TheNewStyle123
Master Don Juan
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Morning Gentlemen,
I wanted to share an experience from last night and a story this woman told me.
The Background: I matched with this 33 y.o. Dominicana on Bumble last week. We begin talking and I find out she has 2 kids, father has them every other weekend and isn't really in the picture much otherwise. No problem, she is easily one of the hottest plates I have ever attempted to spin and has an AMAZING body. I could care less about her having kids, as I do not plan on meeting them or playing father to anyone else's children (I'm 27 and recently divorced).
She agrees to meet up with me at a local spot for a drink last night after talking back and forth all week. She arrives and looks just as hot as her pictures and is intelligent, sweet, funny, etc. We have a good time, physical contact is made throughout the date, and lots of great conversation. I invite her back to my place to hang out some more and we do. We continue to talk at my place and before she leaves for the night we end up making out.
The Story: While at dinner the topic of her children's father is brought up. You couldn't make this sh!t up if you tried: This guy is 6 years older than her. They met when she was FIFTEEN (which means she was probably 14 haha) and she says they started dating when she was 16. High school sweethearts that continued to date as she attended college. This women claims she was the one who would initiate everything with him. Caring for him, taking care of bills, cooking, buying him things, planning anniversaries/special occasions, etc. Essentially she was this guys mother. While she was busy attending college, beginning her career, and doing all this stuff for him, he continued to take advantage of her and would never do anything for her. Cheated on her with 3 different women over the course of their relationship, engaged and broke up twice, and worked a low-income job while playing video games and ignoring her in his free time (aka huge loser).
Currently, he sees the kids every other weekend (which she pretty much had to beg him to do), and they have been separated for ~2 years. I'm sure this loser does not pay child support either since they were never married and she did not go to court when they separated. She told me in October 2020 he entered her house unannounced because he "wanted to bring some Tylenol to his kid because he was sick", yet it was 3AM. And what, all of a sudden he's father of the year? Come to find out, he still had access to their outdoor camera (which points at the driveway), and he must have seen the neighbors car parked in the driveway - which he confused for another guy's car and came to inspect.
You just have to feel bad for this women. She has been controlled by this guy for the better half of her life, cheats on her multiple times, and still feels like he can show up unannounced - god forbid she is moving on and seeing another guy.
The plan: I absolutely want to f!ck this woman. 9/10 face, 10/10 body, and very easy to talk to (plus I'm a sucker for latina women). I feel like I have a HUGEEE advantage as far as SMV, and the fact she has more baggage than an airport. Based of this story though, do you guys think this is foolish to make this woman a plate? I NEVER plan on meeting her kids, seeing her ex, going to her house, etc. My plan is for our next date to invite her to my place and make us dinner. Maybe something will happen then. She has been shy to go back into the dating scene and it sounds like she has only had 2-3 first dates since her break up - which did not progress. I could tell she was very nervous last night (it was kind of cute).
Thoughts?
Thanks boys.
I wanted to share an experience from last night and a story this woman told me.
The Background: I matched with this 33 y.o. Dominicana on Bumble last week. We begin talking and I find out she has 2 kids, father has them every other weekend and isn't really in the picture much otherwise. No problem, she is easily one of the hottest plates I have ever attempted to spin and has an AMAZING body. I could care less about her having kids, as I do not plan on meeting them or playing father to anyone else's children (I'm 27 and recently divorced).
She agrees to meet up with me at a local spot for a drink last night after talking back and forth all week. She arrives and looks just as hot as her pictures and is intelligent, sweet, funny, etc. We have a good time, physical contact is made throughout the date, and lots of great conversation. I invite her back to my place to hang out some more and we do. We continue to talk at my place and before she leaves for the night we end up making out.
The Story: While at dinner the topic of her children's father is brought up. You couldn't make this sh!t up if you tried: This guy is 6 years older than her. They met when she was FIFTEEN (which means she was probably 14 haha) and she says they started dating when she was 16. High school sweethearts that continued to date as she attended college. This women claims she was the one who would initiate everything with him. Caring for him, taking care of bills, cooking, buying him things, planning anniversaries/special occasions, etc. Essentially she was this guys mother. While she was busy attending college, beginning her career, and doing all this stuff for him, he continued to take advantage of her and would never do anything for her. Cheated on her with 3 different women over the course of their relationship, engaged and broke up twice, and worked a low-income job while playing video games and ignoring her in his free time (aka huge loser).
Currently, he sees the kids every other weekend (which she pretty much had to beg him to do), and they have been separated for ~2 years. I'm sure this loser does not pay child support either since they were never married and she did not go to court when they separated. She told me in October 2020 he entered her house unannounced because he "wanted to bring some Tylenol to his kid because he was sick", yet it was 3AM. And what, all of a sudden he's father of the year? Come to find out, he still had access to their outdoor camera (which points at the driveway), and he must have seen the neighbors car parked in the driveway - which he confused for another guy's car and came to inspect.
You just have to feel bad for this women. She has been controlled by this guy for the better half of her life, cheats on her multiple times, and still feels like he can show up unannounced - god forbid she is moving on and seeing another guy.
The plan: I absolutely want to f!ck this woman. 9/10 face, 10/10 body, and very easy to talk to (plus I'm a sucker for latina women). I feel like I have a HUGEEE advantage as far as SMV, and the fact she has more baggage than an airport. Based of this story though, do you guys think this is foolish to make this woman a plate? I NEVER plan on meeting her kids, seeing her ex, going to her house, etc. My plan is for our next date to invite her to my place and make us dinner. Maybe something will happen then. She has been shy to go back into the dating scene and it sounds like she has only had 2-3 first dates since her break up - which did not progress. I could tell she was very nervous last night (it was kind of cute).
Thoughts?
Thanks boys.