Beginning to realize my girlfriend might be insane. Need advice if I should walk away.

[Young OG]

All white b******* are like this bro lmao. I've never heard a poc girl say anything remotely like that. How long did yours last?

One of the many reasons I no longer date white women. I would suggest switching to Asian or Latina. 3 years but it was one of those on and off relationships. We would break up and get back together all the time.

 

[Firecrotch66]

3 years but it was one of those on and off relationships. We would break up and get back together all the time.

That's brutal. That doesn't give you the space and motivation to find someone better.

 

[RickTheToad]

No I have a genetic condition that makes me both genders on a genetic level. Look up Klinefelters. Exterior I look like I'm being hammered with an excessive amount of testosterone and I have a hyper-sexual sex drive. I don't fit the external profile whatsoever and I don't have testerone levels to match the physical looks at all. They were only able to find it because of a sports accident I had when I was 18. It does help explain why I've never fit into either gender growing up personality wise. No-one ever saw this as a possibility in my family or friends. I come off as dude as dude can get in person yet I also happen to have a better sense of fashion and women's issues than most women. It's a mind****. My family just thought I was gay for longest time. There was a clinic that wanted to study my condition when I was 18 yet I was terrified of becoming a lab rat so I said no. There is only one other guy with Klinefelters that I know of that has my profile and the clinic is studying the guy, he's 45. Sorry to burst your bubble.

edit: Not to brag yet I got lucky as f**** with Ks. I got a big d*** cause all my intelligence went there. I got a big ass beard. I got lucky as f**** man. I'm the living tease for women who want to have adorable kids. I'm basically the definition of nature playing a practical joke on women. I appreciate nature like h*** now knowing what I'm supposed to look like. I don't take my life for granted at all knowing that nature spared me physically. Like ngl dude you know how great feels knowing that I can read women using the exact skills they're born with because I'm born with those skills. Dude I got the best of both genders. The only downside is is I'm going to have a very painful death and I'm really not looking forward to that. My bones are going to fracture. ****in can't reproduce. Just not a happy ending.

Well, at least I was correct on the feminine energy part. So, are you LGBTQXY+? Are you on gene therapy? There are some amazing things they are doing with stem cells if you are in the US and in the right state.

 

[Firecrotch66]

Well, at least I was correct on the feminine energy part. So, are you LGBTQXY+? Are you on gene therapy? There are some amazing things they are doing with stem cells if you are in the US and in the right state.

Yeah well when you got both genders in ya you're gona have feminine energy. Kinda hard to avoid man. If you have a wife or a gf and she's trying to get you a pick a dress for her dm me I know what looks good on a woman. Nope. I'm just me. Nope just androgel because it'll reduce the chances of osteoporosis when I'm 60 as I'm in the high risk group for that. What'd you mean with the stem cells?

edit: I also think because I was body builder in highschool that might actually be the reason they never caught it. I looked real good back then. Now I just do Brazilian Jiu Jitsu and just super athletic. Nothing compared to the meathead I was lol.

edit: I looked at the stem cell stuff. Probably not dude. My cells are mutated to the very core of the dna. To fix that would probs require me being reborn. I don't think you can fix this at all tbh and what are they going to improve? The specialists team in Maryland don't know jack about this condition. I met with that team and they were honest with me they have no idea what KS is. They don't have a clue. They know a lil bit yet lot of it is still unknown to them. They didn't have the answer to my big question why the f*** do I have traits of someone with high testerone and I don't have the chemical makeup to make that? Like what tf is in my body to even produce that? How can I have the all the physical symptoms yet the chemicals that make that are completely missing? What good will stem cell research do if I have traits without the chemical makeup for it. I'm not going to mess with my body because it's pretty obvious to me this is just how I am. And H*** maybe I am the next step of evolution. Not gona f*** with that.

