What I learned about women…7 years of experience.

TheManMasenko

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Hey y’all,

I feel I understand women quite well. Since I was 14 years old, I always wondered what attracted women and I done silly things like wear expensive clothing ($300 jeans) and played sports like football to gain the attraction of women. Surprisingly, those efforts did not seem to work well in my interest.


Now, I have a better understand on why those things did not help me attract women. Plus, I’m certain now I understand the fundamentals on how to succeed with women.

Keep in mind, I’m short 5’6.5 and decent looking. For those who say looksmaxxing work…I thought that was my savior too but there’s more that meets the eye.

Here’s what I noticed about enhancing your chances with women and straying away from the average men who suffer…

1. Triple Cs Calm/Confident/Courageous

A thing ALL women (who I court) say about me is my attitude is sexy. Why? I’m calm. If a girl is acting loud, crazy or rude I don’t absorb her feminine behavior, I stay in order. They say I’m nonchalant.

In addition, I’m confident enough to introduce myself to new women, talk to new people and do what I please. I’ll also check my female if she says something out of line which most males don’t do.

And courageous, I’m a little nutty at times. Speeding wearing designer clothing ($300 jeans, etc). Sometimes you have to be exotic, be courageous.

2. Pride/Belief in yourself

Men won’t succeed with women because they have too much pride.

I lost a ton of opportunities because I didn’t have the pride to approach, I cared to much what others think and I didn’t stand on what I wanted for myself. I let opinions ruin my opportunities.

As men you need pride/belief/love for yourself, I used to not want to talk to a girl in the classroom because everyone would know my feelings/thoughts/desires…but now as a young man, you HAVE to express those desires. And if someone objects, you stand on what you believe/feel/thought.

And guess what simps, if a girl doesn’t like you. I recommend you do the walk of pride away. You’ll feel good about yourself.

3. Unfaithful/Liar

Lying is in the gray area, you can use it to build attraction but if you lie about pointless stuff, you cannot back: you will lose and be mislabeled.

I recommend you don't lie to women. The reason is to maintain a strong character in her eyes, a character which she can eventually respect and rely on. Lying will destroy/harm your social image.

4. Social Proof

We all know this one. No need to go in-depth, but I do recommend you develop meaningful relationships with male and female because they will be able to put you in doors with new females you would never have (about 75% of the women I ****ed was through another male/female friend).

I’d say in life, your social image is more important than anything else. And as someone who thought looksmaxxing would help lol it didn’t because I didn’t have any social/interaction skills.

You have to develop relationships, then status among your peers. Once you can do that, you’re going to be gold with women.

5. Be Unique at Work/Life

At school/work you have to stand out, dress nice, wear certain brands and let people know your different. You’re ****ing marketing bro…literally.

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Thanks for reading, I’m just giving insight on what helped me get more women .
 

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Hey y’all,

I feel I understand women quite well. Since I was 14 years old, I always wondered what attracted women and I done silly things like wear expensive clothing ($300 jeans) and played sports like football to gain the attraction of women. Surprisingly, those efforts did not seem to work well in my interest.


Now, I have a better understand on why those things did not help me attract women. Plus, I’m certain now I understand the fundamentals on how to succeed with women.

Keep in mind, I’m short 5’6.5 and decent looking. For those who say looksmaxxing work…I thought that was my savior too but there’s more that meets the eye.

Here’s what I noticed about enhancing your chances with women and straying away from the average men who suffer…

1. Triple Cs Calm/Confident/Courageous

A thing ALL women (who I court) say about me is my attitude is sexy. Why? I’m calm. If a girl is acting loud, crazy or rude I don’t absorb her feminine behavior, I stay in order. They say I’m nonchalant.

In addition, I’m confident enough to introduce myself to new women, talk to new people and do what I please. I’ll also check my female if she says something out of line which most males don’t do.

And courageous, I’m a little nutty at times. Speeding wearing designer clothing ($300 jeans, etc). Sometimes you have to be exotic, be courageous.

2. Pride/Belief in yourself

Men won’t succeed with women because they have too much pride.

I lost a ton of opportunities because I didn’t have the pride to approach, I cared to much what others think and I didn’t stand on what I wanted for myself. I let opinions ruin my opportunities.

As men you need pride/belief/love for yourself, I used to not want to talk to a girl in the classroom because everyone would know my feelings/thoughts/desires…but now as a young man, you HAVE to express those desires. And if someone objects, you stand on what you believe/feel/thought.

And guess what simps, if a girl doesn’t like you. I recommend you do the walk of pride away. You’ll feel good about yourself.

