Never going to a gay bar again

[7onriverI f]

Just went to a gay club tonight. Madeout with a chick twice and she told me she loved me twice. after the makeout she asked me if i would buy her a drink both times. I said yeah i will buy you a drink. She walked off. she repeated that. later in the night she approached me again but her friend pulled her away and she was dancing with lesbians. A bit before that she was with older guys going to the bar with them I assume getting them to buy her drinks.

The biggest problem in the joint is gay guys. Had a couple call me cute, beautiful. 3 guys tried to kiss me. I just pulled back. another couple of guys intensely stared into my eyes. I don't look away until they do. Had one islander looking guy just stare at me on and off for 15 mins. His mate was a big bloke and he wasn't making eye contact just looked quite angry looking dude. Both of them look like killers to be honest and so do I do which people have told me.

I ended up going up to the islander dude and putting my hand out to shake his hand. he shook it. He told me he's enjoying the view of looking at me. I thought he might off being a straight dude and perhaps wanting to take it out outside but no gay.

I left after that crap. Even going to straight bars in town they also have gays in them.

I got ****blocked a couple of times in the gay club as well by the girls friends. I got approached by 3 or 4 girls as well. trannys didn't approach me and try to kiss me thank goodness.

I also got a number of a gay guys friend who was a girl. she was a bit shy. I got along with the gay guy quite well. He told me to ring me from her phone. she allowed me to do it. he told me to take her out and wine and dine her at a later date and they left.

might do that.

 

[RickTheToad]

Just went to a gay club tonight. Madeout with a chick twice and she told me she loved me twice. after the makeout she asked me if i would buy her a drink both times. I said yeah i will buy you a drink. She walked off. she repeated that. later in the night she approached me again but her friend pulled her away and she was dancing with lesbians. A bit before that she was with older guys going to the bar with them I assume getting them to buy her drinks.

The biggest problem in the joint is gay guys. Had a couple call me cute, beautiful. 3 guys tried to kiss me. I just pulled back. another couple of guys intensely stared into my eyes. I don't look away until they do. Had one islander looking guy just stare at me on and off for 15 mins. His mate was a big bloke and he wasn't making eye contact just looked quite angry looking dude. Both of them look like killers to be honest and so do I do which people have told me.

I ended up going up to the islander dude and putting my hand out to shake his hand. he shook it. He told me he's enjoying the view of looking at me. I thought he might off being a straight dude and perhaps wanting to take it out outside but no gay.

I left after that crap. Even going to straight bars in town they also have gays in them.

I got ****blocked a couple of times in the gay club as well by the girls friends. I got approached by 3 or 4 girls as well. trannys didn't approach me and try to kiss me thank goodness.

I also got a number of a gay guys friend who was a girl. she was a bit shy. I got along with the gay guy quite well. He told me to ring me from her phone. she allowed me to do it. he told me to take her out and wine and dine her at a later date and they left.

might do that.

You need help. No straight dude goes to a gay club. Are you bi-curious?

 

[7onriverI f]

You need help. No straight dude goes to a gay club. Are you bi-curious?

I find the crowd there is of all ages. and the club itself is quite sweet the way its organised.
I stood in line at another club and all the girls are 18 or something. I'm 30. That's another reason why I got **** blocked by the girls friend who asked me for a drink because she was like 18 or something. Three times I got blocked by her friend and I didn't even really approach her as such. I'm going to go to that club and just man up and hang out with entirely a young crowd in the future.

 

[Serenity]

The biggest problem in the joint is gay guys.

Don't go to a gay bar where people assume you're gay or bisexual then. It is a gay bar after all, you can't really complain about guys hitting on you. You knew what you walked into.

You can stop going to gay bars or you can stop complaining about it, doing both doesn't make you particularly smart.

 

[SW15]

It is possible to go to a gay bar/nightclub as a heterosexual man and meet heterosexual women. The competition with other straight men is much lower.

It is best to do this if you have gay or lesbian acquaintances/friends. A random heterosexual guy showing up to a gay bar to hit on a heterosexual woman who is BFF with a gay man is a bit odd. You're better off doing day game on the street or the grocery store than doing that.

 

[corrector]

You're better off doing day game on the street or the grocery store than doing that.

This.

 

[Thechamp]

What are you guys on about the court in perth is a gay bar but the best night club in perth Australia for women every straight male goes there it’s the best place.

 

[SW15]

It is possible to go to a gay bar/nightclub as a heterosexual man and meet heterosexual women. The competition with other straight men is much lower.

