Do you think that fall is one of the best times of the year for dating?

[needimprovement250]

I mentioned this to another user in a previous thread awhile back, and I’ve had the idea to post this thread for months now. Since we’re practically in fall now, it seems like a good time. What made me wonder if anyone else thinks that fall is one the best times of the year for dating is that it seems like a lot of girls love all of those typical fall activities like going to a pumpkin patch, Oktoberfest, going to a haunted house, Halloween parties and dressing in couples costumes, etc. Then after that, the major holidays are just around the corner and they’ll have someone to spend those with as well. Now I know that this probably isn’t an across the board thing with all girls since I’m sure some just do these things that I mentioned with their friends, but I do think that a lot of girls also see these things as couples activities and if they’re currently single, they might be more actively trying to find a partner. What do you guys think?

 

[BillyPilgrim]

If you're a relationship guy and in the northern hemisphere (where winter coincides with the holiday season), then yes. If this is you OP then hit the scene hard now because they will be busy and locked down once December rolls around.

 

[SW15]

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I’ve spoken at length at this blog and in my books that certain times of the year are good for dating and meeting new women, and bad. Also, certain months are good for relationships while others are more risky or problematic for relationships. Today I...

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September and October are good months to try to find new dates if that's what you need.

In the Northern Hemisphere, November 15-January 1 is essentially a dead zone for forming new relationships. If you happen to meet new women during this time frame, good luck getting them to show up on dates because their lives become a mess of family obligations and often travel to said family obligations. The worst women for this are the transplanted adults in big cities, who are often White women with bachelor's degrees or higher working professional jobs.

The best option for meeting women during the November 15-January 1 "dead zone" is the private residence party within a social circle. If you can get yourself invited to one or more of those during "dead zone", you're ahead of the game. Stranger approaching and app swiping don't produce a lot of meaningful results during this period.

Some women will cuff a beta male (often one of their orbiters) during the Fall months to have a boyfriend around for the family holiday gatherings or even Valentine's Day. These relationships usually end either at the beginning of January or by March 1 at the latest.

 

[needimprovement250]

If you're a relationship guy and in the northern hemisphere (where winter coincides with the holiday season), then yes. If this is you OP then hit the scene hard now because they will be busy and locked down once December rolls around.

The 12 Months and How They Relate To Dating and Relationships - Alpha Male 2.0

I’ve spoken at length at this blog and in my books that certain times of the year are good for dating and meeting new women, and bad. Also, certain months are good for relationships while others are more risky or problematic for relationships. Today I...

alphamale20.com

September and October are good months to try to find new dates if that's what you need.

In the Northern Hemisphere, November 15-January 1 is essentially a dead zone for forming new relationships. If you happen to meet new women during this time frame, good luck getting them to show up on dates because their lives become a mess of family obligations and often travel to said family obligations. The worst women for this are the transplanted adults in big cities, who are often White women with bachelor's degrees or higher working professional jobs.

The best option for meeting women during the November 15-January 1 "dead zone" is the private residence party within a social circle. If you can get yourself invited to one or more of those during "dead zone", you're ahead of the game. Stranger approaching and app swiping don't produce a lot of meaningful results during this period.

Some women will cuff a beta male (often one of their orbiters) during the Fall months to have a boyfriend around for the family holiday gatherings or even Valentine's Day. These relationships usually end either at the beginning of January or by March 1 at the latest.

Thanks you guys for sharing your thoughts on this. I’m glad to hear that it actually is true about fall being a great time of the year to get dates and I would like to hit the scene hard for sure, but I feel like some changes need to be made before I do that because my SMV is very low since I’m currently a 29 year old NEET who lives in his parents basement. I think that as I am right now, most girls would probably take a pass on me, even in a dating environment where a lot of them are looking to couple up to the point where they’ll cuff a beta for fall and the holidays to follow. I’m gonna be starting school in a couple weeks and I plan on working a couple days a week or more as well, so I’ll soon be shedding that NEET status. Hopefully by me both working and going to school, that will make my living situation a little more understandable to them, but who knows. I could always use some of the money I’ll get from working to just get us a room since going back to my place isn’t an option.

