We are most attracted to women in our league

[Guy69JackBlue]

That would make a 9 go to a 5.

I always joke with my one friend over this one chick years back that had a "triple take" face. This girl was so pretty she made you do three quick takes.

She looked like the actress Cassie Sczerbo from Sharknado

Anyhow, I would say "I bet her ass smells like roses". I was in denial a woman that hot took disgusting dumps and farted.

When I see girls who obviously try to exaggerate how "pretty" they are... My instinct has become to look away and give them no attention. I actually find it offensive and childish that they think all it takes to get to the top is to put on some makeup.

 

[metalwater]

Its easy to have a mindset when the money is backed by gold rather than a fake it until you make it approach.

you mean that your mindset has to be authentic instead of secretly knowing you are not it. you secretly have to know that you are it.

 

[DonJuanjr]

I actually find it offensive and childish that they think all it takes to get to the top is to put on some makeup.

Top of what?

 

[SargeMaximus]

Top of what?

Top of the D

 

[BadBoy89]

As a woman I only entertain men who show interest in me. I’m considered pretty attractive but I’m not everyone’s cup of tea (and few men who find me attractive appeal to me)…so the subset is reduced to men who show interest in me AND who appeal to me. But even in that subset I never lack for options.

Other than looks, what makes you not everyone‘s cup of tea?

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

Other than looks, what makes you not everyone‘s cup of tea?

I would guess Narcissistic Personality Disorder

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

Top of what?

The top of society. The upper classes. To be better than those they decide they can now look down on because of their makeup and Snapchat filters.

 

[Grounded eagle]

Sure, an 8+ is nice to look at, but subconsciously you won't feel comfortable going out with her because of the looks imbalance.

Poppycock.Malarky. I have never felt this way.

 

[Grounded eagle]

Its easy to have a mindset when the money is backed by gold rather than a fake it until you make it approach.

I have seen so many guys come good with women because they faked it until they made it.There is merit to the philosophy,as long as it leads to lasting changes within an individual.

 

[DonJuanjr]

The top of society. The upper classes. To be better than those they decide they can now look down on because of their makeup and Snapchat filters.

Seems to me, that's what females do to climb the ladder. They look pretty, and latch on to guys who do the work. So in a way, those females are climbing the female ladder by doing that. I guess they'd have a right to look down on other females, but they're delusional looking down on guys that are not in their social classes. Like they could make it as a man...

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

Seems to me, that's what females do to climb the ladder. They look pretty, and latch on to guys who do the work. So in a way, those females are climbing the female ladder by doing that. I guess they'd have a right to look down on other females, but they're delusional looking down on guys that are not in their social classes. Like they could make it as a man...

My point is that it's fake.

Of course it's what they do.

 

[Snag87]

Men generally have a realistic approach to dating and are more than willing to date women in their league or a few notches below. It's modern women who have absurd standards.

 

[joesbigship]

I give myself a 7 to 7.5.

I noticed most of the women I seem to develop crushes on are in the same boat looks wise. Attractive, but not gorgeous women.

Sure, an 8+ is nice to look at, but subconsciously you won't feel comfortable going out with her

You are mistaking comfort for attraction.

 

[metalwater]

Seems to me, that's what females do to climb the ladder. They look pretty, and latch on to guys who do the work. So in a way, those females are climbing the female ladder by doing that. I guess they'd have a right to look down on other females, but they're delusional looking down on guys that are not in their social classes. Like they could make it as a man...

the social pecking order for women in social circles is determined by what guy(s) they can command the attention of.

I have seen a woman that can rule any social circle I have ever seen. it's so simple, get the sexual attention of the man in the middle of the circle, the leader or alpha..., and all the other women will fall into line.. quickly... sexual attention doesn't always mean sex, but usually, it just depends on the man in the middle. women playing that game want to win and it becomes more important than life, feelings...

think about it, how many women at the top of any social circle actually have any skills for life survival without men. those ones usually are busy doing something else and not active in the competition.

 

[mrskinnypantz]

Too far down on the looks scale, and you’ll constantly cheat on her and look for better
Too far up on the scale and you will feel jealous and insecure all the time

 

[Who Dares Win]

I agree with the content but I would add more variables.

Your status and money can balance for a lower than her looks as much as the simple fact of being preselected from other women.

We make two evaluation, the first one is where we stand in terms of looks while the second is that if you have what it needs to have her genuinely attracted from you and loyal to you.

As men we consider the looks of a woman but also how invested she would be on us because that influences her sexual performances, her loyalty and overall how pleasable it is to have her around.

Me personally I dont have any long term strategy since I dont look for long term relationship, that allows me to take advantage of many conditions where I can afford women above my level that wouldnt be sustainable in a longer time frame.

 

[biggoal]

Men generally have a realistic approach to dating and are more than willing to date women in their league or a few notches below. It's modern women who have absurd standards.

I agree, somewhat, but not fully. I work around the public a lot, and even down here with the sub par women we have I still notice guys with women you wouldn't think they should be with. I mean guys who are fat (not obese) shorter, or just not that good looking with decent looking women HB6 and above. Just today I saw an HB8.5-9 with a fat guy (not obese, but overweight) and she was clearly way above him and he didn't look rich, and she was a few years younger too. Also saw an HB7 with a similar guy today. Again, not obese but just the dad bod. The fleamarket I work at I see thousands of people pass through of all ages so I get a good sense.

There is no reason a guy unless he's obese, super ugly can't at least date HB6 because I see it a lot.

The main problem is relying on OLD and everyone has a warped view because of it. Women on OLD have a ridicules standards, must make at least 100k a year, over six foot, etc.

Again, when I go on OLD I just don't see many girls HB7 and above on it, especially under 28. The few girls who are HB7 and above on OLD are getting bombarded from guys of all ages and walks, chad, tyrone etc.

If only 10 percent of the women (real profiles) are HB 6.5 and above on OLD all you need to do is do the math.