Ex blocked my phone number, work phone, IG, FB, & even Venmo. Will she come around?

[R3mmy]

We (31 M & F) broke up 3 weeks ago and she’s blocked me everywhere.

I got mad at my ex a few weeks ago and was really mean when I yelled at her - this is when we broke up. I tried calling her a week later to ask if she wanted to go to a festival but she told me she was out of town. I texted her afterwards and she responded but it was short and polite. Then last week I called her because I had a panic attack and thought I was going to have to go the ER. She texted me later that day asking if I was okay and cracked a joke.

Anyways, when we had broken up before I started seeing this younger woman (22). It was very casual. Right before we broke up that same woman started following me on social media, liking my pictures, posted this old picture of my dog, and was snooping on my ex’s social media too. My ex brought this up to me and I got annoyed with her because I hadn’t talked that woman in a long time. Well after we broke up. Out of anger, I added this girl back on social media. A few days ago she flew out to stay with me and my ex found out and sent me a text saying, “enjoy your time with ___” and then blocked me on everything.


I should add, we broke up before and she blocked me on social media and then we eventually got back together. This is the first time she’s blocked my number though.

Does she hate me? Think she’ll come around?

We were together for 3 years by the way.

 

[Don Dark Horse]

Only need to read the title to let you know, time to move on man.

 

[Modern Man Advice]

We (31 M & F) broke up 3 weeks ago and she’s blocked me everywhere.

I got mad at my ex a few weeks ago and was really mean when I yelled at her - this is when we broke up. I tried calling her a week later to ask if she wanted to go to a festival but she told me she was out of town. I texted her afterwards and she responded but it was short and polite. Then last week I called her because I had a panic attack and thought I was going to have to go the ER. She texted me later that day asking if I was okay and cracked a joke.

Anyways, when we had broken up before I started seeing this younger woman (22). It was very casual. Right before we broke up that same woman started following me on social media, liking my pictures, posted this old picture of my dog, and was snooping on my ex’s social media too. My ex brought this up to me and I got annoyed with her because I hadn’t talked that woman in a long time. Well after we broke up. Out of anger, I added this girl back on social media. A few days ago she flew out to stay with me and my ex found out and sent me a text saying, “enjoy your time with ___” and then blocked me on everything.


I should add, we broke up before and she blocked me on social media and then we eventually got back together. This is the first time she’s blocked my number though.

Does she hate me? Think she’ll come around?

We were together for 3 years by the way.

Sounds like you're new to this forum and likely to the red pill concept. So welcome.

Do yourself a favor and study this forum, read other posts, and the articles first.

But to answer your question, no, do not contact her or get back with her. You are wasting your time. Value yourself and make yourself respected. Cut contact (she already did anyway), move on, and continue seeing the 22-year-old and other girls.

Stop being weak thinking she hates you or wondering if she'll come around. Again, value yourself. You are better than that.


Modern Man Advice

 

[oldmanofthesea]

Then last week I called her because I had a panic attack and thought I was going to have to go the ER.

You need to work to fix your panic attacks. That is something you should own. You should NEVER lean on a woman to assist you with your uncontrolled emotions (this extends beyond panic attacks, to any emotions), much less a woman who is your ex. That is needy, weak and pitiful and does nothing but disgust women. Women don't want grown babies that they have to care for. They want masculine men who will lead them. Your emotions are 100% YOURS to deal with. Seek professional help in dealing with them if you need to, but do NOT seek the help of a woman you are romantically interested or involved with.

Out of anger, I added this girl back on social media. A few days ago she flew out to stay with me and my ex found out and sent me a text saying, “enjoy your time with ___” and then blocked me on everything.

So she got suspicious of you because of this other girl's behavior, and instead of having a productive conversation, you flipped out on her in anger (yet again demonstrating that you are unable to control your emotions - this appears to be a pattern with you), and then you confirmed her suspicion by spending time with that girl. I am not at all surprised your ex blocked you on everything.

As Modern Man Advice stated, you have a lot to learn and need to start reading the articles and 101 level content here first. You must also focus on controlling your emotions and not being needy with women (all of which is outlined in the articles here).

