Feminism is mens fault/ No Fap

[zinc4]

Ok. Don't get me wrong. I know I was harsh, and I don't expect everyone to "be a hero." All I'm looking for is a little intellectual consistency.

I know guys who are very smart, but who trip over their own feet, and couldn't pass a field sobriety test SOBER, but who have heart, and would do whatever they could to help a stranger in peril. I know other guys who know they're physically useless, and think it would be pointless for them to even try to help, and may even freely admit they'd be too scared to try. I have no problem with either of those positions. They wouldn't make me comfortable, personally, but I respect self-awareness and honesty much more than false bravado.

Anybody can say anything, what's irked me about the contemporary mindset is the "f uck that b itch" mentality, when it comes to young, attractive girls, as if they are less worthy of tapping the brakes for than any other random stranger crossing the street. I realize there isnt universal agreement on this, but I've heard some pretty gross, disturbing sentiments, on the extreme nexus where incel meets PUA.

On the public couples disputes, I've had to break up and disperse more than I care to think about, and I hope I never have to do it again. I'd almost rather break up a knife fight between two men(who knows though...they could be lovers, too). 9/10 times the woman is the instigator, and the poor haggard guy is actually happy for someone to make it stop. That's if she's really making a scene, not just having an argument or bickering. Usually, the woman is trying to get someone to feel sorry for her, or trying to humiliate/manipulate her bf/hubby, or just has absolutely no self-control. I have never actually encountered a situation where a man was literally giving a woman a public beatdown. Typically, if anything he's trying to push her away, maybe a chokehold, to restrain her, out of frustration. I witnessed one guy who was actually in what looked like the early stages of a catfight with his gf, but he was a prettyboy and a p ussy, who had no stomach for a physical encounter with a man, but seemed comfortable fighting with a woman...in PUBLIC.

I suspect most guys who actually beat up their wives and GFs have better sense than to do it in public. Usually, the women are the ones you have to watch out for...unless you're the type of dumba ss who manhandles another guy's girl...then you might hafta watch'em both.

I only brought up the extreme, which I've never actually seen, of the man beating the crap out of the woman, because I would have to treat that situation the same as a grown man beating up a child, or an elderly person, or headstomping an unconscious/helpless man.

The blindspot for these girls, though, troubles me. I don't care what anyone says, they're just children, spoiled children. And if your brat's throwing a tantrum, and you can't enforce discipline, ya gotta go.

Ok. Don't get me wrong. I know I was harsh, and I don't expect everyone to "be a hero." All I'm looking for is a little intellectual consistency.

I know guys who are very smart, but who trip over their own feet, and couldn't pass a field sobriety test SOBER, but who have heart, and would do whatever they could to help a stranger in peril. I know other guys who know they're physically useless, and think it would be pointless for them to even try to help, and may even freely admit they'd be too scared to try. I have no problem with either of those positions. They wouldn't make me comfortable, personally, but I respect self-awareness and honesty much more than false bravado.

Anybody can say anything, what's irked me about the contemporary mindset is the "f uck that b itch" mentality, when it comes to young, attractive girls, as if they are less worthy of tapping the brakes for than any other random stranger crossing the street. I realize there isnt universal agreement on this, but I've heard some pretty gross, disturbing sentiments, on the extreme nexus where incel meets PUA.

On the public couples disputes, I've had to break up and disperse more than I care to think about, and I hope I never have to do it again. I'd almost rather break up a knife fight between two men(who knows though...they could be lovers, too). 9/10 times the woman is the instigator, and the poor haggard guy is actually happy for someone to make it stop. That's if she's really making a scene, not just having an argument or bickering. Usually, the woman is trying to get someone to feel sorry for her, or trying to humiliate/manipulate her bf/hubby, or just has absolutely no self-control. I have never actually encountered a situation where a man was literally giving a woman a public beatdown. Typically, if anything he's trying to push her away, maybe a chokehold, to restrain her, out of frustration. I witnessed one guy who was actually in what looked like the early stages of a catfight with his gf, but he was a prettyboy and a p ussy, who had no stomach for a physical encounter with a man, but seemed comfortable fighting with a woman...in PUBLIC.

I suspect most guys who actually beat up their wives and GFs have better sense than to do it in public. Usually, the women are the ones you have to watch out for...unless you're the type of dumba ss who manhandles another guy's girl...then you might hafta watch'em both.

I only brought up the extreme, which I've never actually seen, of the man beating the crap out of the woman, because I would have to treat that situation the same as a grown man beating up a child, or an elderly person, or headstomping an unconscious/helpless man.

