Glassguy
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Several recent DM's from members telling me about how a woman is confusing them, dumped them, stringing them along, etc. One of the common denominators in every single situation was how the men were doing things to tank their value and nothing to increase their value.
Lets remember that her sexual attraction for you + her perceived high value of you = woman will submit. When a woman submits, things get very EASY in terms of dating. A woman that hasnt submitted to you either has fluctuating sexual attraction for you or she is unsure of your value, possibly your value is just a little too low. And thats ok, there are ways to increase your value.
On the flip side you might be in a great relationship right now but little do you know you are tanking your value and she is starting to develop her exit strategy and you dont even realize it. You might be doing some of these things that are slowly destroying your value in her eyes and you wont realize it until she is picking fights over silly stuff, talking to other dudes in her DM's and getting ready to monkey branch. When that time comes, its too late to increase your value because she is already indifferent towards you. Indifference towards you means its over and you can do nothing at that point to increase your value because she has lost ATTRACTION/respect.
So lets compare things that we need to be doing to increase value and also things that men need to be aware of that slowly kill the value she once saw in you. None of these are about making more money, buying a Benz.......remember we are talking about a woman that is already sexually attracted to you so what she has seen out of you is either enough or almost enough if she is on the fence.
Increasing value:
*Never bringing up a talk about being in an exclusive relationship. Just continue dating, smashing and having fun.
*Do not act too invested or act as if she is your only option (as she shouldnt be). This means if she cancels a date, changes her mind about something, whatever, your only response is "Ok no problem hun".
*Indifference- indifference in many forms is the #1 way I increase or maintain value with women. I do not become emotionally upset over something they say or do. I just remain indifferent. Shyte tests dont come my way often (because I dont deal with medium to low interest women) but when I see a shyte test, I am totally indifferent
*You should be doing what YOU want. Do you hang with the guys at the local pub on Thursday night? You keep doing it. You play golf with the guys Sunday morning? You keep doing it. When she shyte tests you about skipping something you do that makes you happy just to do nothing with her, you remain on your course and keep doing you.
*There is power in the word NO. I believe the word NO will many times make a woman instantly sexually turned on for you. As a matter of fact you should be telling a woman NO each and every time she wants you to do something that you really dont want to do and you should also tell her no when she tries to get you out of your frame by stopping you from doing something that you like doing.
*You keep a few females that are sexually attracted to you close to the vest even during a relationship. Monkey branching should be something that you become good it if need be
*If a woman acts like something is wrong but not telling you what it is, just get the hell away from her and go do stuff that you enjoy doing until she either comes around and learns how to communicate like an adult or she can stay gone
*YOU are your source for happiness and your happiness alone.
Lowering value:
*You are the initiator of a relationship with a woman
*You change your plans to see a woman
*You tell a woman yes or agree to do something you really dont want to do in fear of her leaving you
*You act needy (blowing up her phone, texting too much)
*You act jealous (questioning where she was, who she was with)
*Asking her what is wrong all of the time.
*Getting mad/upset/butthurt if a woman cancels a date, reschedules a date, etc. Women will do this on occasion if she senses that a guy is super beta but hiding it well.
*Telling a woman "I love you" first.
*Having deep conversations that are emotional or having deep conversations that are about your problems. Women will act like they want to be needed when you need to have a really deep talk with someone. They really dont. Keep it fun and simple. She is your sexual partner, not your shrink.
*You as a man start relying on a woman to be your source of happiness. That is not her job. Her job is to submit or GTFO.
Happy hunting.
Lets remember that her sexual attraction for you + her perceived high value of you = woman will submit. When a woman submits, things get very EASY in terms of dating. A woman that hasnt submitted to you either has fluctuating sexual attraction for you or she is unsure of your value, possibly your value is just a little too low. And thats ok, there are ways to increase your value.
On the flip side you might be in a great relationship right now but little do you know you are tanking your value and she is starting to develop her exit strategy and you dont even realize it. You might be doing some of these things that are slowly destroying your value in her eyes and you wont realize it until she is picking fights over silly stuff, talking to other dudes in her DM's and getting ready to monkey branch. When that time comes, its too late to increase your value because she is already indifferent towards you. Indifference towards you means its over and you can do nothing at that point to increase your value because she has lost ATTRACTION/respect.
So lets compare things that we need to be doing to increase value and also things that men need to be aware of that slowly kill the value she once saw in you. None of these are about making more money, buying a Benz.......remember we are talking about a woman that is already sexually attracted to you so what she has seen out of you is either enough or almost enough if she is on the fence.
Increasing value:
*Never bringing up a talk about being in an exclusive relationship. Just continue dating, smashing and having fun.
*Do not act too invested or act as if she is your only option (as she shouldnt be). This means if she cancels a date, changes her mind about something, whatever, your only response is "Ok no problem hun".
*Indifference- indifference in many forms is the #1 way I increase or maintain value with women. I do not become emotionally upset over something they say or do. I just remain indifferent. Shyte tests dont come my way often (because I dont deal with medium to low interest women) but when I see a shyte test, I am totally indifferent
*You should be doing what YOU want. Do you hang with the guys at the local pub on Thursday night? You keep doing it. You play golf with the guys Sunday morning? You keep doing it. When she shyte tests you about skipping something you do that makes you happy just to do nothing with her, you remain on your course and keep doing you.
*There is power in the word NO. I believe the word NO will many times make a woman instantly sexually turned on for you. As a matter of fact you should be telling a woman NO each and every time she wants you to do something that you really dont want to do and you should also tell her no when she tries to get you out of your frame by stopping you from doing something that you like doing.
*You keep a few females that are sexually attracted to you close to the vest even during a relationship. Monkey branching should be something that you become good it if need be
*If a woman acts like something is wrong but not telling you what it is, just get the hell away from her and go do stuff that you enjoy doing until she either comes around and learns how to communicate like an adult or she can stay gone
*YOU are your source for happiness and your happiness alone.
Lowering value:
*You are the initiator of a relationship with a woman
*You change your plans to see a woman
*You tell a woman yes or agree to do something you really dont want to do in fear of her leaving you
*You act needy (blowing up her phone, texting too much)
*You act jealous (questioning where she was, who she was with)
*Asking her what is wrong all of the time.
*Getting mad/upset/butthurt if a woman cancels a date, reschedules a date, etc. Women will do this on occasion if she senses that a guy is super beta but hiding it well.
*Telling a woman "I love you" first.
*Having deep conversations that are emotional or having deep conversations that are about your problems. Women will act like they want to be needed when you need to have a really deep talk with someone. They really dont. Keep it fun and simple. She is your sexual partner, not your shrink.
*You as a man start relying on a woman to be your source of happiness. That is not her job. Her job is to submit or GTFO.
Happy hunting.
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