People Aren't using Tinder to Date or Hookup

[firstbornunicorn]

I’ve never understood how a total complete stranger that you don’t even know, aren’t even face to face with, giving you compliments is somehow addictive to women.

A girl I know has admitted to me that she used to absolutely love male attention. Especially from hot guys. If she went out to a club and didn't get the attention she wanted, she would literally break down and cry.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

You couldnt pay me to mess with a white Aussie girl. They are tied with irish women as least as most attractive women on the planet imo.

I am in Columbia currently, a place where people say have some of the most beautiful women on the planet. I am doing very well here. I have a beautiful new gf who cooks for me regularly in general and is very good to me so far.

With that being said, just banged a nice hottie last night then immediately kicked her out.

She was saying su casa mi casa and jumped downto into one of my beds seemed in heaven haha . I was like no its notgive me mucho dinero help pay for it then lol. Joking ofcourse.

I actually liked her spunk and personality. But this girl had those wife me up immediate eyes going on. I had rented out an an entire 4 bedroom colonial style house in historic district so i think she was impressed to say the least. It looked like a small cassel on the inside. I guess she realized im not your average broke backbacker.

I told her look after i got done banging her...i enjoy ****ing you. You are seem full of life and fun but i have a good gf here now and cant let you get in the way of that. We had fun now it's time for you to go.

Lol. She started trying to give me a massage saying how handsome i am and how she is wet only for me and can be better than my gf. I basically told no way that will ever happen politely at that point and now for her to gtfo as i had to meet some friends.

Anyways, my Columbia catholic girl here is gorgeous....took me 6 dates to finally lay her. Which is what im looking for long term. I don't respect easy women. She gets downright offended if i even offer to buy her anything either and is very proud of the fact she has never asked anyone for money in her life. Supports both her parents. Is an elementary level teacher here Good catholic woman with a very unique figure and just very attractive presence about her if you will. Even the way she talks makes me hard lol.

With that being said i still cant stop fantasizing the times i use slip myself inside this hong kong flight attendant who i met in Shenzhen, China one time. Just nothing else like ****ing a nice beautiful petite asian girl.......for me at least. The way they feel and sound is just unmatched imo.

So you can just cant stereotype and say every white guy can get a highly in demand asian, which is not tru btw. Most are getting left over undesirable 6s at best. And you can say that white guys go after asians are taking the easy way out. The latter part is def true with a lot of guys. And i noticed it works because a lot of Asian women seem to be attracted to these very beta looking scrawny hipster types in general as long as they got blue yes or sometime. Guys who almost seem like a hybrid from normal white guts and their asian men. Asian women are weird in general and i wish i had zero attraction to them. I feel my life would be much less complicated.

But on the flip side, you really cant help what u are attracted to. My columbian gf here is VERY desirable and in high demand. Gorgeous girl. In fact she is the only main reason i am still here. But i have have to go to panama soon to buy a very important key piece of property here. Will be my first piece of real estate. Business is business.

But part of me still just dreams about to flying back to Taiwan, studying long fist kungfu again harcore with my sifu and slaying top tier ethnic Asian women. You can call it yellow fever...you can say whatever it is.

After a banged that cute Columbian last night and kicked her out. I walked down the street to get a pizza and was thinking about go after more women. But felt tired and had bad acid reflux from drinking early despite taking some stomache meds and eating a **** tonne if papaya all day before that.

Well after pizza, and fending off the aggressive street vendors....as i was walking to the cub ares a little dime piece carribean girl approached me said i am beautiful in spanish. I stepped back to look at here and she was sexy asf no doubt....perfect little body. Very eager doey looking eyes as well.

I asked in Spanish if she spoke any english whatso ever. She tried to play it off and i said no no my ingles is good. I said well say something in English then. She literally could not even say hello lol.I said my spanish is so so and you speak literally nothing ha. She then basically said in Spanish that it dosnt matter and she wants me and lets do a few shots and get crazy. I told her tu necista estudia ingles mas por que mi espolanola es muy no bueno laughing. I wasnt trying to be mean...just being blunt.