3. Unfaithful/Liar

Lying is in the gray area, you can use it to build attraction but if you lie about pointless stuff, you cannot back: you will lose and be mislabeled.

I recommend you don't lie to women. The reason is to maintain a strong character in her eyes, a character which she can eventually respect and rely on. Lying will destroy/harm your social image.

4. Social Proof

We all know this one. No need to go in-depth, but I do recommend you develop meaningful relationships with male and female because they will be able to put you in doors with new females you would never have (about 75% of the women I ****ed was through another male/female friend).

I’d say in life, your social image is more important than anything else. And as someone who thought looksmaxxing would help lol it didn’t because I didn’t have any social/interaction skills.

You have to develop relationships, then status among your peers. Once you can do that, you’re going to be gold with women.

5. Be Unique at Work/Life

At school/work you have to stand out, dress nice, wear certain brands and let people know your different. You’re ****ing marketing bro…literally.

——

Thanks for reading, I’m just giving insight on what helped me get more women .
Nah...women want THAT guy at the foam party OR the scumbag type guy. That's why I despise them.
 

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A thing ALL women (who I court) say about me is my attitude is sexy. Why? I’m calm. If a girl is acting loud, crazy or rude I don’t absorb her feminine behavior, I stay in order. They say I’m nonchalant.
Basically, you hold frame. Good stuff op. Thanks fro sharing
 

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C'mon man, the title of this thread is misleading.....you're barely out of high-school and talk about 7 years experience with women :p
 

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C'mon man, the title of this thread is misleading.....you're barely out of high-school and talk about 7 years experience with women :p
It's not misleading. In fact, if you want to discredit me due to age, thats fine. No worries. But I know for a fact, its someone younger than me with more knowledge about women and game, as the same for you. Regarding to this post, I DID NOT include anything that worked when I was younger but doesn't work now.

You just have to trust the source.

I've been trying my best to learn about females since I was 14, I read all the books (The Game, Rational Male, Models by Mark Manson), I talked to countless people (20 year old virgins and the players in highschool/college) and plus the most important, I reflect from my history with women because wisdom is everything.

I was lost and depressed since I was not able to attract women at a point in time. I thought being short was a death sentence (no kidding). But now, I realize it's just a feature of who I am.

Literally 48 hours ago, I went on a double date and the women asked me if I'm a "hoe". Me!? A "hoe"!? LMAO.

Let me leave you with this sir, your mindset is corrupted if you keep judging and discrediting, but not reflect, apply or challenge what I say in a meaningful manner you will lose not only in this argument but in life as a whole.

I'm the type of guy you'll see with a women taller than him and think "wtf". It already has happened. People dislike me for my success with women. I don't care either way. Plus, I'm still going to wear my true religion jeans. I paid $300 for them.
 

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C'mon man, the title of this thread is misleading.....you're barely out of high-school and talk about 7 years experience with women :p
Not a fan of him, but in 2004 Mark Zuckerberg started facebook while in college. In 2007 at the age of 23 he became a billionaire. Imagine the investors that rejected him because of lack of experience. Just making a point.
 

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1. Triple Cs Calm/Confident/Courageous
Id say confident, spontaneous, and surprising. Being spontaneous/surprising = fun guy. Women have always liked fun guys.

2. Pride/Belief in yourself
Agree but how do you show this when courting a girl? This is just mostly shown through confidence. Take no bullchit from females, its always worked for me.

3. Unfaithful/Liar
Disagree. This isnt as important to females as it is to males. Women like excitment and drama, a little lying and cheating give her the ingredients for this just dont over do it.

4. Social Proof
Disagree. Social proof is a term invented by the loser PUA crowd, doesnt mean chit to females. If she likes you,youre in, if she doesnt you're out. Doesnt matter how many friends you got or who you know.

5. Be Unique at Work/Life
Disagree. You dont have to be unique, you have to be fun to be around with.

You got alot more to learn kid.
 

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C'mon man, the title of this thread is misleading.....you're barely out of high-school and talk about 7 years experience with women :p
The optimistic 20s. At least he went to a co-ed school. Imagine if he went to an all boys school.
 

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Not a fan of him, but in 2004 Mark Zuckerberg started facebook while in college. In 2007 at the age of 23 he became a billionaire. Imagine the investors that rejected him because of lack of experience. Just making a point.
Not the same thing at all. If you want to draw this parallel, it would be like Zuck misleading investors that video game playing counts as IT and coding experience. OP's experience with ditzy teens is irrelevant to anyone who isn't still in high school, yet I went by the title and opened the tread expecting to learn something about dealing with women.
 
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