses. I'd be sceptical and not be so accommodating. My interest would decline and I'd let it show.

More bs and I'd simply block her, because I don't like timewasters.

 

[Giovanni SouthSide]

Was it going to take her all day to help that supposedly family member.. what about after.. she shot that text at 8am
Would she still take all day if Drake hit her up to meet at 7pm at a certain joint?

Any female with peak sky interest is willing to meet up with you even at night fall if you set the mood and temperature right. I have had first dates with girls just sitting and talking in my car scoping out the skyline parked next to the San Diego bay almost hittin midnight.
You catch my drift..

you explained yourself too much and responded to quick with that reply. Beta vibes.
"understandable" what that she discarded you for the day?
"my work day starts at 5am" she dont give a sh1t about that. irrelevant.
"just let me know what works for you" nah she should be the one making cracks to slip on your watch, big dawg.

no need for all that. allure some mystery with women that you haven't fvcked

Puzzy is puzzy in these trying times.
Her weak counter is her last chance but I would have waited atleast 24 hours to reply to that sh1tty reeking of a lie text with a careless one liner
"hit me up when u in the area if i'm around lets grab something" a high interest woman will stay in touch and turn up