Poonstra
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Feb 27, 2018
- Messages
- 267
- Reaction score
- 189
- Age
- 46
Anyone here have any experience with them? I usually don't mess with them cause they are a pain to meet up with. They're here on holiday and have busy schedules usually anyways. I matched with one of them on tinder and this one seemed to put in some effort. Apparently she works here as a chef. I suggest we should cook Chines food together and we sent up a date. She told me we had to go get some stuff before we go to my place when we meet.
On the evening in question I go to the train station to pick her up and 10 minutes before our agreed upon time I get a text she had arrived. She's early (+1). She has a huge bag full of stuff that she brought for the meal(+1). At this point I find out she doesn't speak any English, like three words. She'd been using a translator app. Any further conversation we had was mostly done through this app, she talked Chinese into it and out came Dutch, and visa versa.
We go to a Chinese shop to get some herbs and spices and she wants to pay (+1), I of course refuse as she's already cooking. Afterwards to the butcher, again she want's to pay (+1), which I refuse. Off to the supermarket to get some vegetables, we walk past the wine section and I ask I've she wants a drink. The expression on her face tells me she doesn't like alcohol (+1) she wants to pay again, and I let her (+2), it was 6 Euros or something.
On the way to my place we walked past that Chinese shop I mentioned before and she wants to get some chopsticks, she pays again (+2).
After arriving at my place she immediately gets to work, and spends like 2,5 hours cooking, making like 5 dishes, from the stuff that we got and she brought with her. It was all really good and way to much, my fridge is still full with the food she made (+7). While eating she apologized for not putting in more effort (+2), like what? Why? I already thanked her a couple of times and helped her out in the kitchen so it wasn't like I was ungrateful. After dinner she told me she didn't like to travel alone late at night so she had to go. She apologized profoundly for not cleaning my kitchen (+3).
We walk back to the train station, I stop her and we kiss, her technique was a bit crude, I'm guessing she has NOT been around the block (+2).
I rate this first date a 23 out of 10, even if there wasn't any sex.
I know Asian culture are more polite then us in the west, I've lived in Indonesia as a child, but is this normal? I seemed a bit over the top. She's been initiating text messages and we're seeing each other again this Monday.
Why are we dealing with these western b!tches again?
On the evening in question I go to the train station to pick her up and 10 minutes before our agreed upon time I get a text she had arrived. She's early (+1). She has a huge bag full of stuff that she brought for the meal(+1). At this point I find out she doesn't speak any English, like three words. She'd been using a translator app. Any further conversation we had was mostly done through this app, she talked Chinese into it and out came Dutch, and visa versa.
We go to a Chinese shop to get some herbs and spices and she wants to pay (+1), I of course refuse as she's already cooking. Afterwards to the butcher, again she want's to pay (+1), which I refuse. Off to the supermarket to get some vegetables, we walk past the wine section and I ask I've she wants a drink. The expression on her face tells me she doesn't like alcohol (+1) she wants to pay again, and I let her (+2), it was 6 Euros or something.
On the way to my place we walked past that Chinese shop I mentioned before and she wants to get some chopsticks, she pays again (+2).
After arriving at my place she immediately gets to work, and spends like 2,5 hours cooking, making like 5 dishes, from the stuff that we got and she brought with her. It was all really good and way to much, my fridge is still full with the food she made (+7). While eating she apologized for not putting in more effort (+2), like what? Why? I already thanked her a couple of times and helped her out in the kitchen so it wasn't like I was ungrateful. After dinner she told me she didn't like to travel alone late at night so she had to go. She apologized profoundly for not cleaning my kitchen (+3).
We walk back to the train station, I stop her and we kiss, her technique was a bit crude, I'm guessing she has NOT been around the block (+2).
I rate this first date a 23 out of 10, even if there wasn't any sex.
I know Asian culture are more polite then us in the west, I've lived in Indonesia as a child, but is this normal? I seemed a bit over the top. She's been initiating text messages and we're seeing each other again this Monday.
Why are we dealing with these western b!tches again?