I hate doing the phone translate bull**** too. I told her sorry but if i see her next time it might be better just too tired rn for no English and mucho enferme ahora. The girl was a legit 8 though and giving me those super doey looking eyes clearly clearly wanting to ****. I do love how expressive and direct Columbian women are.

Anyways these two America black guys were watching from across the street and directed me over to them and said yo you are crazy asf man...that was a straight up dime piece putting it out there for you. Wtf you are you thinking.

I was like yeah well she is all yours now haha. Go get it. Take that biatch. She wants it from someone. Im just not up for it rn. Maybe if i see here again another night. Got hearrburn like crazy. They laughed and was like this man is tripping lol. All in good fun though...i told them have a good night and left to crash.

 

[Zimbabwe]

You couldnt pay me to mess with a white Aussie girl. They are tied with irish women as least as most attractive women on the planet imo.

I am in Columbia currently, a place where people say have some of the most beautiful women on the planet. I am doing very well here. I have a beautiful new gf who cooks for me regularly in general and is very good to me so far.

With that being said, just banged a nice hottie last night then immediately kicked her out.

She was saying su casa mi casa and jumped downto into one of my beds seemed in heaven haha . I was like no its notgive me mucho dinero help pay for it then lol. Joking ofcourse.

I actually liked her spunk and personality. But this girl had those wife me up immediate eyes going on. I had rented out an an entire 4 bedroom colonial style house in historic district so i think she was impressed to say the least. It looked like a small cassel on the inside. I guess she realized im not your average broke backbacker.

I told her look after i got done banging her...i enjoy ****ing you. You are seem full of life and fun but i have a good gf here now and cant let you get in the way of that. We had fun now it's time for you to go.

Lol. She started trying to give me a massage saying how handsome i am and how she is wet only for me and can be better than my gf. I basically told no way that will ever happen politely at that point and now for her to gtfo as i had to meet some friends.

Anyways, my Columbia catholic girl here is gorgeous....took me 6 dates to finally lay her. Which is what im looking for long term. I don't respect easy women. She gets downright offended if i even offer to buy her anything either and is very proud of the fact she has never asked anyone for money in her life. Supports both her parents. Is an elementary level teacher here Good catholic woman with a very unique figure and just very attractive presence about her if you will. Even the way she talks makes me hard lol.

With that being said i still cant stop fantasizing the times i use slip myself inside this hong kong flight attendant who i met in Shenzhen, China one time. Just nothing else like ****ing a nice beautiful petite asian girl.......for me at least. The way they feel and sound is just unmatched imo.

So you can just cant stereotype and say every white guy can get a highly in demand asian, which is not tru btw. Most are getting left over undesirable 6s at best. And you can say that white guys go after asians are taking the easy way out. The latter part is def true with a lot of guys. And i noticed it works because a lot of Asian women seem to be attracted to these very beta looking scrawny hipster types in general as long as they got blue yes or sometime. Guys who almost seem like a hybrid from normal white guts and their asian men. Asian women are weird in general and i wish i had zero attraction to them. I feel my life would be much less complicated.

But on the flip side, you really cant help what u are attracted to. My columbian gf here is VERY desirable and in high demand. Gorgeous girl. In fact she is the only main reason i am still here. But i have have to go to panama soon to buy a very important key piece of property here. Will be my first piece of real estate. Business is business.

But part of me still just dreams about to flying back to Taiwan, studying long fist kungfu again harcore with my sifu and slaying top tier ethnic Asian women. You can call it yellow fever...you can say whatever it is.

After a banged that cute Columbian last night and kicked her out. I walked down the street to get a pizza and was thinking about go after more women. But felt tired and had bad acid reflux from drinking early despite taking some stomache meds and eating a **** tonne if papaya all day before that.

