If a woman still looks amazing at 30 or 31, how long will she likely continue to look this way?

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Also, if you would be willing to give up all other women to be with a certain woman, does that mean you should marry this woman?
 

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Also, if you would be willing to give up all other women to be with a certain woman, does that mean you should marry this woman?
Not necessarily. Just because you feel that way today, doesn't mean that you'll want to be around her in 10-20 years.

A woman's looks deteriorate fast after 30. By 40 there's almost nothing left. So I wouldn't want to buy milk that expires tomorrow and I wouldn't want to marry a 30 year old.
 

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Not necessarily. Just because you feel that way today, doesn't mean that you'll want to be around her in 10-20 years.

A woman's looks deteriorate fast after 30. By 40 there's almost nothing left. So I wouldn't want to buy milk that expires tomorrow and I wouldn't want to marry a 30 year old.
I generally think that way about women, but there is something about her that makes me feel like I'm making a HUGE mistake if I don't try to be with her. I still love her, and I can't say I've ever loved anyone as much as her.
 

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I generally think that way about women, but there is something about her that makes me feel like I'm making a HUGE mistake if I don't try to be with her. I still love her, and I can't say I've ever loved anyone as much as her.
How long have you been together?
 

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How long have you been together?
She was my high school sweetheart. We met 15 years ago, and she has since moved out of state. I'm thinking of meeting up with her in the future and asking her to marry me. I figure if I still feel the same way about her 15 years later, it deserves finding out if she still feel the same way about me. If she doesn't, I'll move on and wish her a happy life, but if she does, I think I'll ask her to marry me. What do you think?
 

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She was my high school sweetheart. We met 15 years ago, and she has since moved out of state. I'm thinking of meeting up with her in the future and asking her to marry me. I figure if I still feel the same way about her 15 years later, it deserves finding out if she still feel the same way about me. If she doesn't, I'll move on and wish her a happy life, but if she does, I think I'll ask her to marry me. What do you think?
This just sounds like oneitis expanded by 15+ years. If you’re interested why not game her and see if she’s actually marriage material.

What if behind the scenes she’s now into swinging ? Or likes having a train ran on her ?

I wouldn’t commit until at least 6-12 months of dating.

You sound like you’re back in your blue pill afc days and want to hold onto that dream with everything you have.

Test the waters and see what happens. But my gut feeling is you’re going to mess things up and she’s gonna own you.
 

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She was my high school sweetheart. We met 15 years ago, and she has since moved out of state. I'm thinking of meeting up with her in the future and asking her to marry me. I figure if I still feel the same way about her 15 years later, it deserves finding out if she still feel the same way about me. If she doesn't, I'll move on and wish her a happy life, but if she does, I think I'll ask her to marry me. What do you think?
I understand from your answer that you're not together right now. So I think first you should be in a relationship and make it last for at least a few years before even considering marriage.
 

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I understand from your answer that you're not together right now. So I think first you should be in a relationship and make it last for at least a few years before even considering marriage.
Ok. I think if we are together a few years and stand the test of time, THEN we might think of getting married. I think that makes sense.
 

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Ok. I think if we are together a few years and stand the test of time, THEN we might think of getting married. I think that makes sense.
Yeah, I think a lot of headaches can be avoided by doing it this way. The relationship needs to be stable and proven to be long-lasting before having kids or making what should be at least a 20 year committment.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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If she's lucky, has great genetics, and takes care of herself, she could look good until mid to late 30s. However, I'd say less than 1% of women still look good after their late 30s.
 

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If she's lucky, has great genetics, and takes care of herself, she could look good until mid to late 30s. However, I'd say less than 1% of women still look good after their late 30s.
Uhhh..... I believe this perspective is skewed... maybe in USA this is true.. where the population is more obese than not.... but certainly not true in Canada. Also maybe if your young u think that.... wait til your in your later years yourself... I bet your opinion will be much different..
 

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Uhhh..... I believe this perspective is skewed... maybe in USA this is true.. where the population is more obese than not.... but certainly not true in Canada. Also maybe if your young u think that.... wait til your in your later years yourself... I bet your opinion will be much different..
I mean I'm in my early 30s and most of the women my age are already deplorable looking. I already started noticing womens decline around my mid 20s, most of them seem to peak before 25. Why would Canadian women be any different? And I'm not talking about obese women, they don't even register on my radar.
 

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Guess it depends on what your looking for .... *shrugs*
 

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In terms of physical appearance I'm not too picky, though I do like tall fit girls who workout. I have seen many hot women at the gym who may have been over 30, but I can never know just by looking. I'm basing this mostly off of what I've seen on dating apps, since they list their age.
 

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I mean I'm in my early 30s and most of the women my age are already deplorable looking. I already started noticing womens decline around my mid 20s, most of them seem to peak before 25. Why would Canadian women be any different? And I'm not talking about obese women, they don't even register on my radar.
I'm 33 now and I think most women 30+ are not worth a relationship with looks wise.
 

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Dude, I live in the richest part of the suburbs over here, and even the 60+ women are total babes rivaling women in their 20's. A woman can be hot for a long time.

Go look at her parents (not just mom) it's a good indicator of the genes she has and how health is seen in the family.

Usually someone who will be fit in their 60's might be slightly underweight in her 20's.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

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