My cells aren't diseased. They're completely different. I'm like an alien from mars. Literally something else entirely. S*** I am probably the direction your kids are going to evolve towards. The way the people at Hopkins described it is, I'm a prototype for the next gen of humans. I'm you, evolved. Evolution in action homie.

 

[RickTheToad]

Yeah well when you got both genders in ya you're gona have feminine energy. Kinda hard to avoid man. If you have a wife or a gf and she's trying to get you a pick a dress for her dm me I know what looks good on a woman. Nope. I'm just me. Nope just androgel because it'll reduce the chances of osteoporosis when I'm 60 as I'm in the high risk group for that. What'd you mean with the stem cells?

edit: I also think because I was body builder in highschool that might actually be the reason they never caught it. I looked real good back then. Now I just do Brazilian Jiu Jitsu and just super athletic. Nothing compared to the meathead I was lol.

edit: I looked at the stem cell stuff. Probably not dude. My cells are mutated to the very core of the dna. To fix that would probs require me being reborn. I don't think you can fix this at all tbh and what are they going to improve? The specialists team in Maryland don't know jack about this condition. I met with that team and they were honest with me they have no idea what KS is. They don't have a clue. They know a lil bit yet lot of it is still unknown to them. They didn't have the answer to my big question why the f*** do I have traits of someone with high testerone and I don't have the chemical makeup to make that? Like what tf is in my body to even produce that? How can I have the all the physical symptoms yet the chemicals that make that are completely missing? What good will stem cell research do if I have traits without the chemical makeup for it. I'm not going to mess with my body because it's pretty obvious to me this is just how I am. And H*** maybe I am the next step of evolution. Not gona f*** with that.

My cells aren't diseased. They're completely different. I'm like an alien from mars. Literally something else entirely. S*** I am probably the direction your kids are going to evolve towards. The way the people at Hopkins described it is, I'm a prototype for the next gen of humans. I'm you, evolved. Evolution in action homie.

Consider reaching out to Johns-Hopkins. They're the leader in stem cell research. There are some trials you may want to consider as well.

Institute for Cell Engineering

ICE brings together researchers at the Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine who aim to harness the power of stem cells to improve human health.

www.hopkinsmedicine.org

 

[BackInTheGame78]

In terms of sanity I'm far from it. I'm on wellbutrin for off label adhd treatment. I have a genetic condition where I'm born with depression. It's not blowing off the gasket. Not wanting to get vaccinated is fine just she want to meet my parents and I already met hers and I already told her that she needs to get vaccinated if she wants to meet them. She tells me she got vaccinated and now she's telling me she still hasn't done it. She's told me she likes to get her way in a sneaky way and it's just alot of this unnecessary behavior. I don't get it. This has been going on since the first day we dated.

You've allowed it all this time and now you suddenly think it's going to change? C'mon OP. People get what they allow

 

[Alvafe]

Thats OP's problem not hers

also is not like the vaccine will prevent you from passing the virus to others or prevent mutations, if that was the case no one would still get flu after getting once or after getting the vaccine

 

[EyeBRollin]

also is not like the vaccine will prevent you from passing the virus to others

False.

 

[Modern Man Advice]

Been trying to get her to get vaccinated. Her excuse last night was "Why should I get vaccinated if I'm not sick." Then I explained to her the whole point of vaccination is help those with autoimmune disorders not get infected. To help the elderly. To ensure there is a possibility of ending the pandemic by preventing the virus from having options to mutate. Her response was "People who have been vaccinated still get sick." I'm getting pissed off listening to this. I can't have a rational conversation with this ***** at all. Every time we talk about a rational common sense subject I get pissed to hell and she calls that "being passionate." The main topics that come up in conversation is she goes "I'm depressed. Poor me. And I think I have narcissistic personality disorder." All I can think is what the f***. I tried to get her to find a better job one that will require her full attention and she will not have time to text me while I'm at work. I don't respond obviously. She complains all the **** the time about everything. She tells me how she doesn't want to get fat and then goes to McDonalds. These contradictions don't make any sense whatsoever. I genuinely think she might be insane. She told me at one point she likes dating me because I make her feel sane. I don't understand this woman. Honestly I genuinely think she has no intentions to build a relationship. I think she is just looking for someone she can obsess about and have a steady supply of attention. I don't think she gives a **** about my life and like I said it's just a way for her to get her attention fix. It's so bizarre because in a sense she seems the perfect woman to me.

