Where do you guys meet most of the women you date?

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Where do you guys meet most of the women you date?

 

[Zimbabwe]

Shopping Centres and the street in the CBD, usually around Pitt Street mall but i used to approach near the harbour as well but we don't get much expats and backpackers anymore.

 

[Glassguy]

Facebook primarily. And in real life (Social events, going out for drinks with friends, etc)

 

[Dr.Suave]

Years ago it used to be a mix of cold approching and OLD. Recently got better results with OLD so I dropped cold approaching.

 

[EyeBRollin]

I met them online, or approached them on vacation and work trips.

 

[biggoal]

I thought you were exc

Shopping Centres and the street in the CBD, usually around Pitt Street mall but i used to approach near the harbour as well but we don't get much expats and backpackers anymore.

I thought you mainly used old.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Tinder.
Work. Clients. Barista/clerk/waitress/bartender.
Convention attendees. Fellow guests @ hotel
Bars. Clubs. Coffee shops.

Not in any order

 

[Zimbabwe]

I thought you were exc

I thought you mainly used old.

Not for the past few months

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Where do you guys meet most of the women you date?

Cold approach. Mostly bars or clubs. Since the scam that is lock downs, all day game. Parks, dog parks, gyms, grocery store, post workout run or calisthenics.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Tinder.
Work. Clients. Barista/clerk/waitress/bartender.
Convention attendees. Fellow guests @ hotel
Bars. Clubs. Coffee shops.

Not in any order

Baristas lulz!

You sly dog you. I've done my brad pitt meet Joe black routine in coffee shops. Got some of the best throaters from these college girl Baristas. Teach them how to use their liberal arts degree going heels over head. Lulz!

Every set is PRACTICE. approaching as you had already ****ed her brains out is #money! The trick is to pickup in a crowded place but discreetly so that everyone doesn't know what you are doing. Not that I'd care anyway. I've pulled multiple from the same location just because it's funny and I wanted to flex.

 

[RobbyDog]

Facebook primarily. And in real life (Social events, going out for drinks with friends, etc)

How do you meet women on FB? Do you mean FB dating…or cold messaging? If the latter what do you say? I’d think most women would be creeped out by random messages from strangers…

 

[firstbornunicorn]

Outside

 

[Kdw8]

Social events, at my college, online.

 

[Glassguy]

How do you meet women on FB? Do you mean FB dating…or cold messaging? If the latter what do you say? I’d think most women would be creeped out by random messages from strangers…

Cold messaging. And a lot of women will message me after I add them.
It's not creepy if you do it right. A simple "hey what's up" will either get you a positive response or it won't. If it doesn't, move on.
I'd say 8 out of 10 message me back.

 

[Bingo-Player]

I don't "date" waste of time and money in this landscape

the harder you try to label it the harder she will try to play games

I try to establish off-line connection on cold approach if i see good opportunity

trying to do it the other way around online > offline often just ends in nothing as she has nothing invested in you , doesnt even know you and i also find women over analyse text based messages to the nth degree and turn themselves off you

If i see a girl i like (although i these days it has to be one i really like) , i will approach introudce myself and get her number

after that i will send some light banter and offer a nonchalant invitation for drinks / coffee whatever is the absolute minimum i can get away with

Anything other than a yes or a counter offer and i just go ghost

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Hinge or Bumble

 

[biggoal]

Cold messaging. And a lot of women will message me after I add them.
It's not creepy if you do it right. A simple "hey what's up" will either get you a positive response or it won't. If it doesn't, move on.
I'd say 8 out of 10 message me back.

Usually you have to be on their friends list or the message goes into a spam like box. Like if someone not on my friends list sends me a message it goes into another folder and you dont get a notification and they wont see the message unless they check the folder.

 

[eli77]

I don't "date" waste of time and money in this landscape

the harder you try to label it the harder she will try to play games

I try to establish off-line connection on cold approach if i see good opportunity

trying to do it the other way around online > offline often just ends in nothing as she has nothing invested in you , doesnt even know you and i also find women over analyse text based messages to the nth degree and turn themselves off you

If i see a girl i like (although i these days it has to be one i really like) , i will approach introudce myself and get her number

after that i will send some light banter and offer a nonchalant invitation for drinks / coffee whatever is the absolute minimum i can get away with

Anything other than a yes or a counter offer and i just go ghost
[/QUOTreally is the truth so 2005

 

[Striker_93]

Work and cold Approaching while I'm out running the streets.....

 

[Black Widow Void]

I’ve had decent success with “meetup.”

Should this be of interest to anyone, I’ll share my strategy.

I always attend a group that I would find interesting nevertheless (book club, philosophy group etc…) This way, it’s never a total loss, but I also look for “bonuses” and the bonus is when there are attractive women attending.

I never come on strong at the initial meet up (because women probably expect that and their resistance is up). I want to disarm them by not appearing like the typical attendee.

Sometimes reading their meetup bio can offer hints on great conversation openers . And other times, you just pick up on things and kind of go from there.

After I engage them, I keep the interaction brief and mingle around. Again I do all this to differentiate myself from the typical attending single guy.

And then… A couple of days later, I will send them an email with something related to our previous conversation. Naturally, not every woman I’ve written will respond, but the majority do. The best part? They’ve already met you, you’ve already differentiated yourself from the pack, and if they invest the energy to respond, they’ll normally invest the energy to meet one to one.

There is one minor drawback. If you enjoy some ‘lite-hearted’ fun with one of them … and they are wanting more, it could turn awkward. If they RSVP to a future event that you are also attending, you’ll likely want to un-RSVP from the upcoming event.