It is best to do this if you have gay or lesbian acquaintances/friends. A random heterosexual guy showing up to a gay bar to hit on a heterosexual woman who is BFF with a gay man is a bit odd. You're better off doing day game on the street or the grocery store than doing that.

I want to expand upon this.

The typical heterosexual man does not have many, if any, gay male or lesbian friends. This is true for both alpha and beta men. Heterosexual men tend to be friends with other heterosexual men. I would even say that more heterosexual men are more likely to have heterosexual female friends than gay male friends or lesbian female friends. I've never believed much in heterosexual female friends and haven't kept any locally. Well meaning female co-workers in certain types of work might be useful for meeting potential dates, but I wouldn't call those people friends. I digress.

I could envision a scenario in which in a heterosexual guy has a gay male neighbor in an apartment complex. If they happen to get along, I could see the heterosexual guy going to a gay bar with a gay guy and meeting other gay men with heterosexual female BFFs. A heterosexual guy would be equally likely with his gay male neighbor to meet his female friends outside of a bar setting. This would typically happen at a meal at a sit down restauarant, some other public event, or a private residence party.

Lesbian women and heterosexual men typically don't run in the same social circles. I'm sure some lesbian women have heterosexual female friends, but no heterosexual man should make an active plan of getting referrals for dates through lesbian women.

I don't think heterosexual men should consider a gay scene as part of their plans for finding relational/sexual partners. Heterosexual social circles and cold approaching are more realistic options.

 

[backseatjuan]

How about making a gay guy buy you free drinks?

 

[FairShake]

This is pretty much what chicks go through during nights out.

I go to gay clubs for the music and the occasional free drink that comes my way. If they stare my night is made.

 

[backseatjuan]

Honestly, no gay bars here but if there were and I go to one, boys in the hood gonna have some questions to me.

 

[7onriverI f]

What are you guys on about the court in perth is a gay bar but the best night club in perth Australia for women every straight male goes there it’s the best place.

lol never been to the court. connections is the other one i go to.

i ain't going to either again.

I have also been to bar one in hilarys boat harbor and got hit on by guys. same as with Joondulup arcade club.
Also mustang. Every club I been too pretty much.

I get asked often If I'm on drugs or have any drugs or know where to get them which I can sell to people off a opener from people. This stuff happens not just in australia either from both guys and girls.

BTW what is the best club in Perth? Want women around 25+ years old. Just looking at the lines (standing in line for ages outside mint or paramount isn't really appealing plus all the girls look just out of high school). I suppose I could get to know them and meet their mother or older sister who might happen to be 40 or younger and not divorced and single.

 

[RickTheToad]

I find the crowd there is of all ages. and the club itself is quite sweet the way its organised.
I stood in line at another club and all the girls are 18 or something. I'm 30. That's another reason why I got **** blocked by the girls friend who asked me for a drink because she was like 18 or something. Three times I got blocked by her friend and I didn't even really approach her as such. I'm going to go to that club and just man up and hang out with entirely a young crowd in the future.

I'm surprised she didn't think you were gay or bi-curious. I wouldn't know why a straight dude would be in a gay club. Are you testing yourself to see if you're interested in something else perhaps?

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Gay couples get a bad rap, but they are... Powerful... They are men who operate on a similar level or deeper, socially, than most women and between the two of them, probably have a lot friends, men and women. Here is the other thing: They typically do not have kids, so they invest their time and money into their social lives in a way that women do not.

I suspect, a single guy, with a network of gay couples, you would probably do pretty well... Its an idea one could explore.

 

[7onriverI f]

Gay couples get a bad rap, but they are... Powerful... They are men who operate on a similar level or deeper, socially, than most women and between the two of them, probably have a lot friends, men and women. Here is the other thing: They typically do not have kids, so they invest their time and money into their social lives in a way that women do not.

I suspect, a single guy, with a network of gay couples, you would probably do pretty well... Its an idea one could explore.

I've gotten two numbers basically because the girl asked for my number in the gay bar. A third also asked for my number but we got interrupted by a couple of lesbian bi chicks. I still had a chance to get her number or even a lay later perhaps but didn't take the opportunity. She asked if I was gay when we were walking away from the bar and I said well I haven't got a erection right now looking at you and then said why is that. She told me she's trying to find a excuse not to bang me.

She was married but was talking about all sorts of stuff earlier like she's in a open relationship and she wants to bang a tranny and she got turned on by taboo things and wants to be raped. She mentioned lesbian stuff but later told me she aint lesbian but gets off on lesbians being into her.