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Dash Riprock

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98% won't find out. The ENTIRE WORLD will cover the woman's tracks and look the other way. It's not a "good" thing to do, but it's very normal in todays world. I don't like it, but it's being done all around us.
I had a quasi-friend (more like a friend of a friend) from college, Rory, who also moved out west like I did. Good looking guy, tall, black belt in some martial arts discipline, good fun guy to hang out with when we would go out as a group in college.

A few years after graduation, he starts banging a married chick for a while. After some time the husband sniffs it out. And BTW, @mrgoodstuff far more than 2% find out, IMO, but whatever. So the husband follows his wife to a bar where she's hanging all over Rory, they're kissing, playing touchy-feely, etc. The husband walks in the bar and confronts them, and pulls out a .357 (cop gun). Rory runs out of the bar, the guy chases him. Rory runs around a parked car to protect himself but the guy got off a single shot as they were running around the the car and the shot struck Rory in the back.

He's now paralyzed and in a wheelchair. All that went down in mid-late 90's I believe.

Don't think people "won't find out" (they usually do) or "do anything." Stupid move, but some need to learn tough lessons.

Ciao.

Dash
 

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I cheated over 20 yrs ago in a good situation. I got cheated 15 yrs ago in a bad situation. I wouldn't cheat on a good woman that I'm in a relationship with. It's not worth it. As far as just dating that's a different thing.
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I had a quasi-friend (more like a friend of a friend) from college, Rory, who also moved out west like I did. Good looking guy, tall, black belt in some martial arts discipline, good fun guy to hang out with when we would go out as a group in college.

A few years after graduation, he starts banging a married chick for a while. After some time the husband sniffs it out. And BTW, @mrgoodstuff far more than 2% find out, IMO, but whatever. So the husband follows his wife to a bar where she's hanging all over Rory, they're kissing, playing touchy-feely, etc. The husband walks in the bar and confronts them, and pulls out a .357 (cop gun). Rory runs out of the bar, the guy chases him. Rory runs around a parked car to protect himself but the guy got off a single shot as they were running around the the car and the shot struck Rory in the back.

He's now paralyzed and in a wheelchair. All that went down in mid-late 90's I believe.

Don't think people "won't find out" (they usually do) or "do anything." Stupid move, but some need to learn tough lessons.

Ciao.

Dash
Trust me,the entire "cheating wives" aspect used to bring a blood boil to me.
I had a quasi-friend (more like a friend of a friend) from college, Rory, who also moved out west like I did. Good looking guy, tall, black belt in some martial arts discipline, good fun guy to hang out with when we would go out as a group in college.

A few years after graduation, he starts banging a married chick for a while. After some time the husband sniffs it out. And BTW, @mrgoodstuff far more than 2% find out, IMO, but whatever. So the husband follows his wife to a bar where she's hanging all over Rory, they're kissing, playing touchy-feely, etc. The husband walks in the bar and confronts them, and pulls out a .357 (cop gun). Rory runs out of the bar, the guy chases him. Rory runs around a parked car to protect himself but the guy got off a single shot as they were running around the the car and the shot struck Rory in the back.

He's now paralyzed and in a wheelchair. All that went down in mid-late 90's I believe.

Don't think people "won't find out" (they usually do) or "do anything." Stupid move, but some need to learn tough lessons.

Ciao.

Dash
Trust me, I don't like the entire "cheating wives" thing myself. I was saying those situations are common.
 

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I had a quasi-friend (more like a friend of a friend) from college, Rory, who also moved out west like I did. Good looking guy, tall, black belt in some martial arts discipline, good fun guy to hang out with when we would go out as a group in college.

A few years after graduation, he starts banging a married chick for a while. After some time the husband sniffs it out. And BTW, @mrgoodstuff far more than 2% find out, IMO, but whatever. So the husband follows his wife to a bar where she's hanging all over Rory, they're kissing, playing touchy-feely, etc. The husband walks in the bar and confronts them, and pulls out a .357 (cop gun). Rory runs out of the bar, the guy chases him. Rory runs around a parked car to protect himself but the guy got off a single shot as they were running around the the car and the shot struck Rory in the back.

He's now paralyzed and in a wheelchair. All that went down in mid-late 90's I believe.