 

[R3mmy]

I would just move on

Why? Shouldn’t I try to fight for her?

 

[oldmanofthesea]

Try it and let us know how it works out for you. Or read the DJ Bible and articles here and learn why it won't work.

 

[R3mmy]

Womans nature. You showed weakness. OP get a hold of yourself. Walk away and dont beg.
You answer OK and ignore.
Hate is better then bored.
You want her to hate you. Hate is way closer to 'love" in the world of human relationships.
Avoid disgust by not chasing her. Go lay some pipe. You got oneitis.

So I want her to have me blocked everywhere so that I can’t contact her?

 

[Grounded eagle]

Why? Shouldn’t I try to fight for her?

Hehehe.

 

[Young OG]

Why? Shouldn’t I try to fight for her?

No, you don't fight for her. The best way to get her back is by not doing anything at all. Do not contact her. She will either come back or she won't. This might be hard to understand but I've been through this multiple times. You contacting her will not go over well. She needs to come back on her own.

Also, do not ever tell a woman about your panic attacks again. Women see this as weak. They want a strong man who leads.

 

[Grounded eagle]

We (31 M & F) broke up 3 weeks ago and she’s blocked me everywhere.

I got mad at my ex a few weeks ago and was really mean when I yelled at her - this is when we broke up. I tried calling her a week later to ask if she wanted to go to a festival but she told me she was out of town. I texted her afterwards and she responded but it was short and polite. Then last week I called her because I had a panic attack and thought I was going to have to go the ER. She texted me later that day asking if I was okay and cracked a joke.

Anyways, when we had broken up before I started seeing this younger woman (22). It was very casual. Right before we broke up that same woman started following me on social media, liking my pictures, posted this old picture of my dog, and was snooping on my ex’s social media too. My ex brought this up to me and I got annoyed with her because I hadn’t talked that woman in a long time. Well after we broke up. Out of anger, I added this girl back on social media. A few days ago she flew out to stay with me and my ex found out and sent me a text saying, “enjoy your time with ___” and then blocked me on everything.


I should add, we broke up before and she blocked me on social media and then we eventually got back together. This is the first time she’s blocked my number though.

Does she hate me? Think she’ll come around?

We were together for 3 years by the way.

It’s hard,but you have to forget this girl.She has probably forgotten about you.

 

[darksprezzatura]

We (31 M & F) broke up 3 weeks ago and she’s blocked me everywhere.

I got mad at my ex a few weeks ago and was really mean when I yelled at her - this is when we broke up. I tried calling her a week later to ask if she wanted to go to a festival but she told me she was out of town. I texted her afterwards and she responded but it was short and polite. Then last week I called her because I had a panic attack and thought I was going to have to go the ER. She texted me later that day asking if I was okay and cracked a joke.

Anyways, when we had broken up before I started seeing this younger woman (22). It was very casual. Right before we broke up that same woman started following me on social media, liking my pictures, posted this old picture of my dog, and was snooping on my ex’s social media too. My ex brought this up to me and I got annoyed with her because I hadn’t talked that woman in a long time. Well after we broke up. Out of anger, I added this girl back on social media. A few days ago she flew out to stay with me and my ex found out and sent me a text saying, “enjoy your time with ___” and then blocked me on everything.


I should add, we broke up before and she blocked me on social media and then we eventually got back together. This is the first time she’s blocked my number though.

Does she hate me? Think she’ll come around?

We were together for 3 years by the way.

I understand the kind of dilemma you're going through. You're new to the board, probably a lurker, who decided to post because you're overthinking.

We're here to make suggestions, but you're the one who would need to get yourself out of this mess and live a good life.

My first suggestion is to not delve too much into the details of the experience, pick yourself up and dive right in to do a few things.

- Do not contact any woman who plays games like your ex, be silent and distant
- Start working out
- Read the book of pook (just google its pdf)
- Focus on your work, make better $$$
- Go to cool places YOURSELF and invite any cute girl you meet anytime you chat one up

If this girl wants to come back she will, but what you need to do is to cultivate a life, work, some game and a nice circle of friends and hookups you can spend time with.

Just my 2 cents. Hope you do well.

