Best strategy to communicate you are not waiting for sex?

[Marc_zeus]

What do you guys think? Because i think if some girls want to make you wait and jump through hoops in order to sleep with you, for some reason they dont see you as attractive and masculine man as you hope to be in their eyes. That same girls that want to make YOU wait, and telling you "i am not that type of girl", that same girl sucked someone's co.k at a club's bathroom and fu.ked some guys same night they meet and probably was only a fu.k toy for some other guy.
So my question is what is the best way to communicate ( or show it ) to her that she misjudged you, and you are not some simp type of guy she can string along and make you wait?
I am asking this because i had 2 girls in last three months who tried to pull this "good girl facade", and " i need to really get to know someone first" with me, and one who pulled this sh.t with my good friend.
Thank's !

 

[bat soup]

Grab Em by the PUsssy.

 

[Kdw8]

Stop trying to force stuff. Also how would you know that she sucked another dude off? Your hovering her in hopes she will give you sex, and then fuxk her over afterwards, which really doesn't make sense why folks on this site aim to cause uneccesary pain to people for an ego boost or whatever they think they get from it. I guess I'm not getting it, I don't find it as deep as people make it, maybe she doesn't view sex as beneficial or desirable with you. I'd leave it alone.

 

[kavi]

Bro, so whats our view on sex? Do you just wanna get laid, do you want a long term thing. If you fck a girl, do you still wanna see her afterwards or are u just there for sex.

Figure out what you want and then let her know. Lead the situation yourself. Then its upto her to accept it or not.

 

[Atom Smasher]

A van and some rope will usually suffice to get the point across.

 

[Marc_zeus]

Bro, so whats our view on sex? Do you just wanna get laid, do you want a long term thing. If you fck a girl, do you still wanna see her afterwards or are u just there for sex.

One of those two is really great girl, with good personality and fun to hang out, so i wouldnt mind dating her ( would it be serious or not i cant say from the get go, that takes some time to see ). But i really do believe in monosphere mantra "alfa fux and beta bux" and "Girls makes rules for betas but brake that same rules for alfas and that you simply can't negotiate genuine sexual desire." I dont know about you, but i think that fast sex ( first or second date ) show that genuine desire from her part, and show you that she doesn't see you as beta-simp provider and nothing more.

Sorry, english is not my first language, so i cant put it in writing exactly what is on my mind, but i guess to put it simply my question is what would be some strategy or tactic to shift girl's view of you e.g. " i thought this guy was some beta nice guy who i can string along and manipulate, but i was wrong. He actually is alfa fux kind of guy". I know this sound stupid but i cant find better words to describe what i am asking you.

 

[Mike32ct]

You just said it yourself. You can’t negotiate genuine sexual desire.

I would do everything you can to max out your looks/appearance. Your hairstyle and fitness need to be on point.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Just have a date thats fun for you. At the end of the night initiate and escalate until she open her legs or stops you.

If she stops you before home run just shrug it off and try again next date. In my experience, its cool if she stops you as long as she lets you go farther each date.

 

[2Rocky]

I recall one of my quickest Meet to Bed experiences, that happened in a hotel bar.

...we talked alone at the the bar one on one for about another 30 minutes. Being a hotel bar, it shut down at 11 or 11:30, so the bartender gave us one more drink before last call. We finished the drink, and most of my crew had left so I walked her to the elevator. In the elevator, I enveloped her in a kiss as we rode to her floor. She said "I'd take you to my room but I don't want you to think I'm that kind of girl." I kissed her, shrugged and said ""OK". then hit the button to my floor and watched the door close...."​

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....So I went back to my room and fished out the business card she had handed me. It had only one phone number on it , so I sent a short text:​

"Yes, but I am that kind of guy."​

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She replied​

"My room #XXX"​

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In 5 minutes, I was there, and I left just in time for my morning meeting....​

 

[EyeBRollin]

The best strategy to not wait for sex is…

…. to not wait for it. If she’s not putting out stop contacting her. Find a new chick.

 

[Barrister]

Escalation subtlety communicates this automatically to the woman. You should be escalating on your dates using kino. Some women are not going to put out on Date 1 or even 2, but if you are not getting sex by Date 3 (Date 4 at a maximum), it is time to just move on. In this day in age no woman past Age 21 is going to be a virgin - so waiting more than that just means she is not physically attracted and you should stop wasting your time and money.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

You have to be slightly forward from the very first interaction and escalate subtly from there until she demonstrates or communicates sexual interest. And calibrate from there. Easier said than done, but generally if you are unsure about a girl's intent you have to favor attraction over comfort in your approach.

In your specific case, when the girl has already established an opinion of you and you would like to change that, you will have to go radio silent for at least a couple of months and then reengage. I would wait until the weather is warmer and all of the Hellidays are over (especially Valentine's Day). During cuffing season you will see more "make the guy wait for sex" behavior. This advice also applies if you are in the southern hemisphere.

 

[BadBoy89]

I am asking this because i had 2 girls in last three months who tried to pull this "good girl facade", and " i need to really get to know someone first" with me, and one who pulled this sh.t with my good friend.
Thank's !

Do the same thing you did with those 2 girls.

 

[devilkingx2]

The first method is to ignore what she says and escalate for what you want anyway.

If that doesn't work you show her with your actions by lowering your investment (less attention, etc.) Or you just move on to the next girl 100% and let the other girl hit you up when she wants to be more fun.

I will also add that it doesn't have to be an extremely fast hookup. Just as long as it doesn't take months or cost you a lot of money or require passing 100 **** tests.

 

[HaleyBaron]

I recall one of my quickest Meet to Bed experiences, that happened in a hotel bar.

...we talked alone at the the bar one on one for about another 30 minutes. Being a hotel bar, it shut down at 11 or 11:30, so the bartender gave us one more drink before last call. We finished the drink, and most of my crew had left so I walked her to the elevator. In the elevator, I enveloped her in a kiss as we rode to her floor. She said "I'd take you to my room but I don't want you to think I'm that kind of girl." I kissed her, shrugged and said ""OK". then hit the button to my floor and watched the door close...."​

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....So I went back to my room and fished out the business card she had handed me. It had only one phone number on it , so I sent a short text:​

"Yes, but I am that kind of guy."​

​

She replied​

"My room #XXX"​

​

In 5 minutes, I was there, and I left just in time for my morning meeting....​

I love that routine. It catches them off guard. They're prob so use to guys who try to fish for a "yes." No, you make her marinate and then come to you. One of the oldest player tips.