Well after pizza, and fending off the aggressive street vendors....as i was walking to the cub ares a little dime piece carribean girl approached me said i am beautiful in spanish. I stepped back to look at here and she was sexy asf no doubt....perfect little body. Very eager doey looking eyes as well.

I asked in Spanish if she spoke any english whatso ever. She tried to play it off and i said no no my ingles is good. I said well say something in English then. She literally could not even say hello lol.I said my spanish is so so and you speak literally nothing ha. She then basically said in Spanish that it dosnt matter and she wants me and lets do a few shots and get crazy. I told her tu necista estudia ingles mas por que mi espolanola es muy no bueno laughing. I wasnt trying to be mean...just being blunt.

I hate doing the phone translate bull**** too. I told her sorry but if i see her next time it might be better just too tired rn for no English and mucho enferme ahora. The girl was a legit 8 though and giving me those super doey looking eyes clearly clearly wanting to ****. I do love how expressive and direct Columbian women are.

Anyways these two America black guys were watching from across the street and directed me over to them and said yo you are crazy asf man...that was a straight up dime piece putting it out there for you. Wtf you are you thinking.

I was like yeah well she is all yours now haha. Go get it. Take that biatch. She wants it from someone. Im just not up for it rn. Maybe if i see here again another night. Got hearrburn like crazy. They laughed and was like this man is tripping lol. All in good fun though...i told them have a good night and left to crash.

We do have some good girls but good luck meeting them outside of a social circle here. I just feel like Western cultures views men as disposable. I always noticed on social media women would ignore the male comments but reply to every female comment.

I've always been a fan of the culture in Latin America which is way more open,friendly and all round less insular. In sydney especially social circle is king. Everyone here stays in their own little bubble within their suburbs for some reason. I'm sure @Pan87 knows the reason for this.

A girl I know has admitted to me that she used to absolutely love male attention. Especially from hot guys. If she went out to a club and didn't get the attention she wanted, she would literally break down and cry.

Imagine most men just stopped simping one day.

Our ancestors approached her parents. Arranged marriages have been the norm until the 20th century.

Modern "men" won't have the balls to approach a womans father to ask for his daughters hand in marriage.

 

[powersize]

You couldnt pay me to mess with a white Aussie girl. They are tied with irish women as least as most attractive women on the planet imo.

I am in Columbia currently, a place where people say have some of the most beautiful women on the planet. I am doing very well here. I have a beautiful new gf who cooks for me regularly in general and is very good to me so far.

With that being said, just banged a nice hottie last night then immediately kicked her out.

She was saying su casa mi casa and jumped downto into one of my beds seemed in heaven haha . I was like no its notgive me mucho dinero help pay for it then lol. Joking ofcourse.

I actually liked her spunk and personality. But this girl had those wife me up immediate eyes going on. I had rented out an an entire 4 bedroom colonial style house in historic district so i think she was impressed to say the least. It looked like a small cassel on the inside. I guess she realized im not your average broke backbacker.

I told her look after i got done banging her...i enjoy ****ing you. You are seem full of life and fun but i have a good gf here now and cant let you get in the way of that. We had fun now it's time for you to go.

Lol. She started trying to give me a massage saying how handsome i am and how she is wet only for me and can be better than my gf. I basically told no way that will ever happen politely at that point and now for her to gtfo as i had to meet some friends.

Anyways, my Columbia catholic girl here is gorgeous....took me 6 dates to finally lay her. Which is what im looking for long term. I don't respect easy women. She gets downright offended if i even offer to buy her anything either and is very proud of the fact she has never asked anyone for money in her life. Supports both her parents. Is an elementary level teacher here Good catholic woman with a very unique figure and just very attractive presence about her if you will. Even the way she talks makes me hard lol.

