I guess I didn't realize we were only taking about serious LTRs here.
And paraplegics can play basketball.
Women HB8+ have no development in personal skills. They’ve spent their whole lives coasting on beauty. Combine that with 99% of men trying to get with her for the rest of your life. That is recipe for at best a miserable relationship. Find a chick that’s merely “cute,” physically fit, and can dress. She will look almost as good and have twice the character.
Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
It's an interesting heuristic that works for low-tier and trashy women, but there are hb8+ that aren't like this. The ones I know are from wealthier families with very good relationships with their parents.
Relationship with parents doesn’t protect HB8+ from the privileges that come with their beauty. I don’t know why guys think HB8+ can be reformed or that they will ever be as submissive or cooperative as less attractive women. That goes against female hypergamy. If you’re Chris Hemsworth or Michael B. Jordan knock yourself out with the baddies. The rest of y’all are deluding yourselves.
I fully endorse this notion.
| Deal Breakers |
| Cigarette smoker |
| Drug use (even Recreational) |
| Psychiatric history or medication including Eating disorders |
| Prior arrests or convictions |
| Alcohol abuse requiring treatment |
| Evidence of lying to me |
| Withholding of Sex as a punishment |
| Animal Rights or Extreme environmentalist |
| Debts in collections-Poor credit |
| Extreme mood swings |
| Desire for breast implants (pre existing is ok) |
| Unable to get along with my children and family |
| Seeks confrontations |
| Chronic pain |
| Wants to have (more) children or has children under 10 yo. |
| Married twice or more |
| Overweight by more than 20 pounds |
| Under 5 feet tall. Over 6’ 2” |
| High maintenance in appearance (plastic surgery) |
| History of Obesity |
| Must Haves |
| A frequent desire and willingness for sex |
| A positive attitude |
| A career direction and demonstrated ability to keep a job. |
| Athletic hobbies |
| A sense of adventure |
| Enjoys camping and outdoors |
| A social circle of her own as well and be willing to be in my social circle |
| Able to socialize with friends and strangers alike |
| Enjoy fine dining |
| Likes to dance |
| Likes animals but not crazy |
| Enjoys travel and the act of travelling |
| Physically affectionate |
| Encouraging and optimistic |
| Romantic |
| Can connect with children and my family |
| Intelligent and values learning |
| Cares about her appearance |
| Cares about her health |
I really did, but it came easily. When you are unsatisfied in a relationship you can pretty clearly define what you want and don't want.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I do have a woman who ticks EVERY ONE of those boxes...
Read it more carefully. They don’t “focus” on beauty; they go through life awarded privileges because they are beautiful. I’ve corresponded with a fair number of HB8+. I’m man enough to admit I am never on their “high interest” radar. I only want women who view me as the prize. Her interest level in you is the hallmark of success in the relationship. Yes, I’d much rather be the king to an HB6 than an option to an HB8+.
On the contrary. I don’t need the hottest girl in the room for validation.
That is just 100% false. The prettier the girl, the more options she has. An HB8+ will not be as submissive as less attractive women because she doesn’t have to be. She’s only going to submit to Chris Hemsworth or Michael B. Jordan caliber of men. That is her high interest prototype. Women truly of that level of beauty get bombarded with hundreds of male options. You have to be rich, tall, fit, and connected to earn their submission. Then you have to be able to afford to maintain the relationship with the girl. I pass on that because it is a bad deal. I advocate more men do the same.
My experience simply doesn't reflect what you're saying. But what you're saying isn't wrong. It's just not a steady-fast rule that applies to all.
Each one of those deal breakers is a boundary and you have to feel abundant enough to respect your own boundaries. I didn't for 20 years.
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
Very hot women are a nightmare for Ltrs since it's much more likely that she'll be tempted to cheat on you
The hotter the girl, the more options she has. That’s more Chads and Tyrones trying to rip off your girl.
So basically your "logic" is coming from your own (irrationality) insecurity.
if she is a woman with values, principles and strong boundaries this won't matter.
Who? If her interest is high enough in you and she is well principled........
It's a global pandemic. 6+ lulz plain Jane cute but YOUNGISH! 18-23 preferably. Must be under 30. No accidentally on purpose preggers for me.
You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
