Fixing a girl’s pair bonding

[anonymous12345]

I have a crush on a HB that has the traits of that no guy is good enough for her, spend her time on Tinder and at best odd at date-ish communication. So when @Dash Riprock wrote:

“She can't pair bond, doesn't know how to date or is constantly looking for an upgrade.”

I suspected this was spot on for this girl. At the same time, I recognise myself in her — I think many of us have these traits. @Dash Riprock says they’re a waste of time, and hence NEXTing is the action. But I wonder, can’t one fix them?

My idea is to seed to her friend in a subtle manner precisely this, essentially’s @dash Riprock’s quote above, such that she can coach her friend, the HB.

What do you guys think?

 

[TheProspect]

You can't "fix" anyone other than yourself.

You're better off meeting and dating women who aren't broken.

Good luck

 

[Robert28]

The Wall will humble her. Won’t fix her, but it’ll damn sure humble her. Just give it time and let it do its thing.

 

[Plinco]

Don't concern yourself with just one girl. The best way to approach her is to not have a crush on her and have other girls you are already seeing.

The Wall will humble her. Won’t fix her, but it’ll damn sure humble her. Just give it time and let it do its thing.

That makes everyone a loser, her and him both.

 

[devilkingx2]

If you were in the position to fix her you would already have her. The only way to fix someone is to convince them to go to therapy and take it seriously.

My idea is to seed to her friend in a subtle manner precisely this, essentially’s @dash Riprock’s quote above, such that she can coach her friend, the HB.

Unless her friend is your sister or something, there's no way you'll have this much influence.

 

[Genetic Error]

lmao just **** it for as long as u can. use her for her body. nothing else. for your own good sir.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Fixing a girl’s pair bonding

You can't fix a chicks body count.
Its a well know and accepted fact that the more dudes a girl have sex with, the more she loses the ability to pair bond with a man.
The more dude a girl sleep with the more broken she becomes, so she eventually belongs to the streets.

Also the @TheProspect said it is also a fact that quote "The only one you can fix is yourself"; which is very true.

 

[Dr.Suave]

The juice is not worth the squeeze. It would be easier to find a unicorn than to fix an alpha widow

 

[EyeBRollin]

You can’t fix a woman. Especially a highly used woman. Don’t even think about it.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I have a crush on a HB that has the traits of that no guy is good enough for her, spend her time on Tinder and at best odd at date-ish communication. So when @Dash Riprock wrote:

“She can't pair bond, doesn't know how to date or is constantly looking for an upgrade.”

I suspected this was spot on for this girl. At the same time, I recognise myself in her — I think many of us have these traits. @Dash Riprock says they’re a waste of time, and hence NEXTing is the action. But I wonder, can’t one fix them?

My idea is to seed to her friend in a subtle manner precisely this, essentially’s @dash Riprock’s quote above, such that she can coach her friend, the HB.

What do you guys think?

Break up with her. Locario just did a thing on if you feel a girl is "hot" or "too hot" just break up with her, your in the wrong mindset for anything good to happen.

When your with a babe and you feel good about yourself, it won't be this over elevating of them over you. You will think she's attractive, but you will also feel worthy of her and more.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Wtf is "pair bonding" supposed to mean anyway

Humans aren't supposed to "pair bond" they are supposed to fvck and reproduce in tribes like all other mammals

this nonsense of having to solely posses another person as a partner is ridiculous

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Wtf is "pair bonding" supposed to mean anyway

Humans aren't supposed to "pair bond" they are supposed to fvck and reproduce in tribes like all other mammals

this nonsense of having to solely posses another person as a partner is ridiculous

There's natural hormones that won't h ave men naturally sharing his b1tch. Anything outside that is due to social conditioning.

 

[SW15]

You can't fix it. Her ceiling is an extended bf-gf relationship and she's also not likely to reach the ceiling. Don't put a ring on it.

 

[Bokanovsky]

I have a crush on a HB that has the traits of that no guy is good enough for her, spend her time on Tinder and at best odd at date-ish communication. So when @Dash Riprock wrote:

“She can't pair bond, doesn't know how to date or is constantly looking for an upgrade.”

I suspected this was spot on for this girl. At the same time, I recognise myself in her — I think many of us have these traits. @Dash Riprock says they’re a waste of time, and hence NEXTing is the action. But I wonder, can’t one fix them?

My idea is to seed to her friend in a subtle manner precisely this, essentially’s @dash Riprock’s quote above, such that she can coach her friend, the HB.

What do you guys think?

You want to “subtly” ask her friend to fix this woman’s deep-seated mental issues?? You’re out to lunch.

 

[derby1]

Its a well know and accepted fact that the more dudes a girl have sex with, the more she loses the ability to pair bond with a man.

literally leaves them like an empty vessel inside, you can always tell because they lose that sparkle in their facial muscles/eyes

the best way I can describe it is, "they look like they constantly lost their pet puppy 4 hours ago, and have just got over crying"

green snake eyes I dont trust either

oh and a smashed phone screen

 

[Who Dares Win]

A sticker that gets attached and pulled too many times run our of glue...cant be expected to work as before.

Pair bonding happens when enough glue exists, better yet when a sticker is open and used right after once for all.

 

[Striker_93]

We don't try to save these hoes......

 

[AureliusMaximus]

green snake eyes I dont trust either

It is also called "The 1000 C0ck Stare"

This derives from the same look people has in wars from shells raining down and exploding e.g. "The 1000 Yard Stare" that soldiers first was noticed to have during the world war one where the solders life energy is gone in their eyes.


Same applies to women that has had too many sex partners where their eyes are totally dead.


Men we are built for sex with no feelings. it is in our DNA:


Women on the other hand need some connection where she feels something for the sex partner which it is also why it is way worse when women cheat because we men can just have sex with any women without any feelings involved and still have partner at home that we love and would do "anything" for. Women cannot do this without any feelings involved and thus, they have already feelings for the new guy and she is already out the door with one leg or less from the old relationship...

 

[derby1]

It is also called "The 1000 C0ck Stare"

This derives from the same look people has in wars from shells raining down and exploding e.g. "The 1000 Yard Stare" that soldiers first was noticed to have during the world war one where the solders life energy is gone in their eyes.
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Same applies to women that has had too many sex partners where their eyes are totally dead.

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Men we are built for sex with no feelings. it is in our DNA:
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Women on the other hand need some connection where she feels something for the sex partner which it is also why it is way worse when women cheat because we men can just have sex with any women without any feelings involved and still have partner at home that we love and would do "anything" for. Women cannot do this without any feelings involved and thus, they have already feelings for the new guy and she is already out the door with one leg or less from the old relationship...

yeah well aware of it

although i think the girl looks more suspicious in her 2007 pic

 

[anonymous12345]

Break up with her. Locario just did a thing on if you feel a girl is "hot" or "too hot" just break up with her, your in the wrong mindset for anything good to happen.

When your with a babe and you feel good about yourself, it won't be this over elevating of them over you. You will think she's attractive, but you will also feel worthy of her and more.

This definitely speaks to me.

But at the same time it feels bad to be with something "easy" when one could have had the hotter chick if... one was better.

I'd then rather work on myself, such that one is in the right mindset. I don't know if it's about something more than confidence and self image.