The blindspot for these girls, though, troubles me. I don't care what anyone says, they're just children, spoiled children. And if your brat's throwing a tantrum, and you can't enforce discipline, ya gotta go.

Lol, what do you do...go around looking for this stuff?

 

[zinc4]

Ok. Don't get me wrong. I know I was harsh, and I don't expect everyone to "be a hero." All I'm looking for is a little intellectual consistency.

I know guys who are very smart, but who trip over their own feet, and couldn't pass a field sobriety test SOBER, but who have heart, and would do whatever they could to help a stranger in peril. I know other guys who know they're physically useless, and think it would be pointless for them to even try to help, and may even freely admit they'd be too scared to try. I have no problem with either of those positions. They wouldn't make me comfortable, personally, but I respect self-awareness and honesty much more than false bravado.

Anybody can say anything, what's irked me about the contemporary mindset is the "f uck that b itch" mentality, when it comes to young, attractive girls, as if they are less worthy of tapping the brakes for than any other random stranger crossing the street. I realize there isnt universal agreement on this, but I've heard some pretty gross, disturbing sentiments, on the extreme nexus where incel meets PUA.

On the public couples disputes, I've had to break up and disperse more than I care to think about, and I hope I never have to do it again. I'd almost rather break up a knife fight between two men(who knows though...they could be lovers, too). 9/10 times the woman is the instigator, and the poor haggard guy is actually happy for someone to make it stop. That's if she's really making a scene, not just having an argument or bickering. Usually, the woman is trying to get someone to feel sorry for her, or trying to humiliate/manipulate her bf/hubby, or just has absolutely no self-control. I have never actually encountered a situation where a man was literally giving a woman a public beatdown. Typically, if anything he's trying to push her away, maybe a chokehold, to restrain her, out of frustration. I witnessed one guy who was actually in what looked like the early stages of a catfight with his gf, but he was a prettyboy and a p ussy, who had no stomach for a physical encounter with a man, but seemed comfortable fighting with a woman...in PUBLIC.

I suspect most guys who actually beat up their wives and GFs have better sense than to do it in public. Usually, the women are the ones you have to watch out for...unless you're the type of dumba ss who manhandles another guy's girl...then you might hafta watch'em both.

I only brought up the extreme, which I've never actually seen, of the man beating the crap out of the woman, because I would have to treat that situation the same as a grown man beating up a child, or an elderly person, or headstomping an unconscious/helpless man.

The blindspot for these girls, though, troubles me. I don't care what anyone says, they're just children, spoiled children. And if your brat's throwing a tantrum, and you can't enforce discipline, ya gotta go.

Ok. Don't get me wrong. I know I was harsh, and I don't expect everyone to "be a hero." All I'm looking for is a little intellectual consistency.

I know guys who are very smart, but who trip over their own feet, and couldn't pass a field sobriety test SOBER, but who have heart, and would do whatever they could to help a stranger in peril. I know other guys who know they're physically useless, and think it would be pointless for them to even try to help, and may even freely admit they'd be too scared to try. I have no problem with either of those positions. They wouldn't make me comfortable, personally, but I respect self-awareness and honesty much more than false bravado.

Anybody can say anything, what's irked me about the contemporary mindset is the "f uck that b itch" mentality, when it comes to young, attractive girls, as if they are less worthy of tapping the brakes for than any other random stranger crossing the street. I realize there isnt universal agreement on this, but I've heard some pretty gross, disturbing sentiments, on the extreme nexus where incel meets PUA.

On the public couples disputes, I've had to break up and disperse more than I care to think about, and I hope I never have to do it again. I'd almost rather break up a knife fight between two men(who knows though...they could be lovers, too). 9/10 times the woman is the instigator, and the poor haggard guy is actually happy for someone to make it stop. That's if she's really making a scene, not just having an argument or bickering. Usually, the woman is trying to get someone to feel sorry for her, or trying to humiliate/manipulate her bf/hubby, or just has absolutely no self-control. I have never actually encountered a situation where a man was literally giving a woman a public beatdown. Typically, if anything he's trying to push her away, maybe a chokehold, to restrain her, out of frustration. I witnessed one guy who was actually in what looked like the early stages of a catfight with his gf, but he was a prettyboy and a p ussy, who had no stomach for a physical encounter with a man, but seemed comfortable fighting with a woman...in PUBLIC.

I suspect most guys who actually beat up their wives and GFs have better sense than to do it in public. Usually, the women are the ones you have to watch out for...unless you're the type of dumba ss who manhandles another guy's girl...then you might hafta watch'em both.

