Why the rise in sexless men/simps is the final blow to dating

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Here is a graph showing the rise of male virginity over the years. This is just virginity, but I count men that get sex once a blue moon virgins too because they can be the most desperate.

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/D21MPkPW0AEiL0N.jpg

My theory is that these men are going to either A) get older with a lot of money saved up and start bailing women out of their situations from long term bad decisions or B) go crazy lol

Either way, none of these scenarios get better. In addition, the more desperate older men with money, the harder it gets for younger men in general because a 18 year old guy with nothing to his name is now competing against a 28 year old guy with his own place, car, and able to take girls out to clubs, restaurants, vacations, and etc. I'm so glad I was born before 1997 lol

 

[zekko]

a 18 year old guy with nothing to his name is now competing against a 28 year old guy with his own place, car, and able to take girls out to clubs, restaurants, vacations, and etc. I'm so glad I was born before 1997 lol

Don't see what's new about that. Same thing was going on when I was a young man, back in the 70s and 80s. Young women in their prime have always had their choice of numerous options.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Don't see what's new about that. Same thing was going on when I was a young man, back in the 70s and 80s. Young women in their prime have always had their choice of numerous options.

Women have way more easier access to these men now because of Tinder/Instagram. Back then, a woman's prospects were basically based on the small community she lived in.

 

[Robert28]

Don't see what's new about that. Same thing was going on when I was a young man, back in the 70s and 80s. Young women in their prime have always had their choice of numerous options.

The problem is now days women in their 30’s who are single moms also have a lot more options than most guys.

 

[SW15]

Back then, a woman's prospects were basically based on the small community she lived in.

Women have way more options now than they had in the 1970s and 1980s. As a result, women are only having sex with a small percentage of men while a larger percentage of men are competing for a smaller and more obese percentage of women.

You cited the 2018 percentage. Imagine how bad 2020 or 2021's numbers will be with pandemic related conditions making meeting people even more difficult than 2018.

The problem is now days women in their 30’s who are single moms also have a lot more options than most guys.

This is a problem. Also, childless women at 30 or 35 are still in major demand, which didn't happen 30-35 years ago.

My theory is that these men are going to either A) get older with a lot of money saved up and start bailing women out of their situations from long term bad decisions or B) go crazy lol

No sex is bad for men's mental health. I think you'll see more men will more mental health conditions.

 

[Great Husky 63]

We have almost reached the level of Japan on male otakus and leaf boys. Japan, on some items being the most advanced country in the world, got to this level already in the early augts. The result, is that their population is collapsing and the median age of the population is already 49 years.

It is curious, even with a third of the male population out of the sexual market, it is a tough as ever to get laid, since women are now targeting the top 2% of men instead of the top 10%

 

[SW15]

We have almost reached the level of Japan on male otakus and leaf boys. Japan, on some items being the most advanced country in the world, got to this level already in the early augts. The result, is that their population is collapsing and the median age of the population is already 49 years.

It is curious, even with a third of the male population out of the sexual market, it is a tough as ever to get laid, since women are now targeting the top 2% of men instead of the top 10%

30 years ago, if a man was sexless or didn't get much sex, he had some serious problems. Now, with a much larger percentage of the male population sexless or near sexless, there are some average to maybe even slightly above average guys who are struggling out there.

 

[MatureDJ]

It's OVER for SexlessCels.

 

[corrector]

It is curious, even with a third of the male population out of the sexual market, it is a tough as ever to get laid, since women are now targeting the top 2% of men instead of the top 10%

Because they are targeting white guys so there will be hapa-incels to replace them.

 

[BadBoy89]

the more desperate older men with money, the harder it gets for younger men in general because a 18 year old guy with nothing to his name is now competing against a 28 year old guy with his own place, car, and able to take girls out to clubs, restaurants, vacations, and etc.

Why is it older men “with money”, why isn’t it just “older“ men”?

 

[derby1]

The problem is now days women in their 30’s who are single moms also have a lot more options than most guys.

a woman with another mans seed growing in her fanny has more options than an average male.

Can you even believe that in the UK, only 60 years ago a woman was chucked into a mental asylum for any funny business, now they think men are so pathetic theyre on dating apps 7 months pregnant

 

[TB24]

It is curious, even with a third of the male population out of the sexual market, it is a tough as ever to get laid, since women are now targeting the top 2% of men instead of the top 10%

Sounds like if you make it into the 2% league, you have plenty of options. So it's more or less a redistribution. Average men get less, top tier men get more options.

I think, that those men, who lose in this game, intensify the problem without probably knowing it. The deal used to be sex/relationship for attention. Social media and dating apps make it a lot easier and more effortless to give others attention. Women don't suddenly feel entitled out of nothing. They feel entitled because of the thousands of admirers who are willing to give attention to each and every girl out there without getting anything in return. They - as a group - feed the girls with so much attention that they don't need to earn it from them. There is no balance. And no challenge.

Men want sex. Women want attention. Would you care to give attention or would you even care about a girl if you are used to get what you want for free? In abundance? So stop blaming women for that. You would do the same. Start blaming the guys who destroy the balance. Or,... even better... stop blaming anyone at all. Blaming is victimization and that never helps. What sets you apart from the masses is that you understand this whole dynamic. So make use of it. Be a top 2% guy and you will be fine ;-)

 

[MatureDJ]

Be a top 2% guy and you will be fine ;-)

So what is a man who is 2%-ile in height supposed to do?

 

[firstbornunicorn]

So what is a man who is 2%-ile in height supposed to do?

Stop obsessing about your height and get a life

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Why is it older men “with money”, why isn’t it just “older“ men”?

cause nobody likes broke older men lol

 

[Mike32ct]

The red pill “solution” is for EVERY guy to somehow become >95 percentile.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

the more desperate older men with money, the harder it gets for younger men in general because a 18 year old guy with nothing to his name is now competing against a 28 year old guy with his own place, car, and able to take girls out to clubs, restaurants, vacations, and etc.

Dude it has always been like that.

Even on grandpas time. If you're a young stud then young chicks don't want you. They want the older guys with already established resources and careers.

If you're +18 "forget" about chicks in your age; work on yourself and the rest will come later.

Nothing new here.

//End whining simp thread here.

 

[jimwho]

//End whining simp thread here.

You can't end a thread with so much conjecture, ITS A RULE. In my experience, when I was a young stud, girls were everywhere and plentiful. I can't remember any young fun girl wanting a older guy for any reason. Back then, and I only assume now, girls (young ones) just want to have fun.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

You can't end a thread with so much conjecture,

I just did.

 

[Robert28]

a woman with another mans seed growing in her fanny has more options than an average male.

Can you even believe that in the UK, only 60 years ago a woman was chucked into a mental asylum for any funny business, now they think men are so pathetic theyre on dating apps 7 months pregnant

It’s so bad that there are women with kids from two different dads out there Friendzoning dudes and outright rejecting them.