Don't waste time with low interest Women

[Georgepithyou]

If she is taking a long time to reply or giving boring answers, stop texting her and move on. If she flakes on a date, move on.

I don't understand why guys think persistence is going to work when it hasn't in the past. If she doesn't have medium to high interest, you should next her.

There is no such thing as a busy woman.Your time is valuable, don't waste it on a low interest woman.

 

[soulforge]

If she is taking a long time to reply or giving boring answers, stop texting her and move on. If she flakes on a date, move on.

I don't understand why guys think persistence is going to work when it hasn't in the past. If she doesn't have medium to high interest, you should next her.

There is no such thing as a busy woman.Your time is valuable, don't waste it on a low interest woman.

Totally agree with this.. I had a similar situation like this.. However she was sucking my dik pretty regular, so was a little difficult to fully work out what her interest level was at. I think two flakes & you are out is fair.

Excuses like, will meet soon or when I might be free.. Might & Soon two words that should result in immediately nexting her!

 

[Paper Crane]

The general rule these days is this: If a woman thinks you're better than her , she'll be into you. If you're not better than her in some way or another, socially, better looking, more experienced, more interesting, she's not goign to be super into you, unless of course shes an average chick

 

[Georgepithyou]

I think two flakes & you are out is fair.

If she isn't even at least counter offering with an alternative date why continue pursuing her?

The general rule these days is this: If a woman thinks you're better than her , she'll be into you. If you're not better than her in some way or another, socially, better looking, more experienced, more interesting, she's not goign to be super into you, unless of course shes an average chick

Agreed 100%

Persistence used to work in the old days of courtship, as AMS says in a recent video. Those were the days when monogamy was forced on society and cheating on your partner earned you social banishment.

The world is different now. If you're persistent then you're just like 99.9% of other thirsty guys, and it's boring for a woman.

Spcial media has caused this, i knew in the old days persistence used to be considered romantic.

You don't want to be spending any more than 1 day a week with a particular woman. Any more than that and you risk getting attached and falling under her dark spell.

What do you do if your after a relationship though?

 

[corrector]

If she is taking a long time to reply or giving boring answers, stop texting her and move on. If she flakes on a date, move on.

I don't understand why guys think persistence is going to work when it hasn't in the past. If she doesn't have medium to high interest, you should next her.

There is no such thing as a busy woman.Your time is valuable, don't waste it on a low interest woman.

This I experienced in 2006 and you just end up lashing out at the girl when she starts crying she was pumped and dumped and dropped like a hot potatoe and likely wasted her time with a chad while playing games with you. You dont want to be strung along while she is on the cc.

I referenced 2006 as that year was BEFORE social media. This social media excuse is blah blah blah since I dont have a good ole days to fall back on. It is about the principle.

The only difference is back then I was the odd one out but now it is actually trending. Back in 2006 40 year old virgin movie was big deal. Today it is whatever as lots of guys are in that boat. So the culture has changed.

 

[BadBoy89]

Her goal is to eat up all your time, turn you beta, then dump yo weak ass. Rinse and repeat.

True.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Persistence used to work in the old days of courtship, as AMS says in a recent video. Those were the days when monogamy was forced on society and cheating on your partner earned you social banishment.

The world is different now. If you're persistent then you're just like 99.9% of other thirsty guys, and it's boring for a woman.

A woman likes a challenge, and a guy who isn't simping gives her the challenge her heart truly desires.

Simping fills her ego and confidence to waste on guys who aren't into them.

Women are a waste of time even when they are high interest. Her goal is to eat up all your time, turn you beta, then dump yo weak ass. Rinse and repeat.

A woman of this nature teaches you the VALUE of your time. She will "zero" you out if you let her.

You don't want to be spending any more than 1 day a week with a particular woman. Any more than that and you risk getting attached and falling under her dark spell.

Manage your time

 

[soulforge]

Ain’t that the truth. Had this happen to me a few times.

My problem always was...when she’s blowing up your phone, and wanting to talk to and spend time with you....

I always felt that if I was too busy for more than one day a week, she would lose interest and move on to a guy who had more time for her.

This is true, she probably would move on if she found a guy with more time for her.

Out of fear of losing her, you give her more time, which eventually leads to loss of attraction.

You cannot win with these woman

 

[bat soup]

If she is taking a long time to reply or giving boring answers, stop texting her and move on. If she flakes on a date, move on.

I don't understand why guys think persistence is going to work when it hasn't in the past. If she doesn't have medium to high interest, you should next her.

There is no such thing as a busy woman.Your time is valuable, don't waste it on a low interest woman.

I'm busy = I'm not sexually attracted to you.
Flakes = I found a better option, sorry.