 

[bat soup]

We (31 M & F) broke up 3 weeks ago and she’s blocked me everywhere.

I got mad at my ex a few weeks ago and was really mean when I yelled at her - this is when we broke up. I tried calling her a week later to ask if she wanted to go to a festival but she told me she was out of town. I texted her afterwards and she responded but it was short and polite. Then last week I called her because I had a panic attack and thought I was going to have to go the ER. She texted me later that day asking if I was okay and cracked a joke.

Anyways, when we had broken up before I started seeing this younger woman (22). It was very casual. Right before we broke up that same woman started following me on social media, liking my pictures, posted this old picture of my dog, and was snooping on my ex’s social media too. My ex brought this up to me and I got annoyed with her because I hadn’t talked that woman in a long time. Well after we broke up. Out of anger, I added this girl back on social media. A few days ago she flew out to stay with me and my ex found out and sent me a text saying, “enjoy your time with ___” and then blocked me on everything.


I should add, we broke up before and she blocked me on social media and then we eventually got back together. This is the first time she’s blocked my number though.

Does she hate me? Think she’ll come around?

We were together for 3 years by the way.

Probably not. There's probably some other guy in the picture by now. Women don't move on until they move ON.

 

[bat soup]

Why? Shouldn’t I try to fight for her?

It takes two people to have a relationship. If the other person is working against you, nothing you do is going to work.

 

[zinc4]

We (31 M & F) broke up 3 weeks ago and she’s blocked me everywhere.

I got mad at my ex a few weeks ago and was really mean when I yelled at her - this is when we broke up. I tried calling her a week later to ask if she wanted to go to a festival but she told me she was out of town. I texted her afterwards and she responded but it was short and polite. Then last week I called her because I had a panic attack and thought I was going to have to go the ER. She texted me later that day asking if I was okay and cracked a joke.

Anyways, when we had broken up before I started seeing this younger woman (22). It was very casual. Right before we broke up that same woman started following me on social media, liking my pictures, posted this old picture of my dog, and was snooping on my ex’s social media too. My ex brought this up to me and I got annoyed with her because I hadn’t talked that woman in a long time. Well after we broke up. Out of anger, I added this girl back on social media. A few days ago she flew out to stay with me and my ex found out and sent me a text saying, “enjoy your time with ___” and then blocked me on everything.


I should add, we broke up before and she blocked me on social media and then we eventually got back together. This is the first time she’s blocked my number though.

Does she hate me? Think she’ll come around?

We were together for 3 years by the way.

She is gone i think man. And if she does come back it will be on her terms which means you are ****ed in that situation and doomed for a lot more pain and suffering than you think you are experiencing now.

Just let it go, move on and learn from the experience.

 

[Hal9000]

Unless you're a violent, psycho nut job she may have blocked you everywhere to see how you'd react. I'd forget she ever existed and see how that goes. I can assure you that asking her about it is the wrong way to go.

 

[derby1]

Does she hate me? Think she’ll come around?

We were together for 3 years by the way.

It doesnt matter what we tell you, weve all been there, your in full on beta retard mode. I would go as far as to say your extremely dangerous in this mindset, purely because you have "shes the one" disease.

This relationship is over, you must go fully silent, no stalking, no making gay open status's on social media.hoping shes stalking you.DO NOTHING

shes probably had another boyfriend lined up for a month with your behaviour(they always have another guy ready) again DO NOTHING

She will most likely unblock you within a month or two, rest assured its only to check you still fancy her, then she will block again, after shes hooked you in.

women are Mercenaries. anything you do from now on she will toy with you like a female lion playing with her dinner. DO NOTHING

 

[R3mmy]

She is gone i think man. And if she does come back it will be on her terms which means you are ****ed in that situation and doomed for a lot more pain and suffering than you think you are experiencing now.

Just let it go, move on and learn from the experience.

why do you think that she’s gone? You don’t think this may just be for attention?

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

This might of been the out she was waiting for or you genuinely put the scare on her ego knows but I'll tell you, there is a difference between chasing and pursuing women

 

[zinc4]

why do you think that she’s gone? You don’t think this may just be for attention?

Obvious answer is obvious.

 

[SW15]

I would just move on

Yes, this is it.