Are young Men really choosing games over relationships ?

[Zimbabwe]

The question has been asked:

Is this a result of Generation Z men not wanting to date, or young men in general being passed over for more successful and older male options for women?

 

[B80]

guess it comes back to the 80/20 thing most of the time. women are being more selective as to who they sleep with in general, over value themselves as a result of one night stands, tinder hookups with 'chads'.

video games give instant dopamine hit, no agg, no rejection etc so can believe its true. they are immersive,fun, addictive. certain games can swallow up a lot of your time.

 

[zinc4]

I heard so many younger women say they prefer older men lately.

My theory is younger men are in general more beta...and they tend to buy in to the feminist and sjw propaganda it seems.

Most don't do well financially as well ofcourse because they are young. So older men are probably more attractive in general.

 

[Focal core]

according to blackpill .. forget LMS . its all about looks. i dont buy the bs going for successful older men while they bangin' chad on the side..
men with money got the starfish sex.

Mature Chads would be an exception

 

[Hal9000]

Young men have awesome video games and limitless porn at their disposal. Makes chasing women around seem like a lot of work for a limited payoff. Makes it easier for those of you who don't think this way however.

 

[zinc4]

according to blackpill .. forget LMS . its all about looks. i dont buy the bs going for successful older men while they bangin' chad on the side..
men with money got the starfish sex.

Mature Chads would be an exception

Looks don't matter when you have a nasally voice, metrosexual vibe and openly support feminism. Women still want a manly man. I see so many beta looking dweebs with beards noawadays trying to look rugged that sound like an effin Christmas elf when they open their mouths.

 

[Focal core]

Looks don't matter when you have a nasally voice, metrosexual vibe and openly support feminism. Women still want a manly man. I see so many beta looking dweebs with beards noawadays trying to look rugged that sound like an effin Christmas elf when they open their mouths.

agreed with women who wouldn't sweep by feminisms would seek a manly man tho. good-looking men are often bluepills and bangin way more chick than pua. its sickening as it is. 80/20 rule still in motion from where i came from. pandemic hasn't change anything with these ho.

 

[SW15]

If they fail on their approaches and swiping efforts, then they will turn to video games and porn.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Chasing women is not something that comes natural to us, contrary to what many posters here will tell you, but chasing after a dopamine high is.

Women were a high source of dopamine for men, now that the dopamine source has been replaced, their true feelings are revealed and it shouldn't come as a surprise that young men are chasing after a dopamine high, it's what we've always done.

Now when you pair the dopamine systems young men have access to with the modern woman attempting to weaponize sex with restriction, well, it's not a shocker to see what's happening as a result.

This is nature at work, you can't just suddenly have a generation of women radically change their femininity and have the masculine not respond with equal change, it's nature and its undefeated.

 

[mjb3617]

I recall a study recently where women prefer more conservative men that are not grounded in sjw and feminist beliefs. I don't remember if age was studied.

I can see that being the case as younger guys these days are too wrapped up in SM and don't think for themselves.

 

[Focal core]

Chasing women is not something that comes natural to us, contrary to what many posters here will tell you, but chasing after a dopamine high is.

Women were a high source of dopamine for men, now that the dopamine source has been replaced, their true feelings are revealed and it shouldn't come as a surprise that young men are chasing after a dopamine high, it's what we've always done.

Now when you pair the dopamine systems young men have access to with the modern woman attempting to weaponize sex with restriction, well, it's not a shocker to see what's happening as a result.

This is nature at work, you can't just suddenly have a generation of women radically change their femininity and have the masculine not respond with equal change, it's nature and its undefeated.

Your points holds true. Looking at sweden started to increasingly imported thai women for wives, that shows how badly feminism has broken the family institution . Even for sweden, AKA Chadland.

 

[Robert28]

There are a lot of single women, doesn’t mean they’re abilities to date though. Think about that.

 

[BadBoy89]

young men in general being passed over for more successful and older male options for women?

In my opinion, it’s about young men not caring anymore about women. When women have sexual freedom, sexual options, full reproductive rights,, decide when and if when they want to have a baby, are NOT virgins, and have the power to destroy men anytime once legally married, the incentive is not there to care.

Now you take away all that stuff, then a man can start to get motivated about women. But other than that, how can a man look at a woman as anything but a blow up doll?

