This is a good topic.
I think this depends on who you are and the women with whom you interact.
Roosh wrote an article in 2010 called "
American Girls Don’t Use Condoms Anymore"
I'm shocked at the behavior of American women when it comes to condom use. Middle class white girls are, hands down, the dirtiest, filthiest type of girl I've
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Here was Roosh's quote about the type of woman I have tended to interact with the most....
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Middle class white girls are, hands down, the dirtiest, filthiest type of girl I’ve been with. Most of them only care about using condoms for the first instance of sex, and a sizable percentage don’t even care if you use one at all for that first time, whether or not it’s a one-night stand where she has only known you for a couple hours."
I am a regular condom user. I like to sleep well at night. I don't need any baby or STD scares. It's possible that I could have gotten more women to agree to go condomless if I chose to do that.
I prefer to know the woman's birth control status before having sex with her. You can usually get the information by the second or third in-person interaction with her.
The majority of women I've had sex with were using some sort of birth control when I was having sex with them. Most were in no rush to have kids.
I had one extended girlfriend who was insistent about condoms since she didn't want to use hormonal birth control. That was fine.
Another woman I met who wasn't on birth control didn't want me to use a condom with her. We were on our third date and sex was about to happen. I knew she wasn't on birth control. She didn't want me to use a condom and she wanted me to finish inside her. At the time, she was 35 and childless. I was not going to do that.
If you're a man having sex with women within 3-5 dates, it is better to use condoms with those types of women.