With that being said i still cant stop fantasizing the times i use slip myself inside this hong kong flight attendant who i met in Shenzhen, China one time. Just nothing else like ****ing a nice beautiful petite asian girl.......for me at least. The way they feel and sound is just unmatched imo.

So you can just cant stereotype and say every white guy can get a highly in demand asian, which is not tru btw. Most are getting left over undesirable 6s at best. And you can say that white guys go after asians are taking the easy way out. The latter part is def true with a lot of guys. And i noticed it works because a lot of Asian women seem to be attracted to these very beta looking scrawny hipster types in general as long as they got blue yes or sometime. Guys who almost seem like a hybrid from normal white guts and their asian men. Asian women are weird in general and i wish i had zero attraction to them. I feel my life would be much less complicated.

But on the flip side, you really cant help what u are attracted to. My columbian gf here is VERY desirable and in high demand. Gorgeous girl. In fact she is the only main reason i am still here. But i have have to go to panama soon to buy a very important key piece of property here. Will be my first piece of real estate. Business is business.

But part of me still just dreams about to flying back to Taiwan, studying long fist kungfu again harcore with my sifu and slaying top tier ethnic Asian women. You can call it yellow fever...you can say whatever it is.

After a banged that cute Columbian last night and kicked her out. I walked down the street to get a pizza and was thinking about go after more women. But felt tired and had bad acid reflux from drinking early despite taking some stomache meds and eating a **** tonne if papaya all day before that.

Well after pizza, and fending off the aggressive street vendors....as i was walking to the cub ares a little dime piece carribean girl approached me said i am beautiful in spanish. I stepped back to look at here and she was sexy asf no doubt....perfect little body. Very eager doey looking eyes as well.

I asked in Spanish if she spoke any english whatso ever. She tried to play it off and i said no no my ingles is good. I said well say something in English then. She literally could not even say hello lol.I said my spanish is so so and you speak literally nothing ha. She then basically said in Spanish that it dosnt matter and she wants me and lets do a few shots and get crazy. I told her tu necista estudia ingles mas por que mi espolanola es muy no bueno laughing. I wasnt trying to be mean...just being blunt.

I hate doing the phone translate bull**** too. I told her sorry but if i see her next time it might be better just too tired rn for no English and mucho enferme ahora. The girl was a legit 8 though and giving me those super doey looking eyes clearly clearly wanting to ****. I do love how expressive and direct Columbian women are.

Anyways these two America black guys were watching from across the street and directed me over to them and said yo you are crazy asf man...that was a straight up dime piece putting it out there for you. Wtf you are you thinking.

I was like yeah well she is all yours now haha. Go get it. Take that biatch. She wants it from someone. Im just not up for it rn. Maybe if i see here again another night. Got hearrburn like crazy. They laughed and was like this man is tripping lol. All in good fun though...i told them have a good night and left to crash.

Interesting post. How would you compare latinas to other girls? What are the key differences? From what I understand from your post - they seemed to look for easy hookups there in Colombia.

 

[Robert28]

A girl I know has admitted to me that she used to absolutely love male attention. Especially from hot guys. If she went out to a club and didn't get the attention she wanted, she would literally break down and cry.

She’s a single mom now I bet.

 

[firstbornunicorn]

She’s a single mom now I bet.

No, she says she grew out of it. This was in her late teens.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Same here. I’ve met lots of chicks through dating apps. Some of them were actually decent girls that I dated long term. So it’s hard for me to relate my experience to the original post.

Ditto. On Tinder I match. Set up a date. Go out with her...well. You know.
My time is limited. Why would I waste time on Tinder just to get a “pen pal”.

 

[Robert28]

No, she says she grew out of it. This was in her late teens.

She’s lying.

 

[Zimbabwe]

Ditto. On Tinder I match. Set up a date. Go out with her...well. You know.
My time is limited. Why would I waste time on Tinder just to get a “pen pal”.

