Step one: Setting the tone
The first step is in the pre-date convo. It is imperative that you get sex to come up as a conversation through text or phone convo.
You aren’t trying to come off as a creep or be overly perverse. All we are doing here is planting seeds.
it doesn’t have to be direct or be a conversation about sex with you but you have to get her to associate sex and you in the same thought pattern.
If you can start getting her to send nudes or near nudes before the first date you know you are on the right track. If anyone needs directions on what directions to take the convo to get the desired results I can help.
Step two: Get her in YOUR car
It’s so much harder to get her back to your place if you drove separate cars to the date. When you drive you control the logistics. One way I get her into my car is by suggesting she drive to my place and then I drive to the date. I will say there is no need in both of us wasting gas, or we may have to pay for parking and no need for us to both pay 15-20$. It makes sense and I have never had an objection to this. Also, women like to be chauffeured around so it appeals to her femininity. It’s also masculine for the man to drive.
Step three: Do involve alcohol.
This is a slippery slope, we don’t want her to be “drunk” per say to the point she doesn’t know what’s going on. Because I truly believe that’s rape. Especially if it was premeditated, but a glass of wine or two can really get a girls juices flowing if you know what I mean. When she starts getting giggly cut the drinking.
Step four: Gradually touch her.
You want to touch her, but where a lot of guys screwup is they think kino means molesting her, grabbing her private areas her boobs and her butt this is not how you do this. Don’t act like a horny 11th grader. That’s not sexy. The way it’s really done is touching her erogenous zones subtlety.
Moving through a crowded area? Gently direct her from behind by placing your hand on her hip right above her waste.
If she had a necklace on comment on how nice it is and move her hair out the way for a “better look” and subtlety brush the side of her neck.
Look for these opportunities.
Step five: She has to have fun on the date.
I am the king of dates. My dates are fun because I make sure I have fun. Few examples:
The Baltimore Orioles suck, $100 gets two great seats. Every chick I’ve taken to a baseball game first date has loved it. Orioles game + two hot dogs and a few drinks at a bar after about $130 bucks. Do not miss the opportunity to joke about how much of the hot dog she puts in her mouth
See above about planting seeds.
Amusement park, take her to six flags. Get on all the rides, eat cotton candy and skip around like two kids with no worries.
You on a budget? Bar with a pool table. “Teach her how to play pool” see above about the subtle kino. if she knows how already it’s fun for both of you.
Bowling & miniature golf works too.
The Close: The return home.
Park your car and invite her in for a few. Don’t come up with some corny canned reason for her to come in “come look at my rock collection” no just say come in, assume the answer is yes and walk her to your door. Ask her to sit on the couch, offer her a drink and put your arm around her. Turn the tv on and find some cool sh*t to watch.
Look for the subtle signs, like when she puts her head into your chest, BE COOL this is where the magic happens but it’s also a lot of room for error. Let her gradually heat up, don’t rush this process! If you stay cool and let it flow you’ll know when to make the moves. When the moments right go for the make out, when you gauge she is ready and things are getting hot tell her come upstairs.
From here you should be gold.
Usually if I get them into the house I know it’s going down. The 25% rejection rate will usually come when they say nah I’m gonna go home when you invite them in. I have unintentionally used this strategy and I bang most girls first date, 2nd for sure and I usually don’t give a third these days. In the rare event I give a third it’s established through text we are fu*king.
The first step is in the pre-date convo. It is imperative that you get sex to come up as a conversation through text or phone convo.
You aren’t trying to come off as a creep or be overly perverse. All we are doing here is planting seeds.
it doesn’t have to be direct or be a conversation about sex with you but you have to get her to associate sex and you in the same thought pattern.
If you can start getting her to send nudes or near nudes before the first date you know you are on the right track. If anyone needs directions on what directions to take the convo to get the desired results I can help.
Step two: Get her in YOUR car
It’s so much harder to get her back to your place if you drove separate cars to the date. When you drive you control the logistics. One way I get her into my car is by suggesting she drive to my place and then I drive to the date. I will say there is no need in both of us wasting gas, or we may have to pay for parking and no need for us to both pay 15-20$. It makes sense and I have never had an objection to this. Also, women like to be chauffeured around so it appeals to her femininity. It’s also masculine for the man to drive.
Step three: Do involve alcohol.
This is a slippery slope, we don’t want her to be “drunk” per say to the point she doesn’t know what’s going on. Because I truly believe that’s rape. Especially if it was premeditated, but a glass of wine or two can really get a girls juices flowing if you know what I mean. When she starts getting giggly cut the drinking.
Step four: Gradually touch her.
You want to touch her, but where a lot of guys screwup is they think kino means molesting her, grabbing her private areas her boobs and her butt this is not how you do this. Don’t act like a horny 11th grader. That’s not sexy. The way it’s really done is touching her erogenous zones subtlety.
Moving through a crowded area? Gently direct her from behind by placing your hand on her hip right above her waste.
If she had a necklace on comment on how nice it is and move her hair out the way for a “better look” and subtlety brush the side of her neck.
Look for these opportunities.
Step five: She has to have fun on the date.
I am the king of dates. My dates are fun because I make sure I have fun. Few examples:
The Baltimore Orioles suck, $100 gets two great seats. Every chick I’ve taken to a baseball game first date has loved it. Orioles game + two hot dogs and a few drinks at a bar after about $130 bucks. Do not miss the opportunity to joke about how much of the hot dog she puts in her mouth
See above about planting seeds.
Amusement park, take her to six flags. Get on all the rides, eat cotton candy and skip around like two kids with no worries.
You on a budget? Bar with a pool table. “Teach her how to play pool” see above about the subtle kino. if she knows how already it’s fun for both of you.
Bowling & miniature golf works too.
The Close: The return home.
Park your car and invite her in for a few. Don’t come up with some corny canned reason for her to come in “come look at my rock collection” no just say come in, assume the answer is yes and walk her to your door. Ask her to sit on the couch, offer her a drink and put your arm around her. Turn the tv on and find some cool sh*t to watch.
Look for the subtle signs, like when she puts her head into your chest, BE COOL this is where the magic happens but it’s also a lot of room for error. Let her gradually heat up, don’t rush this process! If you stay cool and let it flow you’ll know when to make the moves. When the moments right go for the make out, when you gauge she is ready and things are getting hot tell her come upstairs.
From here you should be gold.
Usually if I get them into the house I know it’s going down. The 25% rejection rate will usually come when they say nah I’m gonna go home when you invite them in. I have unintentionally used this strategy and I bang most girls first date, 2nd for sure and I usually don’t give a third these days. In the rare event I give a third it’s established through text we are fu*king.
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