Ok, why did this girl ghost?

[SargeMaximus]

The chats are dead because the convo is boring and routine she has probably had that conversation 1000 times already this week

I think i have told you before but you have got too up your text game if your using these OLD platforms

Find something unique about her , then start busting her balls on it and then onto flirting

a good opener i came up with last week for insta which i want full credit for

" was about to say i like your profile but then i read your captions ( dead face emoji ) "

You better believe it got her attention and then some




this goes for everyone if you feel like you are going through the motions your text game is DEAD

Yeah but trying to have an exciting conversation is about as fun as cutting off my own limbs

 

[SargeMaximus]

Opener stays the same as it's all about context. Just have her come over when your brother isn't there.

Trying that opener now. Had a girl who said my place but then when I went to get her address so I could pick her up she said “Hang on aha “ and that’s it. I sent a ? But no response.

also got this one. Pic below:

 

[manfrombelow]

Nobody here is Charles Xavier so nobody could actually give you the exact answer WHY she ghosted you, but one thing is clear: People DON'T ghost people they like. And this is OLD we are talking about. You were one in 10000000 guys that wanted to get into her pants so who cares why she ghosted?

 

[DonJuanjr]

“I want a friends with benefits” you don’t say sh*t like that.
Way to aggressive, way too straight forward.

I don't know... I've tried about every way of opening females... The only bit of success I had was when I opened with this:

me - You've been selected to apply for a position as my fwb.. Do you:
Like casual sex?
Dislike drama?
Dislike needy people?
Like bald guys?
If yes to any of these, reply to this message. If you don't like bald guys, I can always wear a wig of golden curls.

The chick was only a hb5, and the only one out of 40 or so that I sent it to. I still ended my dry spell though... Nothing else worked...

 

[TheNewStyle123]

Ah fair, that makes me feel better. Tbh, I’m on one hell of a dry spell rn. Lost my fwb due to listening to some stupid advice on here but that’s on me

It happens man. It's been feast or famine with me too. In a good place right now with some plates, but you can bet I smashed an HB 4.5 not too long ago hahaha

 

[DonJuanjr]

Lost my fwb due to listening to some stupid advice on here but that’s on me

What was the advice?

 

[SargeMaximus]

The best way to look at ghosting is Rollo's "the medium is the message".

A woman's actions always show you her TRUE interest level. If she's ghosted you then she's not interested, and you have your answer.
Q:"Why did she ghost?"
A: "She's not interested"

A woman's words are next to meaningless. Always look at her actions. A lay is never guaranteed until your d1ck is literally inside her, even if she's been promising you sex up until that point.

Also, there's no "one-size fits all" approach to women. Just because a previous woman responded in a certain way to your Game, it doesn't mean the next one will. Some women respond well to Mode 1 super direct "I want you to be my friend with benefits", but I'd say this is a minority. You're filtering for giga-slvts with that approach. Most women need indirect, seductive communication to get them into bed, if that's your goal.

I do wish people like you would address the issue that people like me and donjuanjr can’t seem to get results unless we are direct.

if I was still trying indirect game Since 2012, I have no doubt I would still be a virgin.

 

[SargeMaximus]

What was the advice?

Next her. By doing so she nexted me in response. We had plans to meet up but I “took the initiative” and forced her to find another dude

 

[SargeMaximus]

Read the Art of Seduction by Robert Greene

Have years ago. No help

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Lmao...try leaving the sex talk out until you meet her. Same mistakes guys make all the time...women love talking about sex but they see guys who start out like that as being thirsty.

I almost never initiate sex talk and I do pretty well online.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Lmao...try leaving the sex talk out until you meet her. Same mistakes guys make all the time...women love talking about sex but they see guys who start out like that as being thirsty.

I almost never initiate sex talk and I do pretty well online.

Literally the only way I get laid in my entire life is by being direct and sexual. What about that are you not hearing? I’ve only said it a million times across this forum

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Literally the only way I get laid in my entire life is by being direct and sexual. What about that are you not hearing? I’ve only said it a million times across this forum

You have a very self limiting belief system. That's your problem more than anything else.

You believe you can't get laid by other means yet the means by which you do get laid scares away 80% of women right off the bat.

 

[oldmanofthesea]

I do wish people like you would address the issue that people like me and donjuanjr can’t seem to get results unless we are direct.

if I was still trying indirect game Since 2012, I have no doubt I would still be a virgin.

If a man can't get results by being indirect, it means there is a problem with his indirect game. The only way to offer suggestions would be to see you in action and assess the problems then offer a solution.

 

[SargeMaximus]

You have a very self limiting belief system. That's your problem more than anything else.

You believe you can't get laid by other means yet the means by which you do get laid scares away 80% of women right off the bat.

I have tried daygame for years and approached hundreds of women. I got tired of being a virgin.

until I hear a way that doesn’t involve what I’ve already proven doesn’t work for me, I’ll stick with what works.

the insane thing would be to keep trying what doesn’t work and expecting a different results. That’s literally the definition of insane

 

[SargeMaximus]

If a man can't get results by being indirect, it means there is a problem with his indirect game. The only way to offer suggestions would be to see you in action and assess the problems then offer a solution.

I think it has to do with how I hate conversations and being indirect. I’m not indirect in anything. So it’s incongruent and the girl can tell.

 

[oldmanofthesea]

I think it has to do with how I hate conversations and being indirect. I’m not indirect in anything. So it’s incongruent and the girl can tell.

Then that is something to work on. Are you able to find some people interesting? Are you curious enough about them to find out if they are interesting and see what they are all about?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I have tried daygame for years and approached hundreds of women. I got tired of being a virgin.

until I hear a way that doesn’t involve what I’ve already proven doesn’t work for me, I’ll stick with what works.

the insane thing would be to keep trying what doesn’t work and expecting a different results. That’s literally the definition of insane

If that's the case either you have the world's worst conversational ability or you simply have no ability to adjust what you are doing and keep doing the same thing over and over again that doesn't work.

There are plenty of ways to adjust without going from one extreme to the other.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Then that is something to work on. Are you able to find some people interesting? Are you curious enough about them to find out if they are interesting and see what they are all about?

No. I tried doing “how to win friends and influence people” when I was first getting into pua. It got me friends who wanted to use me as emotional tampon. Hardly an alpha role so I stopped

 

[SargeMaximus]

If that's the case either you have the world's worst conversational ability or you simply have no ability to adjust what you are doing and keep doing the same thing over and over again that doesn't work.

There are plenty of ways to adjust without going from one extreme to the other.

I’m open to suggestions. But I do suck at conversations unless there is a goal. I’m good at sales for example but there is a goal. I don’t chit chat for it’s own sake. Whenever I’ve tried people get visibly drained, even if I’m showing interest in them.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I’m open to suggestions. But I do suck at conversations unless there is a goal. I’m good at sales for example but there is a goal. I don’t chit chat for it’s own sake. Whenever I’ve tried people get visibly drained, even if I’m showing interest in them.

How can you not see a goal?

The goal is to make the woman realize that you are a fun, awesome guy that she would like to get to know better and allowing her to have the opportunity to do so.

Be playful, fun, teasing, etc...I am willing to bet you come off as being overly serious like it's a life or death mission you are on...that won't work...it will turn them off because you are too concerned with the outcome.