That's what we like to see on here. Especially after two decades of marriage.
Do you find your women online or out & about whilst going about your day? If the latter, are you in a large or important city? I'm comparing other guy's situations to mine to get a better perspective.
100% online. Plenty of Fish, Zoosk, Bumble, OKCupid, Tinder & Ashley Madison. I've been in three short relationships; 2 months, 8 months and 4 months (current.) All of those came from Plenty of Fish. The first she broke off, the second I broke off, the third I'm in now and it's going quite nicely even though we're three hours apart. She was a first night lay BTW. The other two were second date lays.
Many one or two time lays from Zoosk, one who's been texting me for a year and a half even though we only had sex three times. One was a stripper who screwed me twice then disappeared. One I had my fingers inside her and really wanted her but she had an early flight the next morning. While she was gone she found Jesus and learned that she didn't like sex anymore. One was a devout Hispanic Catholic widow who probably had a very low lay count and who became angry and broke off communication when she figured out I wasn't going to propose to her this decade. She was a first night lay... And a second date lay... There was no third date. Those were two long weekends though. Had to travel from Oklahoma City to Amarillo, Texas to get it done.
Bumble only provided two lays, a week apart. One was a squirter, the first I ever had. Both were first date lays...
OK Cupid provided a couple of low quality lays, one was a squirter though, the second I've ever experienced. But, there are two there I'm working on now. One is a 24 year old SMV 9 married girl who is in an open marriage. 24 is too young to marry. She wants the security of marriage while riding the CC. We are still talking. Says her husband knows and agrees. Has his own poon on the side. She's two hours away, so maybe this weekend. She wants to learn to squirt. I've been studying the subject for over a year, since I experienced my first.
Tinder gave me two first time lays, one good and one bad, although I did both twice.
Ashley Madison gave me my first threesome. A married couple. The husband ate her ***** and she sucked his **** while I ****ed her. He was ten years younger than her. That was four weeks ago. She hounded me until last weekend to come back and **** her for three weeks. Last week I blocked her and closed my Ashley Madison account because I learned that ****ing a dude's old lady while he jacks off or she sucks his **** is just too freaky for me. She was really tight though...
That's the thing about Life. It's all about trade-offs...
I also had daily activities opportunities that I chose not to pursue. I was 54 and my chiropractor's 30 year old SMV 8 wanted me, but I was close to her dad and didn't want to risk that relationship. I'm 3 years younger than her dad, more than a year older than her mom, and she's a year younger than my son. Rejecting her hurt me almost as bad as it hurt her.
Then there were two girls in my yoga class whom I rejected, which hurt me nearly as much as it hurt them. One was a mid 30s single mom, an SMV 8 I would rate her. The other was a teenage or early 20s international student from the Middle East (college town). With either I didn't want to screw up my yoga practice because yoga is dominated by women and I didn't want drama there. Yoga keeps me strong, fit and healthy. It's a big reason why women want to screw my soon to be 57 year old ass. And with the second girl I was in an exclusive relationship when she was available. So, being a man of my word I sacrificed.
Yoga is great though . If I had the time I would travel around studios and get laid. I have a career though.
Here's what I've learned.
I'm nearly 57 years old. I'm handsome. Many women have told me that since I was a teenager in the '70s. I grew up on a wrestling mat. I wrestled from 5th Grade to 12th grade and competed in State tournaments. I do yoga daily and try not to over eat and drink too much booze. I work in law enforcement now and retired from a federal law enforcement position in 2016. So I know how to manage men, and managing men is no different than managing women. If you can lead men, it's easy to lead women. I also am on testosterone therapy so that my levels are up there at those of a teenager's. Also, as you age you can also become Super **** with this if you're willing to spend the money:
https://okiemensclinic.com/trimed-injection-therapy/
Before 2018 I had been married twice and had sex with exactly three women. I bought the nice guy bull**** my whole life, and the bull**** that women don't like sex or have to be in a "relationship" to want to screw you. Let me tell you something I learned. You can form a "relationship" in fifteen minutes. You can have her panties off in twenty minutes. Women use smoke and mirrors to manufacture bull****.
As for geographical area, I'm in fly-over country. All of the women I've had sex with were in Texas, Oklahoma, Arkansas & Missouri. I'm not afraid to travel. I drive a Prius so that fuel cost is not an issue.