Men Who Cold Approach Should Be Proud

[corrector]

I did it for 3 years and approached hundreds of women. Not a single lay and only two dates to show for it. Too inefficient for my tastes

So OLD works better and you get quick lays. Why cold approach if you can use a swipe app right? What quality of women are you meeting with OLD?

 

[corrector]

I tried to bounce with her for a walk but she said no. Brought up the bf a billion times. I decided to cut my losses.

it was the next day actually when I met that other girl. The date with her was stale so I gave up approaching altogether. These two came at the end of those 3 years and were very demoralizing.

I met a Black 18 year old in 2006 from POF back in 2006 so I also dated an 18 year old at least once in my life as well. We kissed each other but didn't go further than that. Was really turned on at the time of meeting an 18 year old girl from OLD. Are you able to meet really young girls from OLD as well or do you feel you are rejected by them because of age-restrictions?

 

[SargeMaximus]

So OLD works better and you get quick lays. Why cold approach if you can use a swipe app right? What quality of women are you meeting with OLD?

I’ve met and ****ed anywhere from 5-8/10’s but most of my lays are in the 5.5-6.5 range and, as I had recently, with a 7.5 I couldnt get hard ><

 

[SargeMaximus]

I met a Black 18 year old in 2006 from POF back in 2006 so I also dated an 18 year old at least once in my life as well. We kissed each other but didn't go further than that. Was really turned on at the time of meeting an 18 year old girl from OLD. Are you able to meet really young girls from OLD as well or do you feel you are rejected by them because of age-restrictions?

I’ve ****ed 20-25 year olds mostly tbh. I’m talking to a 22 year old right now who wants me to beat and **** her while she will pay for the hotel

 

[corrector]

Giving a business card is a bad idea because it is not effective.

You are right, it is not effective with our looks-tier. We have to be realistic about what works on our looks-tier. But I do feel it's a technical "well I tried something", if it's meant to be she'll magically call at some point in the future.

I think if you give out a business card, the chances should marginally increase if you ask the girl to call you if she wants to hook-up and wink rather than just give it and walk away and leave it to her to interpret your intentions.

 

[corrector]

I’ve met and ****ed anywhere from 5-8/10’s but most of my lays are in the 5.5-6.5 range and, as I had recently, with a 7.5 I couldnt get hard ><

What age is on your OLD profile? What type of pics are you putting up? Do you have a long wordy profile or a short type of profile? Who initiates, you or the woman?

 

[corrector]

I’ve ****ed 20-25 year olds mostly tbh. I’m talking to a 22 year old right now who wants me to beat and **** her while she will pay for the hotel

Wow. What site are you using for that? These are Tinder girls? That's really rad.

I don't get how there is such a discrepancy between in person approaches and online dating with you. It doesn't add up, but if I were in your position, I wouldn't care about any cold approach with that type of action.

 

[SargeMaximus]

What age is on your OLD profile? What type of pics are you putting up? Do you have a long wordy profile or a short type of profile? Who initiates, you or the woman?

I initiate except on bumble of course. They all very old. Not very wordy. Two selfies. Very simple profile

 

[SW15]

You are right, it is not effective with our looks-tier. We have to be realistic about what works on our looks-tier. But I do feel it's a technical "well I tried something", if it's meant to be she'll magically call at some point in the future.

I think if you give out a business card, the chances should marginally increase if you ask the girl to call you if she wants to hook-up and wink rather than just give it and walk away.

Guys who are generally considered to be 8+ on looks could get away with the business card maneuver. However, they would not be motivated to do that. These are men that would get women to write their numbers on receipts (bartenders and waitresses) or have women volunteer their phone numbers. They'll have to ask some women for numbers but they'll get some volume of eager women.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Wow. What site are you using for that? These are Tinder girls? That's really rad.

I don't get how there is such a discrepancy between in person approaches and online dating with you. It doesn't add up, but if I were in your position, I wouldn't care about any cold approach with that type of action.

and now you know why I don’t do cold approach anymore

yeahthe best sites for me have been okc, and badoo. Although I’ve ****ed a girl from every app but not tinder actually. I been banned from tinder

 

[corrector]

I initiate except on bumble of course. They all very old. Not very wordy. Two selfies. Very simple profile

...and what age do you put on your profile? Do you put a younger age than your chronological one? Do you use very old photos since they look younger and will attract younger women? If you approach the same type of women you are meeting online in real life do you think they would be receptive to you or were you shooting for higher hbs then you are getting online with the approaches?

 

[SargeMaximus]

...and what age do you put on your profile? Do you put a younger age than your chronological one? Do you use very old photos since they look younger and will attract younger women? If you approach the same type of women you are meeting online in real life do you think they would be receptive to you or were you shooting for higher hbs then you are getting online with the approaches?

No I put my real age. Younger women that I **** love older men.

honestly I’m getting lower quality women online than I would approach normally (with a few exceptions obviously). Problem is, approaching doesn’t equal sex, whereas a receptive girl online is almost always a lay.

but if I was approaching these quality women in real life I think I’d get rejected just the same. My in person game sucks. My in date game preceded by highly sexualized texting seems to do well

 

[corrector]

No I put my real age. Younger women that I **** love older men.

That's news to me. This is bumble, okc and/or badoo?

 

[SargeMaximus]

That's news to me. This is bumble, okc and/or badoo?

Yes

 

[coyote_astro]

You must approach.



Cold approach is quite challenging. I've been a massive cold approacher lifetime but have dealt with a lot of shiit. Still, it is better than app swiping.

It's not the cheat code he makes it out to be.

I don't disagree that he presents it in a very markety-kinda way. He wants to make money out of it above all else.

But I think we both agree that it's still a very useful skill to have, especially because very few have the guts to do it.

 

[Velasco]

alcohol lowers girls standards + makes them want to fck someone tonight (talking bars and clubs). is why i think you can SNL the kind of girls you wouldn't match/chat with online.

 

[King Lion]

"The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, but expecting different results.”
Albert Einstein

 

[Georgepithyou]

trying to raise attraction , being funny and then you can make one wrong comment and boom its all down the drain

her interest level was low to begin with, if a woman has high interest you pretty much have to go out of your way to mess up.

 

[Bingo-Player]

true but 99% of chicks you meet just wont have high interest straight away competition is way too high at least in my area obviously could differ in other places

 

[Pandora]

What is called 'cold approach' is really all I do. I don't know anything else.

It's really not that hard as long as when you start up a conversation with a woman you don't start with the idea that anything is going to happen. You are just talking to another person, that's all... I guess the hard part, which comes with experience is just understanding body language and mannerism. You just have a gut feeling she is open to you, I can't explain it and it really isn't infallible. Some chicks might actually be attracted to you, but if she isn't available you don't have a shot. More often than not she really isn't open to you. But it's pretty fvcking obvious from the start if a chick isn't, at that point you just toss that fish back in.

The introduction is just the start of a very fast process. Success rate is very low, but you can't get ahead of yourself. I don't keep track but my guess is that less than 10% of women I approach I end up on a date with.

Any PUA that says they can teach you how to get any woman you see if a lying piece of cr@p that is just trying to get in your wallet.

100% agree. I also think that there is a large genetic component to it. Its like sales. Some people got it and some dont. Its very difficult to teach something as complex and intense as cold approaching hot women. Introverts struggle. There is nothing wrong with that either. Play the game to your own strength.

I also agree with the less than 10% average. That's about what I used to average at when I still cold approached.