I only brought up the extreme, which I've never actually seen, of the man beating the crap out of the woman, because I would have to treat that situation the same as a grown man beating up a child, or an elderly person, or headstomping an unconscious/helpless man.

The blindspot for these girls, though, troubles me. I don't care what anyone says, they're just children, spoiled children. And if your brat's throwing a tantrum, and you can't enforce discipline, ya gotta go.

Lol, what do you do...go around looking for this stuff?

 

[MatureDJ]

Masturbation is not good thing.

I beg to differ. Regular "pipe cleaning" is good for prostate health - and indeed for mental health; it sure helps one sleep. Does it make a man less interested in sexing women? Perhaps, but that is a good thing as being all hard-up will start making the fatties look appealing.

 

[zinc4]

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I beg to differ. Regular "pipe cleaning" is good for prostate health - and indeed for mental health; it sure helps one sleep. Does it make a man less interested in sexing women? Perhaps, but that is a good thing as being all hard-up will start making the fatties look appealing.

Agree....I usually need to fap to sleep. It destresses my mind.

If I'm ever feeling sick or unwell....it helps with those times as well. Notice how when you are really hungover...the urge to fap is very strong.

 

[JohnChops]

Disagree....the real problem is just men being pussies and passive aggressive white knights. So many men white knight all the freakin time.....it's disgusting. Treat feminist *****s the same way women treat short ugly men....with no regard nor mercy. I'm tall by the way...just giving you a frame of reference.

Dude, what happened to bro code? Guys will sell their best friends out for ***** or just a shot at it. Guys are afraid of talking back to a girl or having a spine because that's "sexual harrasment " now...

I agree, we have too much power to people who didn't need it and now we are cucked and ****ed.

Now being straight forward and assertive is seen as aggressive and "toxic masculinity "

 

[Spaz]

Perhaps, but that is a good thing as being all hard-up will start making the fatties look appealing.

Haha

Seriously, some guys who's having a hard time getting girls could just hire a young hot escort that's undergoing her medical or law degree.

Take that urge off yourself or use it as a business deal when meeting clients in far flung places.

Hit 2 birds with 1 stone.

There's so many options in this modern world that it's sometimes hard to fathom why men are still not able to get laid.

 

[zinc4]

Yep

Dude, what happened to bro code? Guys will sell their best friends out for ***** or just a shot at it. Guys are afraid of talking back to a girl or having a spine because that's "sexual harrasment " now...

I agree, we have too much power to people who didn't need it and now we are cucked and ****ed.

Now being straight forward and assertive is seen as aggressive and "toxic masculinity "

Yep....women are training men in the west like little puppy dogs.

 

[Xenom0rph]

Desperate men enable womens' bad behavior through their SIMP behavior.

 

[MatureDJ]

Agree....I usually need to fap to sleep. It destresses my mind.

If I'm ever feeling sick or unwell....it helps with those times as well. Notice how when you are really hungover...the urge to fap is very strong.

Yes, if my boy is wide awake when I'm trying to go to sleep, I have to "feed" him. I remember a gal I use to date that took me a long time during the night to get the poontang. By the time my boy had "burped" twice, it was the easiest thing for me to do to just rollover and sleep.

 

[Travel memoir21]

I have a good friend. I went out with him and his gf the other night. I hardly ever go out anymore. My friends gf was very hot in her prime. She is hitting the wall now though.

When she gets drunk she goes full blown ballistic on this fool. She hits him, yells at him, the cops come, she is hysterical. I am pretty sure she is borderline.

I figured out why he stays though. It is because of her sex. I once heard them having sex and it was the craziest freakiest stuff I had ever heard. No one has probably ever fu*ked him like that.

This dude was a stone cold white boy player. He had game and slayed a lot of chicks. I never in a million years would have thought that he would be in this position. He used to be so dark triad with these hoes. I think he just ran into that one fire vagina that got him hooked.

You should have seen the look on his face when the cops showed up ( 2nd time in 6 months ). He looked so defeated.

This is what happens when you let puzzy rule you. This is an extreme example but we all do it to one extent or another.

We dont call out women on bad behavior because of our own over sexuality. We think we are winning when we are banging all these chicks. Nope. We are not winning. We are more deeply ensnaring ourselves to the addiction of sex and vagina.

Yeah brother, I've been doing No Fap for these past few months and I tell you, it does wonders. Every man should stop jerking off to porn, learn to transmute his sexual energy to other aspects of his life.

Well just recently, I woke up from a bad dream just now and got on my phone and logged on Social media. And what did I find? A classmate of mine from high school and middle school getting his ass kicked ( black eye, scratches and marks all everywhere) by his girl over a fight because she's addicted to Xanax. She got arrested and went to county jail for it, this chick mind you, was super hot but she was obviously a load of trouble. And yeah, it was probably the sex that made him kept taking her back.