 

[SW15]

my SMV is very low since I’m currently a 29 year old NEET who lives in his parents basement. I think that as I am right now, most girls would probably take a pass on me, even in a dating environment where a lot of them are looking to couple up to the point where they’ll cuff a beta for fall and the holidays to follow. I’m gonna be starting school in a couple weeks and I plan on working a couple days a week or more as well, so I’ll soon be shedding that NEET status. Hopefully by me both working and going to school, that will make my living situation a little more understandable to them, but who knows. I could always use some of the money I’ll get from working to just get us a room since going back to my place isn’t an option.

It is good that you are shedding your NEET status. It's difficult for a lot of women to understand a 29 year old man living at home. Your part time job while in school probably won't be a job that'll get panties to drop either, unless you give off a tattooed dirtbag type vibe. For instance, Walmart cashier women often have sex with deadbeat guys who don't have much going for them so long as they look decent and have a dirtbag vibe. Tattoos and a criminal record often help with this vibe. That's the angle you could play for getting women.

Keep doing what you're doing in improving. Realize that you have a long way to go.

How cool are your parents with your bringing home women for sex?

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

It depends, here in Houston September to October is hot girl summer power hour because it's still 90 degrees then you have the dead zone lol. It doens't get cold cold til Late January-February and by March its 80s.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

It's the best time to line up easy sex through the winter especially in colder climates.

Women will date a guy they aren't all that interested in just for the ability to snuggle and have sex regularly through the winter months and then breakup with them in the spring to try and find someone they are more interested in. This actually happened with me two years ago I believe...started dating this hot cross fit chick in October, banged regularly through late February and then she just kind of disappeared and got "busy". Found out later and ex "reappeared in her life" and she ended up starting to date him again. It was all good tho...while hot with an amazing body the sex wasn't great and I had to do most of the work...also one of the only women I have ever been with that complained I lasted too long and asked me where I got all my sexual energy from...although she had the tightest ass I have ever fvcked...literally took me 30 minutes to get c0ck in there..but once I was...she got hammered and gaped pretty good...still can see that in my mind and it's fvcking hot...wish I took a video of it.

So between now and October-ish, if you are the best option a woman can find in her mind, you likely are guaranteed sex through the winter months.

Once spring comes tho, you'll know what she really thinks of how things are going between you.

 

[The Duke]

Wonder how it works in Alaska when their nipples poke thru their eskimo suits 9months out of the year?

 

[MatureDJ]

It depends, here in Houston September to October is hot girl summer power hour because it's still 90 degrees then you have the dead zone lol. It doens't get cold cold til Late January-February and by March its 80s.

It can get cool enough there by late October.

 

[MatureDJ]

So between now and October-ish, if you are the best option a woman can find in her mind, you likely are guaranteed sex through the winter months.

Once spring comes tho, you'll know what she really thinks of how things are going between you.

It's OVER for SummerCels.

 

[corrector]

because my SMV is very low since I’m currently a 29 year old NEET who lives in his parents basement. I think that as I am right now, most girls would probably take a pass on me,

At least you are not a bald ethnic and fat 46 years old, so you might have a higher SMV than I do.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

It can get cool enough there by late October.

So high of 80s lol

 

[MatureDJ]

At least you are not a bald ethnic and fat 46 years old, so you might have a higher SMV than I do.

It's OVER for CorrectorCels.

 

[corrector]

It's OVER for CorrectorCels.

When did it start?

 

[MatureDJ]

So high of 80s lol

OK, by mid-November, on most nights it gets into the 50s.

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[corrector]

Women will date a guy they aren't all that interested in just for the ability to snuggle and have sex regularly through the winter months

That is not true.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

OK, by mid-November, on most nights it gets into the 50s.

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You get occasional bursts from the Siberia which takes the temp down a lot, but outside that it's in the 80s lol

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

That is not true.

Yeah where's my snuggle buddy then lol

 

[corrector]

Yeah where's my snuggle buddy then lol

There would be no incels if that were true.

 

[2Rocky]

Urban Dictionary: Cuffing Season

The cold season when everyone’s coupling up, so you settle for a new bf/gf way below your standards. ~Or~ you’re one of the smart ones who cozies up w Coors Light and your pupper bff.

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