 

[manfrombelow]

If she is taking a long time to reply or giving boring answers, stop texting her and move on. If she flakes on a date, move on.

I don't understand why guys think persistence is going to work when it hasn't in the past. If she doesn't have medium to high interest, you should next her.

There is no such thing as a busy woman.Your time is valuable, don't waste it on a low interest woman.

Because they were conditioned to believe so by Disney movies.

When it comes to seducing a woman, she EITHER LIKES/LOVES YOU, or SHE DOESN'T, there's nothing in between.

So, when you "smell" low interest from a woman (flaking on dates, taking a long time to answer texts, etc...), you need to leave her alone and go date other women instead of "chasing" after her.

 

[Robert28]

As a guy you’ll eventually experience what a high interest woman is like and how different they treat you. Once you experience that and see how night and day it is, you’ll never waste time on low interest women ever again.

 

[Modern Man Advice]

If she is taking a long time to reply or giving boring answers, stop texting her and move on. If she flakes on a date, move on.

I don't understand why guys think persistence is going to work when it hasn't in the past. If she doesn't have medium to high interest, you should next her.

There is no such thing as a busy woman.Your time is valuable, don't waste it on a low interest woman.

This had to be said! And thanks for the reminder for others.

This is probably one of the hardest parts of dating for most guys. Recognizing when a woman is not that into you and having the discipline and self-respect to walk away from that.

This is also the reason why women feel entitled to play games all the time, from day 1! Because all of these AFCs giving free attention and sending the wrong mssg to these time wasters that have no intention to take you seriously and respect you as a man.

Cheers,
Modern Man Advice

 

[Robert28]

This had to be said! And thanks for the reminder for others.

This is probably one of the hardest parts of dating for most guys. Recognizing when a woman is not that into you and having the discipline and self-respect to walk away from that.

This is also the reason why women feel entitled to play games all the time, from day 1! Because all of these AFCs giving free attention and sending the wrong mssg to these time wasters that have no intention to take you seriously and respect you as a man.

Cheers,
Modern Man Advice

That hardest part of the low interest women is they will still reach out first quite regularly, they’ll still go on dates with you, they’ll have you second guessing yourself “well she doesn’t seem all that into me but she texts first and she will go on dates if I ask but she just doesn’t seem that into me”. That’s happened to me and that’s very hard to walk away from because you wonder if it’s the right move or is she wasting your time or what.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

I'm at the point where I don't even have to make a choice, if a woman doesn't show high interest early on, I don't bother. If she loses attraction, even if its my fault, I simply move on and just start over with another. The payoff is NEVER worth it, even if you manage to get laid a few times.

 

[Modern Man Advice]

That hardest part of the low interest women is they will still reach out first quite regularly, they’ll still go on dates with you, they’ll have you second guessing yourself “well she doesn’t seem all that into me but she texts first and she will go on dates if I ask but she just doesn’t seem that into me”. That’s happened to me and that’s very hard to walk away from because you wonder if it’s the right move or is she wasting your time or what.

We get it. But remember, the right woman will invest in you as much as you in her. You want to make an effort for that type of woman.

Also keeping in mind most, if not all, women are constantly being chased by men. Non-stop! By you continuing to text when she is showing signs of low-interest you will perfectly blend in with pretty much every other guy chasing her.

Like we've said in the past, saying "no" and "walking away" from those situations speaks volumes. By doing so you are creating and solidifying a mindset. And that is the key. Forget what she might think or see you as. Forget women, period. Most guys are all about that next f*** and plate, every action is for the end goal to get the next girl in bed but dare to say rise above that and focus on solidifying that mindset. Everything else falls into place in due time.

Hope that makes sense.

Modern Man Advice

 

[bat soup]

That hardest part of the low interest women is they will still reach out first quite regularly, they’ll still go on dates with you, they’ll have you second guessing yourself “well she doesn’t seem all that into me but she texts first and she will go on dates if I ask but she just doesn’t seem that into me”. That’s happened to me and that’s very hard to walk away from because you wonder if it’s the right move or is she wasting your time or what.

They might still go out (because they like free food and attention), but they won't let you get close to them and touch them. This is why you have to do that from the start and smoke out the imposters.

 

[Robert28]

They might still go out (because they like free food and attention), but they won't let you get close to them and touch them. This is why you have to do that from the start and smoke out the imposters.

I just don’t get how they can live with themselves knowing they use people.

 

[bat soup]

I just don’t get how they can live with themselves knowing they use people.

They enjoy it.

 

[Georgepithyou]

They enjoy it.

Because of the way society and media portrays men, we are essentially a disposable second class in their eyes.

 

[Velasco]

Everyone uses people. We categorize people based on what we need from them. If your her "free meal" that's on you