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Unusually attractive guy in college from a couple years ago, and girls' reactions

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When I was in community college 2 years ago, there was a guy in my class who made an unusually powerful impression on girls:
he was about 6'8 tall, he had a very powerful and muscular build, and he had a face that would be considered really beautiful by most people.

I noticed from the very first day, 4 years ago, while we were being guided around the campus, that several of the girls in our class gazed at him and smiled at him - or just looked sort of amazed - and some of them whispered things to each other while giving him smiles and glances, or seemed to give him subtle eyebrow flashes, and the girls who stood next to him would blush, give him glances, and play with their hair a lot, and sometimes, seemingly subconsciously, remove one piece of clothing.
This was what I saw on our very first day, and it continued sort of like that a couple days after that.

A couple days after this, I noticed that girls would try to sit next to him, and one beautiful busty blonde girl - the kind of girl who most guys would fight for - who sat in front of him leaned a bit over his desk in some tight low-cut top while talking to him (probably on purpose!), and they would ask him about all kinds of things and act very interested in everything that he said and give him undivided attention, and the next day a group of girls during another lecture touched his hair and asked to feel his arm muscles, and then asked him to come to their party that weekend.
He seemed both flattered and slightly indifferent at the same time, but said yes to their invitation.

The weeks after this seemed to mostly consist of him giving several girls in our class - as well as other girls from other classes - a chance to have a date with him, since I would see him have the company of different girls every day, and all those girls seemed hugely excited to be with him.
And as you have probably guessed, I did see him sit and make out with different girls - in fact, if I saw him at parties then he would sometimes have one girl on both sides sitting close to him - and since I lived in the same apartment building as him, I would sometimes see him bring girls home to his apartment, and then just a few seconds later I would hear something that undeniably sounded like wild sex (it was quite low and hard to hear because of the sound insulation, but it definitely sounded like something like that).
And there was one time when a girl came and knocked on his door - dressed in just a small tight tank top and a short tight skirt - and he just opened, started making out with her, gave her a spank, and lifted her up and carried her inside, and then I could hear them getting it on almost immediately after that.

This guy attracted girls so easily that none of us other guys had a chance at all - he had complete monopoly on the girls in our class, and I am honestly almost 100% sure that he banged all of them at some point (although probably mostly the most attractive girls - he could be as picky as he wanted).
I have never experienced anything like this before, and I can only assume that this guy was a very extreme and rare "outlier" in terms of attractiveness.

What do you think about this?
Is this a common thing among unusually super-attractive guys?
And what is going on in the minds of girls who meet a guy like him?
 

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A lot of you all would do better to just view women and men as the same. Then, the mystery would be solved pretty easily.
I agree that get a woman attracted to you is largely (probably mostly) based on looks, but what percent of it do you think is one's social game? <--- I am asking this question to anyone who thinks they know.
 

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I agree that get a woman attracted to you is largely (probably mostly) based on looks, but what percent of it do you think is one's social game? <--- I am asking this question to anyone who thinks they know.
Maybe, but I was still surprised at how he literally got invited to parties by groups of girls in just a couple days simply because of their attraction to his looks.

It also seemed as if they were fine with "waiting for their turn", since he would sometimes literally say, in a rather flattered tone, that he would agree on a date with one girl before dating the other girls who were next to her.
 

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That seems reasonable.
It kind of makes me wonder how this worked for this particular guy from my class;
maybe the girls found his looks irresistible so that they started going on raw physical instincts, and were primarily focused on having sex with him as soon as possible.
 

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Was his name Ernest Khalimov(Giga Chad) by any chance?
No, but he did have roughly that body type.

Seems like a black pill fantasy.
I didn't mean it that way - I am aware that guys can get girls without having to be the 20% best-looking guys.
But this particular guy just seemed to be a far outlier, so that he got really great advantages in terms of looks, and I found this to be a pretty strange experience, since I haven't seen a scenario quite like this before.
 

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Looks 70%, other factors 30%
Probably true at the start but other factors start becoming increasingly important the more a woman spends time around you and gets to know you which is why you are typically able to date thr hottest women from social circle interactions if you are a genuinely good guy who has a lot of personality and is fun to be around.

The more they know you the less looks matter.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Probably true at the start but other factors start becoming increasingly important the more a woman spends time around you and gets to know you which is why you are typically able to date thr hottest women from social circle interactions if you are a genuinely good guy who has a lot of personality and is fun to be around.

The more they know you the less looks matter.
That was sort of the scenario that I witnessed regarding this guy in my class;
he was arguably a lot more good-looking than the other guys - despite the fact that a lot of us other guys were considered good-looking ourselves - so I guess this gave him a dramatic headstart in terms of physical attraction.
Maybe this is enough to give him lots of free effortless date invitations like that.
 

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Had a friend that was an 8 in terms of L alone, good looking and well dressed.

He had girls going out of their way to talk to him, he wasnt even that smart and didnt even have a proper education yet his L alone basically made all the work.

No need for "game", "frame creation" or whatever has been preeched in this board till few years ago.