She cooks. She cleans. She's very intimate. She loves sex. She's friendly. Makes great first impressions and wants to dress sexy for me. She listens to what my pleasure mechanisms are. Yet on the other end I can't have one rational conversation with her. She wants to talk at the most inconvenient moments during the exact times I have my responsibilities to take care of. Constantly tries to get me invested in her coworkers bull****. When I ask her to do something she doesn't do it yet she says she will. I know her brother and he's a very normal dude. His gf all she told me about mine is everybody tried to get her help and they gave up. Everybody tried to get her to go see a therapist and she just won't commit to anything. For me it feels like she's just playing this weird game to get attention and that's all she cares about. Whether it's positive or negative attention she doesn't care. In terms of addiction I'm a veteran to that. I had a drug addiction for 10 years. Once an addict always an addict. I still think about it all the time. I'm addicted to sex and ironically weed. I've done harder drugs yet never had a craving for them the way I do for weed and sex. I can tell you right off the bat feels like she's a social version of a drug addict.

It seems like she knows exactly what she wants yet doing it in the most ****ed up way possible.

Like holy **** what I am even doing with this woman.

Like @Bokanovsky said, sounds like you got a loose screw in your head. What makes you think you own her body and you can over impose your beliefs unto others?

Not everyone believes this vaccine is the answer and especially given it's your own body in question, what makes you think she should lose her body sovereignty?

If this is very important to you, I respect that, but if she is not on the same page then you may not have the same values and principles. In which case, do walk away and be with someone that shares those things with you and let her be with someone that shares hers.

I'll leave you with this, your beliefs don't make you right. I am not pro-vaxx, and have strong beliefs on covid-19 and what is happening, but I still know I can be wrong. But I do know this is my body (which is a temple) we are talking about, I should not have to be forced to use it as a guinea pig or lab rat tool. Your reality is your reality, not someone else's.

Last but not least, if you are vaccinated, why do you care? You are "protected" aren't you? Isn't that the whole point? If you are concerned about being infected even after taking the "vaccine" then I assume you don't genuinely believe in its effectiveness. Is that correct?

Modern Man Advice

 

[bat soup]

Been trying to get her to get vaccinated. Her excuse last night was "Why should I get vaccinated if I'm not sick." Then I explained to her the whole point of vaccination is help those with autoimmune disorders not get infected. To help the elderly. To ensure there is a possibility of ending the pandemic by preventing the virus from having options to mutate. Her response was "People who have been vaccinated still get sick." I'm getting pissed off listening to this. I can't have a rational conversation with this ***** at all. Every time we talk about a rational common sense subject I get pissed to hell and she calls that "being passionate." The main topics that come up in conversation is she goes "I'm depressed. Poor me. And I think I have narcissistic personality disorder." All I can think is what the f***. I tried to get her to find a better job one that will require her full attention and she will not have time to text me while I'm at work. I don't respond obviously. She complains all the **** the time about everything. She tells me how she doesn't want to get fat and then goes to McDonalds. These contradictions don't make any sense whatsoever. I genuinely think she might be insane. She told me at one point she likes dating me because I make her feel sane. I don't understand this woman. Honestly I genuinely think she has no intentions to build a relationship. I think she is just looking for someone she can obsess about and have a steady supply of attention. I don't think she gives a **** about my life and like I said it's just a way for her to get her attention fix. It's so bizarre because in a sense she seems the perfect woman to me.