 

[B80]

I understand that dating women has a lot of disadvantages and has become more difficult, but I think it's a mental issue to prefer video games to women. If guys stopped playing video games and began to improve themselves, they would be more successful with women. Playing video games is a waste of time, it's completely useless. Dopamine high? What dopamine high? It's so boring.
I used to play video games when I was young, until 15yo when I got laid for the first time. I've never touched a gamepad after that.

Every time I go to the gym I walk past a "gaming cafe", I see young men spending their evenings there in the dark glued to the monitor screens, I always tell myself what a bunch of losers, they should go to the gym and lift weights, develop some skills, read a book, cook, talk to women...

It's not as negative as some like to make out. Yes self improvement and building your life (to the extent you're happy with) is important, but its not a black and white case that anyone who enjoys relaxing from time to time playing video games is some kind of loser.

You can do all of those things you mention and play games if that's your thing. Obviously playing for several hours every day may be something you need to address as only so much time in a day!

 

[Bingo-Player]

I have a feeling Gen z is going to be lazy really lazy because mummy and daddy will have done absolutely everything imaginable for them

they've probably been over parented Like some of the gen X parents i know are very over protective and have basically babied their kids right the way through to 18

A man usually needs to hustle to get pu$$y it rarely drops on his lap ....i dont think a lot of kids these days know what hustling is they would rather play fort nite and make tiktoks

FYI i am only 29 but i can see the f*ckery building and building

 

[AttackFormation]

Unlike dating (OLD, cold approach and clubs), video games are an enjoyable activity. Sexuality is something we are inflicted with and have to suffer from since puberty, but if you think back to your time as a kid before that, you were perfectly able to be content without it. You are just cursed by it now.

Unlike men who will admonish you to run faster and work harder in the ever escalating rat race of dating, i think most men should do the opposite. Delete OLD. Stop trying to message or give attention through antisocial media. Stop going to clubs. Cold approach enough times to be able to say youve done it, but dont force it. If you feel the need, just jack off and get back to your life.

This doesnt mean you should become an autistic slob. But men need to spend their time doing a balance of activities they personally enjoy which develop their life organically, not waste it on dating. That's my takeaway from the last decade of my life.

 

[bat soup]

The question has been asked:

Is this a result of Generation Z men not wanting to date, or young men in general being passed over for more successful and older male options for women?

It's a valid choice, because women these days are basically just a form of entertainment. If women don't provide value for the time and money spent, its not surprising that men are looking elsewhere.

 

[DonJuanjr]

i think most men should do the opposite. Delete OLD. Stop trying to message or give attention through antisocial media. Stop going to clubs. Cold approach enough times to be able to say youve done it, but dont force it. If you feel the need, just jack off and get back to your life.

Females are not going to be waiting to jump on your djck. With all the options females have, a man has to put forth effort. Going this route will only make one lose a piece of their masculinity over time. Human beings need sexual bonding. Anytime you advocate celibacy, I'm going to push back against it.

 

[SargeMaximus]

I understand that dating women has a lot of disadvantages and has become more difficult, but I think it's a mental issue to prefer video games to women. If guys stopped playing video games and began to improve themselves, they would be more successful with women. Playing video games is a waste of time, it's completely useless. Dopamine high? What dopamine high? It's so boring.
I used to play video games when I was young, until 15yo when I got laid for the first time. I've never touched a gamepad after that.

Every time I go to the gym I walk past a "gaming cafe", I see young men spending their evenings there in the dark glued to the monitor screens, I always tell myself what a bunch of losers, they should go to the gym and lift weights, develop some skills, read a book, cook, talk to women...

I prefer both sides of the fence. I love video games, and I love sex. And the gym tbh. So yeah why not do it all? So much “us vs. Them” these days

 

[Zimbabwe]

I prefer both sides of the fence. I love video games, and I love sex. And the gym tbh. So yeah why not do it all? So much “us vs. Them” these days

The problem is many guys neglect everything else in their free time and only play video games. Balance is key, these guys also should find gamer girls so they have the best of both worlds.

I also love gaming but i still make time for gym 5 times a week and socialising/dating.

If you do spend a lot of time gaming, might as well put it on twitch to stream so you can monetise your hobby.