Went on a blind coffee date - I'm convince most millenials will be alone in old age

[Zimbabwe]

Ok. Somebody help out the old lady….Are “Zoomers” generation Z people? I’m guessing my kids are Zoomers at 14, 18, and 20 respectively.

My older two are both in stable LTRs and thinking marriage….

I agree that Millennials are a hot mess. I know several who are single never married no kids who just can’t date their way out of a paper bag….

Zoomer is anything from 1996 onwards, I'm a zoomer for example.

 

[The Duke]

Same here... whenever a woman uses words like "vibe" or "connection" or "spark" or "feel" it really sets off red flags for me.

That's because "vibe" or "spark" or "connection" are emotions, and emotions are fleeting. Which explains why sometimes a woman will be into a guy, and then 2 days later she completely ghosts him (because they "feeling' disappeared).

It's hard to find a woman that can find the balance between emotions and rational thinking.

And this is why you can't ever take women 100% seriously. This is also why they aren't good leaders in relationships. I'd never have a woman for a boss either for that reason.

The older I get the more my ears don't pick up sounds that come out of a woman's mouth. My relationships are a lot more satisfying that way. Lol.

 

[Canadian_Man]

You should have asked for her picture. That way you would know if it's even worth meeting her. Since 90% of women are ugly and the remaining 10% aren't generally going on blind dates, a blind date is almost guaranteed to be an opportunity to meet an ugly, fat entitled whale that wants you to pay for her lunch.

Well, one would assume his Aunt isn't going to set him up too badly.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Zoomer is anything from 1996 onwards, I'm a zoomer for example.

what do you consider 93?

 

[SW15]

what do you consider 93?

That's a Millennial. @Zimbabwe is also a late Millennial per Pew Research definitions. Gen Z doesn't start until 1997.

 

[Zimbabwe]

That's a Millennial. @Zimbabwe is also a late Millennial per Pew Research definitions. Gen Z doesn't start until 1997.

Some say 96 others say 97, I see myself as more of a zommwe than a Millennial anyways.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Some say 96 others say 97, I see myself as more of a zommwe than a Millennial anyways.

I feel like we are just cuspers. There's a lot of millennial stuff I grasp on too, but I can also grasp on to Gen Z stuff pretty easily too. There's also a lot of typical millennial stuff (older millennials) I cannot understand same with Gen Z stuff (younger Gen Zs).

 

[svencandy]

The redpill here is that beauty is a metaphysical concept that transcends age, and the materialistic world.
If she was bubbly, receptive to touch and fun, the date would have gone differently.
But in that case, the date never would have happened, because she would be a mother by now.
Materialistic desires suck your soul, and whilst it doesn't matter for women who are young, as they age it shows, not just on the outside, but also on the inside as you found out.
Blind dates usually involve these women.
Don't do them.

An old Japanese lady that I see at the sauna regularly tried to set me up with her daughter. She talked about her and asked if I was single. This lady has a beautiful energy, despite her looks not being what they used to.

Thought she was hitting on me, but ended up being she wanted me to date her 35yo daughter. She showed me photos, no life left in her face. Very pretty, but soul less.

 

[bat soup]

Well, one would assume his Aunt isn't going to set him up too badly.

Why would you assume that?

 

[bat soup]

Any woman that tells me she’s looking for a vibe, spark, romantic connection, I automatically next

The women looking for a "spark" are the same ones that just sit there without saying a word and expect you to entertain them. Or they ask probing questions about your finances whilst sucking down free food and looking at their phone.

 

[bat soup]

My aunt is a smooth talker and quite the salesperson. Somehow she managed to convince me to go into this blind, but she assured me this woman was my looksmatch (she didn't use those words, but that was the gist)....


I'm honestly more triggered at my aunt than I am at this 36yo infertile, average-at-best woman with a superiority complex..... and I'm triggered because my aunt thinks she was my looksmatch... she ain't....

The entitlement in modern women is truly off the charts...

The thing is, firstly another person has no idea what kind of look you will find attractive. What someone else things looks ok or attractive could look like a pile of garbage to me.

Secondly, women have this strange idea that men want to date women their age. We don't. Men want to date 20 year olds. Reason being, men want to date someone that they actually find attractive.

 

[Zimbabwe]

I feel like we are just cuspers. There's a lot of millennial stuff I grasp on too, but I can also grasp on to Gen Z stuff pretty easily too. There's also a lot of typical millennial stuff (older millennials) I cannot understand same with Gen Z stuff (younger Gen Zs).

Some Millennials are 41, I cannot for the life of my relate to that so I do agree, same with the young zoomers.

 

[corsica]

The problem with pictures is that women lie a lot in them. The amount of filters is so high that you don't even recognize the girl in person. I'm so sick of it that I simply can't bother with online dating.