She cooks. She cleans. She's very intimate. She loves sex. She's friendly. Makes great first impressions and wants to dress sexy for me. She listens to what my pleasure mechanisms are. Yet on the other end I can't have one rational conversation with her. She wants to talk at the most inconvenient moments during the exact times I have my responsibilities to take care of. Constantly tries to get me invested in her coworkers bull****. When I ask her to do something she doesn't do it yet she says she will. I know her brother and he's a very normal dude. His gf all she told me about mine is everybody tried to get her help and they gave up. Everybody tried to get her to go see a therapist and she just won't commit to anything. For me it feels like she's just playing this weird game to get attention and that's all she cares about. Whether it's positive or negative attention she doesn't care. In terms of addiction I'm a veteran to that. I had a drug addiction for 10 years. Once an addict always an addict. I still think about it all the time. I'm addicted to sex and ironically weed. I've done harder drugs yet never had a craving for them the way I do for weed and sex. I can tell you right off the bat feels like she's a social version of a drug addict.

It seems like she knows exactly what she wants yet doing it in the most ****ed up way possible.

Like holy **** what I am even doing with this woman.

If she sucks a good dik who cares if she's insane? Whilst she's in hospital with Covid you can go bang other girls.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Last but not least, if you are vaccinated, why do you care? You are "protected" aren't you? Isn't that the whole point? If you are concerned about being infected even after taking the "vaccine" then I assume you don't genuinely believe in its effectiveness. Is that correct?

Modern Man Advice

The vaccine is not a shield of armor. Vaccinated people walking through a COVID-19 ward in a hospital or any high transmission area without wearing a mask is still a stupid thing to do. The vaccine simply gives the body the virus cheat code so that you don’t end up in the hospital.

 

[CBear]

Without revealing too much, I'm high up in the medical field. Let me tell you, the people that are extreme on others getting the vaccine are part of the issue. It may be okay for certain people but not for others. But there's no right answer. You need to do more research not just on all the science, indications, contraindications of this vaccine, etc.. but also on history of past mainstream medication administration, past experiments, and subversion of society by various governments. All in all, if you are anywhere between adolescence and age 40, getting the vaccine can arguably be a pretty terrible long term decision for your body. Op, in the end, your gf needs to respect your decision on getting the vaccine but you need to respect her decision as well. I wish you were right and that she truly was crazy, but in reality, you are part of the problem.

 

[EyeBRollin]

But there's no right answer.

This is just wrong. The vaccine reduces incidence of death or hospitalization from COVID-19.

 

[CBear]

This is just wrong. The vaccine reduces incidence of death or hospitalization from COVID-19.

No it does not. Do your research. I work directly with these patients.

 

[EyeBRollin]

No it does not. Do your research. I work directly with these patients.

The research on it is conclusive. You are regurgitating misinformation.

 

[CBear]

This is just wrong. The vaccine reduces incidence of death or hospitalization from COVID-19.

If you truly are open to finding the answers and be impartial, you will do so and grow your understanding. The hospitalizations and deaths caused by long term effects of the vaccine (but not from the actual virus) doesnt necessarily make it a good option for plenty of people, in fact for many people, it has been the worse option.
If what you were saying was true, we would be seeing this in medical settings and I would agree with you, but you disagreeing with me that each individual must carefully make a decision based on their medical history makes you wrong.

But thinking that every person needs to get it without looking at all the other aspects of that individual is scientifically r3tarded.

 

[EyeBRollin]

The hospitalizations and deaths caused by long term effects of the vaccine (but not from the actual virus) makes it not a good option for plenty of people.

The alleged numbers of vaccine-induced fatalities have been infinitesimal. As of today the USA is at 675,000 deaths due to COVID-19.

 

[CBear]

The alleged numbers of vaccine-induced fatalities have been infinitesimal. As of today the USA is at 675,000 deaths due to COVID-19.

You clearly don't understand how we document these deaths.

 

[EyeBRollin]

You clearly don't understand how we document these deaths.

You have counter-data to enlighten us with?

 

[Alvafe]

False.

yeah nothing new you really don't know