The problem is a lot of men get garbage dating advice online, women on the internet complain when a guy asks for the number "too soon" so they get the false idea that they need to chat for weeks before asking them out.

I showed in my screenshots earlier how easy it was to just ask them for the number.

 

[Zimbabwe]

You are trying to make an arguement? You brought up bs on your post and I called you out on it. You must be full of it after all.

You want your ego stroked then talk to @SW15 l. You can not handle an honest post.

I post an article which gives statistics on the amount of people who meet through Tinder, in the OP i say people should cold approach irl instead.

Instead of providing valid criticism, you were foaming at the mouth ready to call me an "incel" for "digging up an old article".

I've been criticised a lot on this forum, and if it's a valid form of criticism i acknowledge it. I'm not sure what you're aiming to do? Maybe you had a bad day and decided to take your anger out on me?

 

[Zimbabwe]

I bang lots of women outside my social circle in Sydney. The key difference between Sydney and other markets I've banged is that Sydney is a mean city full of mean people. People aren't nice here. That translates into toxic sh1t testing from women that you try to bang.

.....but it's still just sh1t testing. You pass the sh1t tests and you get the bang. Aussie chicks are funnily autistic. They over-calibrate their bitchiness, but you show them some sustained amused mastery and they will suddenly drop the sh1t testing and drop their panties for you.

"can only bang hot women through social circles" is self-limiting belief and definitely not true. Banging hot women is just hard full-stop because they are in enormously high demand in Sydney. Social circle game, as I've mentioned many times before, is just sneaky fvcker beta orbiting. I don't advise having female "friends", and you'll be forced to play that game if you're trying to bang through social circles.

With Tinder - You can still bang decent chicks off of Tinder. Funnily enough I had one just last night. Uber straight to my place after text-gaming her all day. It took a video call to convince her, but I got her over in the end and have only just sent her home this morning. Admittedly, pulling these types of same day lays off with attractive women has become much harder than it was 5 years ago.

The main issue with Tinder these days is that your text game and mental state has to be superhuman. If I am in a bad mood, or feeling a bit down, I can't get anything done. I need to be in a very confident and elevated mood to be able to bang anything decent looking in Sydney.

We got a guy running our Sydney PUA group that specifically targets Colombian women, a lot of the other guys only go for Expats. I know it's possible to get locals without a social circle but it's a much bigger hill then what most guys are willing to climb.

Even with Tinder you mention them being "decent". You can take a walk around Martin Place and find hundreds of genuinely beautiful women very easly, on Tinder you need to go through a lot of Garbage to get to the "decent" ones. Half the women i swipe through on Tinder could play a live action Shrek.

These days I let them message first, Since I just don't care anymore.

 

[Velasco]

We got a guy running our Sydney PUA group that specifically targets Colombian women, a lot of the other guys only go for Expats. I know it's possible to get locals without a social circle but it's a much bigger hill then what most guys are willing to climb.

Broken Girls for a Broken Game - Male Privilege

maleprivilege.net

 

[firstbornunicorn]

She’s lying.

Probably, she's just happy with the attention from this hot guy right now.

 

[metalwater]

mental state has to be superhuman. If I am in a bad mood, or feeling a bit down, I can't get anything done. I need to be in a very confident and elevated mood to be able to bang anything decent looking in Sydney.

most important thing ??

 

[zinc4]

Man, your post here is textbook Sexpat weirdo stuff. But more power to you.

Personally, I think bragging about banging 3rd World Women is a bit sad. I'm not saying you shouldn't do it, but you should probably keep it on the down low. It's very socially uncalibrated to talk about getting poverty stricken women over to your mansion in Columbia, banging them and then laughing about how they want to marry you. B1tch just wants a sandwich and some A/C.

There are also places in Africa you can go where a woman will marry you for a pint of milk. Is that something to laugh about too?

