Girlfriend acting like im the second coming of Jesus

[StacksHitEmUp]

My girlfriend always hypes me up as a man, that I am a GREAT man, the best man she's ever known, a gift from God to her ( she's half religious you know them latinas). We've been together for a year. That she gets so much help, support and love from me blabla. She also compliments my looks quite often. I always wonder if this is a good thing. Aren't you supposed to be also kindof a ****head? She does say I am sometimes hard on her.

 

[EyeOnThePrize]

Mmm isn't that the best? Don't take it for granted and don't let it make you soft. Roll with it and be a good king, you're doing something right. It's easy to lose footing if you let it go to your head or start identifying with her compliments so stay sharp.

She might be assuming amazing things about you that she doesn't know yet. When she inevitably finds out that reality doesn't match her imagination she may change her tune. Always have a contingency plan and you're golden.

Nothing lasts forever. Ironically holding this mindset makes some girls want to prove you wrong.

 

[corrector]

My girlfriend always hypes me up as a man, that I am a GREAT man, the best man she's ever known, a gift from God to her ( she's half religious you know them latinas). We've been together for a year. That she gets so much help, support and love from me blabla. She also compliments my looks quite often. I always wonder if this is a good thing. Aren't you supposed to be also kindof a ****head? She does say I am sometimes hard on her.

She is acting like she is guilty of something. This is called cuck managment. Be careful.

 

[flowtheory]

My girlfriend always hypes me up as a man, that I am a GREAT man, the best man she's ever known, a gift from God to her ( she's half religious you know them latinas). We've been together for a year. That she gets so much help, support and love from me blabla. She also compliments my looks quite often. I always wonder if this is a good thing. Aren't you supposed to be also kindof a ****head? She does say I am sometimes hard on her.

Are you batting way below your league?

 

[Alvafe]

My girlfriend always hypes me up as a man, that I am a GREAT man, the best man she's ever known, a gift from God to her ( she's half religious you know them latinas). We've been together for a year. That she gets so much help, support and love from me blabla. She also compliments my looks quite often. I always wonder if this is a good thing. Aren't you supposed to be also kindof a ****head? She does say I am sometimes hard on her.

only to you or everyone she knows? they family also have a good stance with you?, these are the things, there is some people who are really overtaken or smithen by others, with could be the case

 

[Black Widow Void]

This isn't intended to knock you down a few notches or anything, but do be prepared - just in case.

Being placed on a pedestal can feel nice, but that position can quickly change as well. Naturally, it's nice to be admired, but be sure that she also has a balanced view of the relationship (able to recognize imperfections and also be okay with that).

 

[corrector]

You must be tempted to cheat on her like crazy if she is that loyal. You must have other side plates if your story is true. You do have other girls right and are using this energy for social proof? One year is awfully long if the girl is boring or has a screw loose. The novelty usually wares out about a month or two in. If you are just dealing with her then how do you cope?

 

[bat soup]

My girlfriend always hypes me up as a man, that I am a GREAT man, the best man she's ever known, a gift from God to her ( she's half religious you know them latinas). We've been together for a year. That she gets so much help, support and love from me blabla. She also compliments my looks quite often. I always wonder if this is a good thing. Aren't you supposed to be also kindof a ****head? She does say I am sometimes hard on her.

You have to be careful because some women really know how to play a guy. One year is not long enough to really know her and know if she's sincere. I used to be with a girl like that and she was very charming, she said all of the kind of things that make a man feel good, but she turned out to be sneaking around behind my back.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Consider that compared to the other guys she's dated, you are far ahead of them.

Which, of course, she has a history of hooking up with low life's.

Which could indicate tons of problems that haven't popped up yet.

She like she really believes deeply that she doesn't deserve you, which means' she'll eventually self sabotage your relationships.

So perhaps she believes that she's playing out of her league and saying to things to make sure you don't bail.

 

[Romanemp22]

She is acting like she is guilty of something. This is called cuck managment. Be careful.

That could be the case if she started acting all goody recently. Or maybe that was a plan from the beginning as a way of manipulation.

 

[StacksHitEmUp]

Are you batting way below your league?

Looks wise? No. We're about the same league-wise when it comes to that. HoweveI would place myself above her value wise. I've made it a point with her to always do what I say I am going to do so she sees me as a man of action. She's also after my genes because she's always saying she wants a baby that looks like me (I'm white but tan, she's latina but not dark skinned for a latina).

She like she really believes deeply that she doesn't deserve you, which means' she'll eventually self sabotage your relationships

This is something I thought of aswell.

Anyway, I actually just wanted to know if this is a good or bad thing but feel free to discuss more it's quite interesting.

 

[CBear]

Something I'm experiencing as well to a t. In the past this kind of thing lasted only a couple weeks with others who turned out to be much crazier but this has lasted a while. Parents love me and them as well as her say I'm an answer to their prayers. Says that I'm the best lover she ever had which isn't surprising since I view lovemaking as an art. However, I have very good judgment from experience so I know all about her past and her mental issues and she knows that I do. Hides nothing from me though and we treat each other very well. She tells me often that she knows I'm more of a flight/cheating risk and I do get many moments where I try to push her away due to my own problems which makes her want me that much more. I've been very cautious this whole time and it's important not to let the guard down. Other than that, doing what you're doing and hoping for the best is the best thing one can do.