 

[SW15]

Some say 96 others say 97, I see myself as more of a zommwe than a Millennial anyways.

I feel like we are just cuspers. There's a lot of millennial stuff I grasp on too, but I can also grasp on to Gen Z stuff pretty easily too. There's also a lot of typical millennial stuff (older millennials) I cannot understand same with Gen Z stuff (younger Gen Zs).

The oldest Millennials (1981-1984 birth years) don't have as much in common with the youngest Millennials (1993-1996 birth years). When 9/11 happened, some of the oldest Millennials had finished high school and some were in college. I was a college freshman when 9/11 happened. The youngeest Millennials were barely in Kindergarten or 1st Grade. The youngest Millennials weren't in the working world when the late 2000s/early 2010s recession hit, whereas the older Millennials were working by then, and older/mid Millennials often graduated some level of school around 2008. Hugely different experiences.

Younger Millennials (1993-1996) would have more common experiences with older members of Gen Z (1997-2000) than older Millennials (1981-1984). The second half of Gen Z still hasn't turned 18.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Soon enough she´ll be 40 and complaining there arent any good men available.

 

[LucianoM]

How low is this guys value isf a 36yr old hag nexted him lol

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Zoomer is anything from 1996 onwards, I'm a zoomer for example.

You sir are a Doomer.

 

[Gamisch]

How low is this guys value isf a 36yr old hag nexted him lol

Haha cut the man some slack..

Now ofcourse OP touches up on something interesting. The fact that middle aged women act entitled ect. But I agree with some posters that op made some ..lets say errors.

- no picture. How can you
not see a picture in this day and age? You didn't text her on what's app? No last name to Google her? No description from auntie?

-eagerness. Yeah , it sounded like pssy was presented on a silver plate huh? Woman told other woman you pretty, so that a 75% chance to tear that pssy apart..seemingly..imo you could have made the same post if she at least sucked you D or something ...

-actual game. I agree with @catsmeow2 . If I am correct this womam was average at best and did no effort to carry the conversation. So what's the problem? Good riddance!Sounds more like a case of a bruised ego then anything else. Still, as this is a seduction forum, you might wanna take critical look in the mirror and see IF you did do something to turn her off and work and that. It's a extreme discrepancy between a woman who likes you, gets hooked up with through family(!) and then completely turns 180 once you meet her. (In chess we would say you were in a winning position , but made a dumb blunder move to lose it). Something about YOU also was off. Figure that shyt out and grow as a man..

-unpopular opinion; a grown man shouldn't be hooked up by auntie's/mothers. If it works out, great. But when it doesnt,there will be extra pressure to hold up your " good reputation " and to make the ltr work. But this is just a hypothesis.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

-actual game. I agree with @catsmeow2 . If I am correct this womam was average at best and did no effort to carry the conversation. So what's the problem? Good riddance!Sounds more like a case of a bruised ego then anything else. Still, as this is a seduction forum, you might wanna take critical look in the mirror and see IF you did do something to turn her off and work and that. It's a extreme discrepancy between a woman who likes you, gets hooked up with through family(!) and then completely turns 180 once you meet her. (In chess we would say you were in a winning position , but made a dumb blunder move to lose it). Something about YOU also was off. Figure that shyt out and grow as a man..

-unpopular opinion; a grown man shouldn't be hooked up by auntie's/mothers. If it works out, great. But when it doesnt,there will be extra pressure to hold up your " good reputation " and to make the ltr work. But this is just a hypothesis.

I think you may be on to something. It's a fair question to ask - did a woman hooked up through family get thrown off by a player-ish vibe? She could have indeed been expecting someone more "safe". She's not middle aged though, she's 36 which might be the prime age on average for entitlement.

Lolz cats, sometimes things are a little more nuanced...

 

[Gamisch]

I think you may be on to something. It's a fair question to ask - did a woman hooked up through family get thrown off by a player-ish vibe? She could have indeed been expecting someone more "safe". She's not middle aged though, she's 36 which might be the prime age on average for entitlement.

Lolz cats, sometimes things are a little more nuanced...

I can understand OP's frustration tho.

That's why I mentioned in the last paragraph I personally dont like hook ups like this.

I can imagine that this woman somewhat got pushed into the date.

*auntie shows picture * yeah he is kinda cute* auntie says he single*.

Now she is on this date. They both feel the pressure from auntie. He gotta carry the convo, and she gotta prepare how to say he wasn't her type in womeneze language , yet in a respectfull way (still her fam ,right?).

Anyway on your personal journey its interesting to figure out why she made this seemingly 180 degrees turn. And yet always remember women are just like this sometimes, when you could've been prime Leo and still she doesn't feel it..

By the way gentlemen; NEVER ask a woman why she doesn't feel it. Even if it's for " learning purposes ".