Stop projecting your massive insecurities on to me. Hot Columbian women in Cartegena (non pros) are not easy for foreigners. This is a very social circle centered city and gringos have reputations as only being sexpats, so few high quality local women want to touch them. Especially ones like me who barely speak Spanish.

You operate on blanket generalizations and stereotypes.

Was just in Vegas and killed it for two months straight with every race and ethnic group. So take your micro **** energy elsewhere. I do well where ever i go.

You just come off as stupid asf. Stay in your lane banging ugly pasty ass Aussie feminists.

 

[zinc4]

Interesting post. How would you compare latinas to other girls? What are the key differences? From what I understand from your post - they seemed to look for easy hookups there in Colombia.

No. The high quality ones will test you hard with many dates to see how serious you are. You also have to be pretty macho acting and firm with **** tests. The local men here are very macho.

 

[zinc4]

Wow. Triggered. Just like every other Sexpat that gets called out.

If it was me, i'd be like "Yeah, I'm a sexpat. So what? I want to bang easy women and I don't want to have to compete in the West because the West is rigged."

Own it.

I am not a sexpat. Been travelling my whole life. You are ignorant asf. Wild generalizations and assumptions. Guarantee my inner game and frame are leagues above your's. You just comes off as an ignorant little **** starting beta.

In fact, this entire instigation from you comes off as you being butt hurt that i called Aussie women trash. You probably like them because deep down you are a cuck. Then you feel the need to put passively aggressively down others that aint into that feminist white woman bull**** like you are because you are obviously insecure asf. I smell it on you from a mile away.

Been to Australia a few times. Your women are ugly asf in average and most of your country are a bunch of feminized beta cucks. What a ****hole. Never met an Aussie that i liked come to think come to think about it.

 

[zinc4]

Where's this inner Game you have? All I see is a barely legible coping and high levels of anger.

If your life in Colombia is so great, then why you so angry? Why do you even care what us losers in the West think?

The issue you're going to have is that no one can relate to your lifestyle of buying mansions in 3rd world countries, banging starving women, and then laughing about it when these women try to hint at marriage. It's too dark for most people.

Bro you cant just go around just disrespecting people falsely accusing when i have been nothing but respectful to you prior to this.

If i come off as angry it's only because i can't stand cowards like you talking **** behind the safety of your keyboard. You are like a woman going around blatantly disrespecting people then playing victim. Your passive aggressive behavior reeks of beta.

 

[zinc4]

Start living a life worthy of respect first. Respect isn't something automatically given.

You unleashed a giant, weird post about your lifestyle in Colombia in this thread. I was very helpfully pointing out for you that it comes across as stereotypically weird sexpat writing. You could use that advice to your advantage and keep your deviant behavior on the down low. You'll get much more respect this way. Literally no one respects sexpats, and you already know this.

Here's an example for you. If I had some kind of weird fetish like banging farm animals, but I also wanted people to respect me......do you think it would be a good idea telling people that I like to bang farm animals?

It's the same with you and your Colombian famine girls. Enjoy it, just don't tell anyone if you actually do want respect.

Who the **** do you think you are? A life worthy of respect? How tf am i being a sexpat? I have not paid one girl on this trip for sex and i am here to buy property both here and Panama

The main girl i am currently dating took me 6 dates to finally lay. She was more difficult than any recent gf or plate i have had in the us.

What is your IQ man? Serious question. Can you even find Cartegena on a map? I can't decide if you are just incredibly stupid or delusional/crazy.

Grow up and stop falsely accusing strangers on an online forum and making blanket generic generalizations. And take your meds ffs.

Comparing travelling meeting women to banging farm animals. You are clearly bat**** crazy and live a miserable life. You sound pathetic and miserable asf in general. I am guessing you are poor or something. Strong loser limited mindset energy radiating from you. In fact, you seriously sound like a virgin.

In stead of insulting strangers over nothing, go back and focus on your taco bell shift.

 

[Zimbabwe]

How to get a number with zero effort instead of becoming her penpal for 4 months