How Do You Find Another Girl For a Threesome

[Zimbabwe]

So I was having a chat last night with my girlfriend, long story short we started talking about threesomes. She is on board with the idea as long as i don't "kiss the other girl" during it. She says it would be too awkward with one of her friends but she's willing to do it with a New girl.

How exactly can I find another girl that is willing to go along with this? Do people set up Tinder profiles specifically for this or cold approach random women asking about this? I've never experienced a threesome before and I really want to try it out.

 

[SargeMaximus]

This is what ended my last relationship. She seemed down until she realized I could get other girls, then she got insecure. Hopefully it’s different in your case but tread carefully

 

[Zimbabwe]

This is what ended my last relationship. She seemed down until she realized I could get other girls, then she got insecure. Hopefully it’s different in your case but tread carefully

I thought that would be a really good example of dread game?


Idk if mine would be different since she claims to be bisexual (she's never been with a girl though).

 

[SargeMaximus]

I thought that would be a really good example of dread game?


Idk if mine would be different since she claims to be bisexual (she's never been with a girl though).

What do you mean dead game? My ex got insecure in our relationship and realized she couldn’t control me so started getting distant and we know how that ended.

my ex is bi too. It was her idea in fact at least, she’s the one who brought it up first

 

[Zimbabwe]

What do you mean dead game? My ex got insecure in our relationship and realized she couldn’t control me so started getting distant and we know how that ended.

my ex is bi too. It was her idea in fact at least, she’s the one who brought it up first

Dread Game is an approach that applies a certain degree of fear of loss or competition anxiety in an interaction or a relationship.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Dread Game is an approach that applies a certain degree of fear of loss or competition anxiety in an interaction or a relationship.

Yeah ime that anxiety caused her to jump ship. Things were great before we began looking for new girls and dating them also after we moved in so prolly a combo of both

 

[corrector]

You sound like you have a void since you are not satisfied and continually want more and more, etc... I pick this up with your posts. You are barking up the wrong tree. Voids aside, your gf has a much better chance of getting a hotter girl online than you do. Women have no problem finding women or men with OLD and think more than half of women online are bis or lessies anyway. She would have to set it up the whole thing.

 

[Billtx49]

She is on board with the idea as long as i don't "kiss the other girl" during it.

How exactly can I find another girl that is willing to go along with this?

She’s ok with you boinking another girl in all her holes, maybe even a bj, but you can’t kiss her…
Lmao

Find one in your harem, or if you don’t, then she does if she’s down for it.
If she’s not down, then it’s only your fantasy and you should drop that idea, it makes your current girl think she’s not enough and you only want sex…
Then she feels used and it’s game over.

 

[zekko]

She is on board with the idea as long as i don't "kiss the other girl" during it.

This caught my attention also. Seems like an odd place to draw the line. This seems to be the way the modern world works today. Actual intercourse is not seen as intimacy. But don't kiss her.

 

[SargeMaximus]

This caught my attention also. Seems like an odd place to draw the line. This seems to be the way the modern world works today. Actual intercourse is not seen as intimacy. But don't kiss her.

It was the same with my ex. I’ve even fvcked girls before who had that as a prerequisite

 

[zekko]

It was the same with my ex. I’ve even fvcked girls before who had that as a prerequisite

You mean the girl let you bang her, but not kiss her? Or that your ex let you bang other girls as long as you didn't kiss them?

 

[SargeMaximus]

You mean the girl let you bang her, but not kiss her? Or that your ex let you bang other girls as long as you didn't kiss them?

Both.

 

[zekko]

Both.

I see. The world's a strange place.

 

[SargeMaximus]

I see. The world's a strange place.

There are several theories on why. I read a pua article once that said women only want to be fvcked by alphas not intimacy. The other theory is that yes no intimacy because they didn’t want to get attached

 

[zekko]

There are several theories on why. I read a pua article once that said women only want to be fvcked by alphas not intimacy. The other theory is that yes no intimacy because they didn’t want to get attached

But here even you are saying that kissing is more intimate than intercourse, which is what I find strange.

Reminds me of the basic PUA premise "Well, I don't like the girl, she's proven herself unworthy, so I won't go out with her but I'll bang her instead".

 

[corrector]

But here even you are saying that kissing is more intimate than intercourse, which is what I find strange.

Reminds me of the basic PUA premise "Well, I don't like the girl, she's proven herself unworthy, so I won't go out with her but I'll bang her instead".

Porn like sex is not intimate. Banging is more pornish than making love, etc.... Doggie style is definetely not intimate.

 

[devilkingx2]

But here even you are saying that kissing is more intimate than intercourse, which is what I find strange.

Reminds me of the basic PUA premise "Well, I don't like the girl, she's proven herself unworthy, so I won't go out with her but I'll bang her instead".

Well the idea behind that one is that sex is most likely for you and your benefit so having sex with her could be purely selfish. (And even if that's what she wants too you still get what you want)

Kissing being more intimate than sex definitely seems like a perspective of a slvt or a sex worker or someone who watches tons of porn though. I understand it because I watch tons of porn lol.

 

[manfrombelow]

No sane girlfriend would be truly OK with the idea of seeing her bf fvck another girl.

And keep note that one day she might ask for the same thing aka threesome with another guy.

 

[metalwater]

Dread Game is an approach that applies a certain degree of fear of loss or competition anxiety in an interaction or a relationship.

Definition of DREAD

to fear greatly; to regard with awe; to feel extreme reluctance to meet or face… See the full definition

www.merriam-webster.com

It means that you don't do it or you don't get caught. giving her video evidence and including her is a bad idea. as you know, girls say all sorts of things for all sorts of reasons.

If you want that experience just go hire it someplace.

Dread game is all about her wanting you to be hers because others want you. Somehow it's only effective if you're able to make good on the threat but don't. When you make good on the threat and she has proof, the clock starts ticking.

Think "orbiters" orbiting you just waiting for you to say yes. If she knows this, thats dread game. If she catches you or is involved with it thats not dread game it's something else.

I know some very high-value men that get away with having mistresses that they pay for. It's like having another family that's yours that you visit sometimes. The wives know and accept it; because of the value of the man. Thats not dread game, that's just being super high value.

 

[SW15]

There are apps for this, specifically for threesomes etc.

There are. Feeld is one of the main apps for this. Feeld was previously known as 3nder.

Unattached women who are seeking to be thirds for couples on apps are rare. They could probably be called unicorns, just like unattached women seeking to be thirds for couples were called unicorns for in-person swinging communities.

The experience of picking up a woman to be a third on an app resembles being a 50th percentile guy trying to get your dicck wet on Tinder from one woman in 2021-22. In other words, a complete waste of time.

If you want to pick up a female 3rd for a threesome, I would recommend doing it through real life means. Probably in-person social communities around that idea rather than Feeld.