Edison Chen
Don Juan
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Have you guys been to a situation that you were in a ceremony or assembly, where the logics didn't allow you to approach the girl immediately, and you glanced the audience, you found a girl staring at you with appreciation in her eyes, apparently she was attracted by you. She was looking at you straightly, with some expectation and curious in her eyes, then you felt a little bit nervous and thought about whether your actions were good enough to keep making her feel good about you and keep her attention. So you fidgeted in your chairs and start to calibrate your actions. But when the ceremony ended and you approached her, you can see that the appreciation in her eyes was gone , there was a hint of contempt and teasing instead. You know you screwed up, but you don't know why this girl's attitude changed so quickly. You may also had approached a gorgeous girl, you walked to her and start to chat with her confidently at beginning, everything was going well .The girl start to curious about you and ask you questions with enthusiastic, you know that things were going well but suddenly you were amazed that the girl was so gorgeous, you started to feel a little bit nervous and your ego came out " the girl was so pretty and you can't lose this girl." So you began to stuck in your head and the filter worked again, you ran out of things to say and acted awkwardly. After a flurry of embarrassment, the girl left on a random excuse and leave.
When a woman around you senses that you were affected by her and change the way that you act ,or you start to pay some attention on her actions, no matter how subtle these behaviors was, you are done.
As we know, women are focus on behavioral cues, these behaviors subcommunicated that :
1.You don't have a strong or substantial reality, the outside things were easily affected you, and you even seeking for outside stimulus.
2.Your reality was boring and you are not self-amused, you don't know who you are. You rely on hers reactions to feel in state and gain approval.
3.Scarcity.You can't hold the （sexual） tension that she gave you, that indicated you hardly interact with the girls of her level.
The most obvious things that few people got was the girls were attracted by you because of who you are, once you change the way you act, you were no longer the person that she attracted to before, so automatically she will lose attraction at you. When a woman was just attracted by you, she wants to figure out that whether you are the person that she perceives you or you project yourself as, so whether you change your behavior when you start to interact with her even could count as a subtle congruence test.
When a woman around you senses that you were affected by her and change the way that you act ,or you start to pay some attention on her actions, no matter how subtle these behaviors was, you are done.
As we know, women are focus on behavioral cues, these behaviors subcommunicated that :
1.You don't have a strong or substantial reality, the outside things were easily affected you, and you even seeking for outside stimulus.
2.Your reality was boring and you are not self-amused, you don't know who you are. You rely on hers reactions to feel in state and gain approval.
3.Scarcity.You can't hold the （sexual） tension that she gave you, that indicated you hardly interact with the girls of her level.
The most obvious things that few people got was the girls were attracted by you because of who you are, once you change the way you act, you were no longer the person that she attracted to before, so automatically she will lose attraction at you. When a woman was just attracted by you, she wants to figure out that whether you are the person that she perceives you or you project yourself as, so whether you change your behavior when you start to interact with her even could count as a subtle congruence test.
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