 

[StacksHitEmUp]

Something I'm experiencing as well to a t. In the past this kind of thing lasted only a couple weeks with others who turned out to be much crazier but this has lasted a while. Parents love me and them as well as her say I'm an answer to their prayers. Says that I'm the best lover she ever had which isn't surprising since I view lovemaking as an art. However, I have very good judgment from experience so I know all about her past and her mental issues and she knows that I do. Hides nothing from me though and we treat each other very well. She tells me often that she knows I'm more of a flight/cheating risk and I do get many moments where I try to push her away due to my own problems which makes her want me that much more. I've been very cautious this whole time and it's important not to let the guard down. Other than that, doing what you're doing and hoping for the best is the best thing one can do.

Bro are you dating my girlfriend? Actually, are you the same person like me just in a different location?

Seriously, your situation is exactly like mine. She just told me again I'm a great man. She also tends to spam me with "i love you" IRL aswell through text. She also now and then mentions I'm the best thing that's happened to her and she wants to be with me forever and do everything in life with me. This isn't sudden behaviour by the way, she has been like this from the start (not as intense of course because that would've had me running for the hills). I like feeling needed and everything but I wonder if at one point this might start feeling like a cross that's too heavy to bear.

 

[flowtheory]

Bro are you dating my girlfriend? Actually, are you the same person like me just in a different location?

Seriously, your situation is exactly like mine. She just told me again I'm a great man. She also tends to spam me with "i love you" IRL aswell through text. She also now and then mentions I'm the best thing that's happened to her and she wants to be with me forever and do everything in life with me. This isn't sudden behaviour by the way, she has been like this from the start (not as intense of course because that would've had me running for the hills). I like feeling needed and everything but I wonder if at one point this might start feeling like a cross that's too heavy to bear.

She just sounds heavily codependent which is problematic for her, and will be for you too.

And on a level it obviously bothers you because of the need she’s showcasing and I’m guessing low-level pressure and expectation to uphold something.

Doesn’t make you feel like equals or partners. And on some level I imagine it feels very disingenuous?

what is the main issue you struggle with here, or problem you wish to solve?

 

[r4zorsharp]

she likely has had some really tough **** in her past. its a sign of a girl whos been through some toxic ass ****, and possibly might even be a little mentally unstable but i can't really say that without knowing her. she's super happy she finally found a nice guy..

the other time girls do this is when they're pulling the wool over your eyes.

how long has it been since you known her?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

She just sounds heavily codependent which is problematic for her, and will be for you too.

And on a level it obviously bothers you because of the need she’s showcasing and I’m guessing low-level pressure and expectation to uphold something.

Doesn’t make you feel like equals or partners. And on some level I imagine it feels very disingenuous?

what is the main issue you struggle with here, or problem you wish to solve?

It might be real from her end. Women can fall in love.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

She just sounds heavily codependent which is problematic for her, and will be for you too.

And on a level it obviously bothers you because of the need she’s showcasing and I’m guessing low-level pressure and expectation to uphold something.

Doesn’t make you feel like equals or partners. And on some level I imagine it feels very disingenuous?

what is the main issue you struggle with here, or problem you wish to solve?

Its crazy that folks who like to bond close and are appreciative are called "codependent ".

 

[StacksHitEmUp]

She just sounds heavily codependent which is problematic for her, and will be for you too.

And on a level it obviously bothers you because of the need she’s showcasing and I’m guessing low-level pressure and expectation to uphold something.

Doesn’t make you feel like equals or partners. And on some level I imagine it feels very disingenuous?

what is the main issue you struggle with here, or problem you wish to solve?

Sometimes she can be quite annoying with the I love you's and other needy things. I dumped her when I was drunk in a very impulsive moment (this is why I refrain from drinking much) a few weeks ago then took her back after two weeks of her sending me pictures of us and begging me and I realised I actually do really love her so I took her back. There's not really an issue rather than a discussion or asking for similar experiences but to be honest being pedestalized is less fun than one would think.

she likely has had some really tough **** in her past. its a sign of a girl whos been through some toxic ass ****, and possibly might even be a little mentally unstable but i can't really say that without knowing her. she's super happy she finally found a nice guy..

the other time girls do this is when they're pulling the wool over your eyes.

how long has it been since you known her?

Yeah bro, I know all about her past and she's been through some bad **** outof her control.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

She just sounds heavily codependent which is problematic for her, and will be for you too.

And on a level it obviously bothers you because of the need she’s showcasing and I’m guessing low-level pressure and expectation to uphold something.

Doesn’t make you feel like equals or partners. And on some level I imagine it feels very disingenuous?

what is the main issue you struggle with here, or problem you wish to solve?

Yes...exactly what I was going to say...codependant. I have been involved with women like this and eventually they seem to always self sabotage the relationship in some way because they believe they aren't good enough and that I would find someone better and leave them.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

My girlfriend always hypes me up as a man, that I am a GREAT man, the best man she's ever known, a gift from God to her ( she's half religious you know them latinas). We've been together for a year. That she gets so much help, support and love from me blabla. She also compliments my looks quite often. I always wonder if this is a good thing. Aren't you supposed to be also kindof a ****head? She does say I am sometimes hard on her.

How does it feel? Alot of men don't hear positive remarks. How's you all sexlife?