I’ve never seen a Chad looking white guy with an Asian girl. It’s either the nerds or the feminine pajama boy ones. I’ve been on dates with Asian women but nothing successful lol
Asian women (not white washed) do NOT like muscular chads with tats. They genuinely like intellectual looking guys who look like they have a good job. They like thin guys too, but also have less hang ups, body wise.
it’s the same for Asian men. They don’t like western booty women, they don’t want big heffer backsides.
“Chad” is in the eye of the beholder. A lot of white women don’t like chads, they like dudes who are thin and ripped. In my experience, the lower the class of the woman, the more she goes for lowest common denominator tattoos n muscles n MMA.
A lot of women are turned on by status over all, and while the trad Chad look is probably physically attractive, tats and muscles is not the look of a high status guy. It’s the look of a squaddie in the military or a contractor. It’s attractive but it is deeply linked with manual work which is therefore low status.
In the same way, I find these modern booty women disgusting. Its like a cartoon character. Yet some men are mad for it, different strokes.
As an example, in my wife’s culture, they value male virginity. It’s mad, but it’s seen as highly desirable for a male to be untouched or at least not to have slept around.
The idea (also propagated on here in some corners) that a man goes Asian because he can’t get a white girl might be true for some men, but as you say, they actually like nerdy or quiet men. Thus, they might not score well with western, but why should we care? What if we don’t actually want to date a BPD feminist with an Instagram page and just want a wife material woman.
Weve experienced this disdain from time to time - mainly from older western women. They really hate to see a guy actually happy. My wife is 11 years younger and hot, loyal, educated….I chose this, and I’ll be more than happy long after my “conventional” counterpart has been through the divorce court. Or simply has seen the wife hit wall at 25. I’m good to have a hit wife till I’m at least 55. Asian women look great for their age right up to menopause. Different skin, no wrinkles, body type doesn’t sag.
So I’m more than happy to have the “loser”tag from some. We will see how that works out in the long run for them.