Women filter men not any different than how nazis did, based on the genetic stock you belong.

Only after a certain age other things matter like money or social position.

Also keep in mind that "status" often comes effortless if you have enough L already.
 

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No, but he did have roughly that body type.


I didn't mean it that way - I am aware that guys can get girls without having to be the 20% best-looking guys.
But this particular guy just seemed to be a far outlier, so that he got really great advantages in terms of looks, and I found this to be a pretty strange experience, since I haven't seen a scenario quite like this before.
Kinda crazy they took turns dating him. They do male strippers like that.
 

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Kinda crazy they took turns dating him. They do male strippers like that.
I think they may have just thought of it as chances to spend time with him - kind of like giving him a good "first impression".

But of course, I am sure that all of them were hoping to take it to a sexual stage, and that they would be the first with that.
And considering the fact that the guy himself seemed to enjoy their company, he probably got pretty intimate with several of them.
 

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A guy I know who is 5'8" has banged 4 different 9/10s this month alone.
 

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Maybe, but I was still surprised at how he literally got invited to parties by groups of girls in just a couple days simply because of their attraction to his looks.
same with guys who are hung, dont believe for one second women arent obsessed with a guy who has a big unit,

Ive seen them giggle, melt, and literally listen to orders.

You can DM like you have special needs, and they'll still come round yours
 

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When I was in community college 2 years ago, there was a guy in my class who made an unusually powerful impression on girls:
he was about 6'8 tall, he had a very powerful and muscular build, and he had a face that would be considered really beautiful by most people.

I noticed from the very first day, 4 years ago, while we were being guided around the campus, that several of the girls in our class gazed at him and smiled at him - or just looked sort of amazed - and some of them whispered things to each other while giving him smiles and glances, or seemed to give him subtle eyebrow flashes, and the girls who stood next to him would blush, give him glances, and play with their hair a lot, and sometimes, seemingly subconsciously, remove one piece of clothing.
This was what I saw on our very first day, and it continued sort of like that a couple days after that.

A couple days after this, I noticed that girls would try to sit next to him, and one beautiful busty blonde girl - the kind of girl who most guys would fight for - who sat in front of him leaned a bit over his desk in some tight low-cut top while talking to him (probably on purpose!), and they would ask him about all kinds of things and act very interested in everything that he said and give him undivided attention, and the next day a group of girls during another lecture touched his hair and asked to feel his arm muscles, and then asked him to come to their party that weekend.
He seemed both flattered and slightly indifferent at the same time, but said yes to their invitation.

The weeks after this seemed to mostly consist of him giving several girls in our class - as well as other girls from other classes - a chance to have a date with him, since I would see him have the company of different girls every day, and all those girls seemed hugely excited to be with him.
And as you have probably guessed, I did see him sit and make out with different girls - in fact, if I saw him at parties then he would sometimes have one girl on both sides sitting close to him - and since I lived in the same apartment building as him, I would sometimes see him bring girls home to his apartment, and then just a few seconds later I would hear something that undeniably sounded like wild sex (it was quite low and hard to hear because of the sound insulation, but it definitely sounded like something like that).
And there was one time when a girl came and knocked on his door - dressed in just a small tight tank top and a short tight skirt - and he just opened, started making out with her, gave her a spank, and lifted her up and carried her inside, and then I could hear them getting it on almost immediately after that.

This guy attracted girls so easily that none of us other guys had a chance at all - he had complete monopoly on the girls in our class, and I am honestly almost 100% sure that he banged all of them at some point (although probably mostly the most attractive girls - he could be as picky as he wanted).
I have never experienced anything like this before, and I can only assume that this guy was a very extreme and rare "outlier" in terms of attractiveness.

What do you think about this?
Is this a common thing among unusually super-attractive guys?
And what is going on in the minds of girls who meet a guy like him?
It's interesting to see how women behave with guys like this because you can see the signs very clearly and then notice when women behave the same way around you.

You should remember was you saw when a girl is giving you the runaround and "mixed signals". Their signals are crystal clear when they are really interested.
 

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It's interesting to see how women behave with guys like this because you can see the signs very clearly and then notice when women behave the same way around you.

You should remember was you saw when a girl is giving you the runaround and "mixed signals". Their signals are crystal clear when they are really interested.
I was a bit surprised at how quickly things seemed to escalate with the girls who visited him at home in his apartment.
My most vivid memory of this is probably that girl who came over to him an a tight top and a tight skirt, and then like 5 seconds after they had closed the door I could already vaguely hear them have intense sex.
I am not sure how they pulled that off, but it did seem to happen like that.
 

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I was a bit surprised at how quickly things seemed to escalate with the girls who visited him at home in his apartment.
My most vivid memory of this is probably that girl who came over to him an a tight top and a tight skirt, and then like 5 seconds after they had closed the door I could already vaguely hear them have intense sex.
I am not sure how they pulled that off, but it did seem to happen like that.
If two people are attracted to each other and they both know it, then sex comes easily and naturally.

The problem is that guys are so used to dealing with women that are making things difficult and awkward that they begin to see that as normal.
 
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