Will Smith Alpha or Simp?

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Lots of Hollywood celebs are rich and famous, but cannot keep a relationship. Brad Pitt couldn’t make it worth with Angelina Jolie or Jennifer Aniston, Tom Cruise couldn’t make it work with Nicole Kidman or Katie Holmes, Ryan Reynolds couldn’t make it work with Scarlett Johansson.

Being a rich and handsome man may attract women, but it doesn’t mean women will stay or not stray. What makes a man is one thing and one thing only. Living in your own terms. If you are not living on your own terms, you are living on someone else’s and that is a weak, pathetic life.

My guess is Will Smith made a mistake by relaxing. You can never relax with women. Even if a man has the girl and marries her, he still has to work hard to get other women, one foot out the door at all times.

Come on men.
We're the women Brad Pitt, Tom Cruise and Ryan Reynolds with good for relationships?

Will and Jada had been doing that open relationship crap that Will beneffitted more from earlier on in their situations.
 

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My guess is Will Smith made a mistake by relaxing. You can never relax with women. Even if a man has the girl and marries her, he still has to work hard to get other women, one foot out the door at all times.
I'm going to disagree and say all these guys get sick of the same pvssy. I know it's hard to comprehend for guys that's never been in any long term monogamous relationship(5+ years) before. But after you get sick of the pvssy, you simply stop caring about anything and everything. You DO begin to relax and even have a greater IDGAF attitude. Their investment into the relationship is practically zero at that point.
All this talk is easy to say but in reality, it's hard to do or sustain in the long haul for majority of the men. I have 17 years into my relationship to somewhat quantify this.
 

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I like that quote about each finding their own happiness.
Kind of kills the excuse of 'I'm not happy with you and that's why I'm dumping you' excuse.
If happy, should be content with whatever reasonable partner one haves.
They should be able to add to each other happiness. Be a place of peace and lack of excess judgement. To leave it all on the person alone is bull.
 

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almost lead by example kind of thing.

At one point or another one will be weaker(loss of parent, job, health etc)
If the other one is striving for their own happiness all the time, the temporarily weaker partner should ideally be able to bounce back quicker with the good example led by the happy one

Its the whole trick of rejecting codependency.

Really hard to do
They should be able to add to each other happiness. Be a place of peace and lack of excess judgement. To leave it all on the person alone is bull.
 

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When did simp come to mean incel/beta? You've got your terms all mixed up.

A simp is someone who gives unavailable women piles of money in a desperate request for attention. They are also delusional in thinking that doing so will work.

Will Smith could have any pûssy he wanted, and he managed to bed and marry one of THE hottest women out there. Simp my ass.
 

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almost lead by example kind of thing.

At one point or another one will be weaker(loss of parent, job, health etc)
If the other one is striving for their own happiness all the time, the temporarily weaker partner should ideally be able to bounce back quicker with the good example led by the happy one

Its the whole trick of rejecting codependency.

Really hard to do
"codependency". So if they are not happy because of the way their partner looks at them and treats them then what? That's co dependant, because they should be able to go find that attention elsewhere and ignore the disrespectful and non appreciative partner?

A whole lot of couples treat each other like absolute garbage. They treat others outside much better because they want to be liked and popular. Whats up with that?
 

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When did simp come to mean incel/beta? You've got your terms all mixed up.

A simp is someone who gives unavailable women piles of money in a desperate request for attention. They are also delusional in thinking that doing so will work.

Will Smith could have any pûssy he wanted, and he managed to bed and marry one of THE hottest women out there. Simp my ass.
Simp might also give tons of unearned attention, treatment and non financial help. All simps don't have money.
 

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problem with actors is, they are so used to fake they feelings I belive most don't know what is real or not anymore, hence why most actors get affairs with they love interest in they films/work, they minds are so mined and damaged they can't live they lives anymore and live something else, be it to sell his image or his film/last work image.

if you belive most woman are mental, actors tend to be worse
 

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"codependency". So if they are not happy because of the way their partner looks at them and treats them then what? That's co dependant, because they should be able to go find that attention elsewhere and ignore the disrespectful and non appreciative partner?

A whole lot of couples treat each other like absolute garbage. They treat others outside much better because they want to be liked and popular. Whats up with that?
yes
its codependent if they stay with them, yes
 

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Happiness = contentment or contentment first then happiness? Comon this is BP 101.
Will was in her frame for 23 years. He was the man and didn't own his respect his in the first place. He fell for the conditioned paradigm of oneitis...
I see men desperate for children/reproduction do this. Looks like its possible to practice RP and pull her into your frame(they haven't permanently split and she's still admiring him) so he's maintaining frame now, anyways. Good for him/them.
 

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She is not admiring him the way he thinks. That i know. She fcked another dude and his behavior is telling her hes ok with it.
hmm.
what to do.

Must be challenging. I'm not qualified but my Disney brain hopes they stay together, no matter the obstacle.
Honour the oaths.
 

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Dude your thinking like a girl. She did not so now he has too huh?
You woman are something these days.
Something happened wayyy before this.
If she can't stay faithful then don't fcking commit.
She cheated and Now she's "awakened" and whole now. Lol give me a fcking break
hmmm.

that is the dilemma.

Do two wrongs make a right?

I realise its always more shocking and earthshattering when the woman cheats. Genuine shared disgust there....guess I always thought women were more angelic....not true.


I'm still in red pill rage over the true nature of women. Myself included.

At sosuave we say 'plate them'...'downgrade to booty call'.
Is that possible with a wife and stay married?

Is that what they actuslly did already by changing their 'marriage' title of the relationship to (what was it? its in one of the articles....)was it changed to 'lifelong partnership'?
 

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I dont know how would handle it. It could go any route for him but if a guy doesn't have kids with her. Delete her from your life. Even still he should delete as much as possible.
It's a tough call. I think he's worth 400 million +. Is her p ussy worth 200 million + atty fees? This may be the reason why many people accept open marriages. The destroyed finances (and mentally of course) from a divorce can be devastating. Yes, I am sure Mr. Smith will be fine, but it just a no win situation for him.
 

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I recently started a similar thread like this in the 'Anything Else' section. The question remains is there hope for any guy if Will Smith, a very rich superstar, couldn't keep his woman from banging another guy? That is something we need to think about when in a relationship, or pursuing one.
 

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I Don’t want to get into the conspiracy junk here, but he’s been linked to Epstein’s flight log. There’s even a “crazy” ex Disney actor that’s been harassing him online, claiming Smith raped him as a boy. I saw the video. It’s messed up he’s crying saying, “I know what you did.” May have use the expletive “n***a”. I can’t remember. I watched it once over quarantine a few months back. I don’t want to search for it. lol

This is covered on the above link if you are lazy to search it up. It's the QAnon conspiracy world https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/QAnon , but there are bits and peaces here and there that make this sound real with most of the A-list actors involved in some sick stuff.
 

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I recently started a similar thread like this in the 'Anything Else' section. The question remains is there hope for any guy if Will Smith, a very rich superstar, couldn't keep his woman from banging another guy? That is something we need to think about when in a relationship, or pursuing one.
This is a thought. Maybe why many of guys have simply "opted out", and fvck them when they can but don't try to hang on.
 
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