Don't think people "won't find out" (they usually do) or "do anything." Stupid move, but some need to learn tough lessons.

Ciao.

Dash
Actually that is 1 in 100 cases that happen. I know a lot of people who sleep around with taken girls or married woman and they do it like a routine, husband never finds out.
 

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Actually that is 1 in 100 cases that happen. I know a lot of people who sleep around with taken girls or married woman and they do it like a routine, husband never finds out.
It's a large number. Like he said his contact was a officer. If an officer gets a funny feeling he will investigate and he will figure it out. Whether or not he puts his freedom in jeopardy for the consequences is his choice.
 

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I am married, but her is my IG
I cheated over 20 yrs ago in a good situation. I got cheated 15 yrs ago in a bad situation. I wouldn't cheat on a good woman that I'm in a relationship with. It's not worth it. As far as just dating that's a different thing.
that attitude will attract Class A women to you. Because of being a Class A guy.
 

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Why wouldn't you find a single woman?
Who said I don't? It was just one specific situation with a woman who is married. And also nothing happened I didn't find it worthy to pursue her, just wanted to hear people with maybe success stories about it. Curiosity
 

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"most times they don't even find out", LOL. How many times would you like to get shot?

If one in 10 "finds out" but he is the one that will shoot you, does it matter of "most don't find out?"
And what if he finds out? You think I'm scared of some wimp,not at all.
 

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And what if he finds out? You think I'm scared of some wimp,not at all.
Even wimps have access to guns. An angry wimp will be motivated to use it, evident by stories in this thread. Playing with fire will get you burned sooner or later. Terrible risk:reward.
 

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She politely refused saying it's not okay for her to see other guys because she's married but....
She already rejected you and shamed you for trying. She wouldn't even agree to have a drink. When a guy she actually wants to bang comes along, she won't bring up that she's married.

All you can do at this stage is tell her "OK, if things change and you want to have some fun together, let me know". She'll either block you or tell you some BS, but if she feels any attraction at all there's a chance that she'll get back to you in the future.
 

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I see a lot of cases of married women or even on LTR cheating a lot. It's more common that we could imagine.

It's tempting sometimes, if she is hot... it will be difficult to refuse. But be really careful man.

If she felt guilty or ashamed after cheating her husband, she might tell him and create a lie to make him believe that you forced her or manipulated her... only to preserver her self-image.

And this can create a big trouble man.

So my advice would be to be careful... And stop talking with her. If some sh1t happen, it won't worth the bang.
 

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I was once on a train and a woman that got in the train opposite me was giving me eye contact and we ended up talking. Before the train arrived she said "here's the number for the taxi" and gave me her number. She had a kid with her and on her Whatsapp she was posting picture of her with her husband, kid etc but she really wanted to meet up.

It's not whether or not she's married. It's whether or not she's willing to cheat. With you. If she was, she wouldn't have brought it up.
 

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I see a lot of cases of married women or even on LTR cheating a lot. It's more common that we could imagine.

It's tempting sometimes, if she is hot... it will be difficult to refuse. But be really careful man.

If she felt guilty or ashamed after cheating her husband, she might tell him and create a lie to make him believe that you forced her or manipulated her... only to preserver her self-image.

And this can create a big trouble man.

So my advice would be to be careful... And stop talking with her. If some sh1t happen, it won't worth the bang.
I know I see it all the time. Most of my coworkers are cheating their wife's with other dudes women. Some just find it hard to believe it or doesn't want to.
 

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I'm actually 22. I feel like your wife surfed around with younger guy and that's why you're so buthurt when someone brings up banging married/taken girls.
It happens. The seasons of life change for a man, what he thinks is cool at one point, later he can have greater experience and different viewpoints. The men telling you this thing, probably have been there and done that in some cases.

Lots of collateral damage from doing this.
- broken homes
- kids....
- sometimes that wimp dude is actually NOT a wimp but just lives by codes and can deal with you. Just because he can not or will not deal with his wife does not mean he can not deal with another man.
- legal..
- karma...

Doing this is actually pretty easy. But I describe it as being similar to walking up to a strange man you know nothing about and kicking him in the nuts for no reason other than you thought it would be funny.

Wanting to fck a flirty sexy wife that appears to be asking for it is normal, doing it is a choice.
 
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