That's why It's good to practice No Fap, to practice sexual discipline and self restraint. Otherwise, you fall victim to your lust.

 

[Jack12345]

Not sure that anybody responsible for the current situation.. never dated with feminist girl, and not sure how many of them out there

Nofap is not a solution imo. Media, tv, jobs and status. Heres your answer. Back in a day if your father was a simple worker you knew exactly what you would be, and you'd suffer much less cause you had not other expectations. Only few would grow up to be something else, and that would be a product of their curiosity

 

[Pandora]

Yeah brother, I've been doing No Fap for these past few months and I tell you, it does wonders. Every man should stop jerking off to porn, learn to transmute his sexual energy to other aspects of his life.

Well just recently, I woke up from a bad dream just now and got on my phone and logged on Social media. And what did I find? A classmate of mine from high school and middle school getting his ass kicked ( black eye, scratches and marks all everywhere) by his girl over a fight because she's addicted to Xanax. She got arrested and went to county jail for it, this chick mind you, was super hot but she was obviously a load of trouble. And yeah, it was probably the sex that made him kept taking her back.

That's why It's good to practice No Fap, to practice sexual discipline and self restraint. Otherwise, you fall victim to your lust.

Factsss......bro dont fall off the NoFap train. I went about 3 months and fell off. Getting back on is the hardest part. Keep at it bro. I need to get back on it. Have you found that you need a lot less sleep while on NoFap?

 

[Pandora]

Im in the camp that fapping is the single most damaging thing you can do to yourself as a man. Running a close tie with not excersising at all and eating natural food.

Stringpuller can you go into detail on why its so bad? I agree with you btw but I want to hear your perspective.

 

[Pandora]

Again it comes down to practicality. If you don't like your social climate, then seek to change it. If it is too large and there's nothing you can do about it, then move out. Or you can spend 20 years at sosuave complaining about it.

Believe it or not, some people love the current social climate of America. For example, bull dykes, man hating feminists, and entitled women. They have never been happier! Instagram h0es can become overnight celebrities and have millions of dollars in endorsements.

From your perspective, America sucks.

But from their perspective, life has never been better because of the fall of the "patriarchy."

So it's just a matter of perspective, lol.

There is enough variety in this world for you to experience what you want and for others to experience what they want.

Some countries are hardcore patriarchies, and some countries are hardcore matriarchies. Women are master manipulators so they are bound to have at least one country they can run.

The world is what it is. You either do what is practical or spend the rest of your life complaining.

Noone ever said you were super glued to America.

But even in America, cities like NYC and LA are full of hot young women and career opportunities.

There are people out there with children who are born with brain cancer. I could understand if they complained about life. But most of you are grown and capable adults. All that energy you spent talking about feminism, you could have probably channeled it into starting an offshore business that would allow you to travel around the world and experience a different reality.

Dude you are right. There are no victims. I agree. Its due to my laziness that I have not generated an online business that will allow me to move. I think the universe gives you whatever utopia or dystopia that you desire.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I guess I missed that programming in school. When I girl said no, I just moved on to the next one. I do not recall ever chasing after da pus if it was denied to me. Maybe it's me. I am not normal.

Natural self respect. Some men where hard headed thinking persistence will get them in.

 

[Travel memoir21]

Factsss......bro dont fall off the NoFap train. I went about 3 months and fell off. Getting back on is the hardest part. Keep at it bro. I need to get back on it. Have you found that you need a lot less sleep while on NoFap?

Yeah you need less sleep generally. I just woke up right now and it's 3 am. I sleep early now.

 

[HyenaPrince]

Stringpuller can you go into detail on why its so bad? I agree with you btw but I want to hear your perspective.

It's desensitizing your brain. It's literally a feel good button. When you can trigger high amounts of dopamine on demand, your body has no other choice to punish you for it. It weakens your self-perception and confidence. When you're going through a tough time and masturbate due to the stress, you're running away from your problems instead of, for example, working out or reading a book.

There are people who masturbate maybe once every week or even two weeks due to having regular sex and/or busy weeks. They are not nearly as burnt out as the people who do it on a daily basis for coping/stress reasons. This is why you can't draw a clear line between the two camps. You'll find a lot of people who do it sporadically and feel perfectly fine and energized nonetheless. But as we know there tend to be more men who do it daily.

I'm also in the NoFap camp. Better to abstain from it, find substitute activities that make you stronger (mentally and physically) and go for real women.