Performance Anxiety

[GearsGod310]

This is just solely for the healthy guys out there who have no medical conditions.

This whole year I suffered from performance anxiety
Missed on about 6-7 chicks I had in bed and could not seal the deal. Super embarrassing.
I could get hard during oral but as soon as it came to penetration or going to penetrate I would instantly lose my erection.
It was f***ing me up so bad in the head it was just a constant cycle of anxiety.
Super nervous before sex cause I was always thinking what if I can't get hard.. this whole year my libido and sex drive were dead cause of it.
Honestly I did not feel like a man. And felt almost like women werent attractive anymore.. thats how bad it got. Was a real low for me. But I always kept trying again and again.

Recently, on the street ran into the girl I lost my virginity to after 10 years of no contact whatsoever. Super random. When we saw eachother she just had gotten out a long ****ty relationship. We meet up for drinks and on the and 2nd date we had sex.

I took viagra the first two times we had sex.. helped tremendously. Helped me just gain that confidence back.
Its been 3 weeks now, I have been able to have sex 4 times in a night with no problem without viagra. My sex drive is through the roof.

Point is for all the guys out there with this problem don't give up even if you're failing. I thought I was never gonna be able to have sex again. I'm telling you once you do penetrate the first few times your brain will almost like reboot and its a wrap after that. Have not used viagra since.

 

[xplt]

I‘m in the same situation since a few weeks... I’ve never dealt with ED before. I was in bed with a girl I didn’t find attractive anymore when I had her naked and struggling with getting an erection since. Got some sildenafil from my doc these days to get back on track.

Thanks for that thread, just right in time!

 

[GearsGod310]

I‘m in the same situation since a few weeks... I’ve never dealt with ED before. I was in bed with a girl I didn’t find attractive anymore when I had her naked and struggling with getting an erection since. Got some sildenafil from my doc these days to get back on track.

Thanks for that thread, just right in time!

It's a mental block.
My ex is really hot so that helps a lot too.
Don't mess around with women you arent really attracted to.

Use the sildenafil first 2 times then give it a shot without it on the 3rd time. Have a drink before just too ease your mind.

You got this brother. Its all in your head. Please let me know how it goes. Keep me updated and **** that b1tch to sleep!

 

[KindredSpiritzz]

I think jacking off to porn hurts performance too.

 

[GearsGod310]

I think jacking off to porn hurts performance too.

That is proven. No doubt about it. F*** porn. Never watching it again.

 

[xplt]

It's a mental block.
My ex is really hot so that helps a lot too.
Don't mess around with women you arent really attracted to.

Use the sildenafil first 2 times then give it a shot without it on the 3rd time. Have a drink before just too ease your mind.

You got this brother. Its all in your head. Please let me know how it goes. Keep me updated and **** that b1tch to sleep!

I appreciate your advice. Thanks for sharing your experience. I will defintely give you an update on my progress.

Annoying when your head wants and your body not. Even knowing it‘s mental didn‘t bring me forward.

Right now I‘m excited for the first try with the sildenafil. Just knowing that I have something that helps eases my mind.

 

[GearsGod310]

I appreciate your advice. Thanks for sharing your experience. I will defintely give you an update on my progress.

Annoying when your head wants and your body not. Even knowing it‘s mental didn‘t bring me forward.

Right now I‘m excited for the first try with the sildenafil. Just knowing that I have something that helps eases my mind.

No problem bro. And please do I will be anxiously waiting to hear that you succeed!

It will work. How many miligrams did your doctor recommend?

 

[xplt]

It will work. How many miligrams did your doctor recommend?

He adviced me to take half of a 100mg pill. Which pills did you use?

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I‘m in the same situation since a few weeks... I’ve never dealt with ED before. I was in bed with a girl I didn’t find attractive anymore when I had her naked and struggling with getting an erection since. Got some sildenafil from my doc these days to get back on track.

Thanks for that thread, just right in time!

Lmfao... Its your body and physiology telling you to step your game up.

Rsd Madison once posted a thread telling other black men to stop pulling obese white women lol


Try horny goat weed. Get testosterone checked. I've pulled with whiskey ****kkk lol


I could smash but no nut. She waa sore and had lock jaw. Lulz

 

[xplt]

Lmfao... Its your body and physiology telling you to step your game up.

Rsd Madison once posted a thread telling other black men to stop pulling obese white women lol


Try horny goat weed. Get testosterone checked. I've pulled with whiskey ****kkk lol


I could smash but no nut. She waa sore and had lock jaw. Lulz

I don‘t go after obese women I didn‘t like her taste and smell. Just not mine... and my lust was gone.

I just read about horny goat weed, I think I will give it a try.

T levels low was also on my mind, but I don‘t have any related symptoms, except this one... I‘m 32, daily active with sports, intermediate fasting and good diet.

I hope I just ****ed my head...

 

[Dash Riprock]

Hey OP,

No worries. I have issues with this on and off too. It's 100% psychological for me. Mainly with new partners. I've also noticed as I've gotten older, alcohol affects things too. I take (only) 10mg of Viagra with new partners the first few times and it works like a charm. As a side benefit, I'm in this small percentage of men where Viagra delays your orgasm. I've had experiences where I've f*ucked a chick for an hour and didn't c*um--stayed hard as a rock too. It's good for her, and fun, but it does desensitize things for me. I've had some tell me to stop because they were getting sore, lol. Still, eventually I do get off so all is well. Most of the natural, organic s*hit doesn really work. Just try a smaller dose of V if you want to keep taking it and don't like the side effects. 10-20 mg should be plenty for a healthy man.

 

[jaymbrs]

Hey OP,

No worries. I have issues with this on and off too. It's 100% psychological for me. Mainly with new partners. I've also noticed as I've gotten older, alcohol affects things too. I take (only) 10mg of Viagra with new partners the first few times and it works like a charm. As a side benefit, I'm in this small percentage of men where Viagra delays your orgasm. I've had experiences where I've f*ucked a chick for an hour and didn't c*um--stayed hard as a rock too. It's good for her, and fun, but it does desensitize things for me. I've had some tell me to stop because they were getting sore, lol. Still, eventually I do get off so all is well. Most of the natural, organic s*hit doesn really work. Just try a smaller dose of V if you want to keep taking it and don't like the side effects. 10-20 mg should be plenty for a healthy man.

Seriously. It took me awhile to realize liquid courage was actually doing the opposite when it came time to do the dirty. So learned to balance it. I also learned to understand that it can happen after a night of drinking so I had to be decisive if I wanted to proceed with a woman after a certain point or number close and see if I can save it for another day. Whiskey **** is not fun. I've even had one start crying over it lol not a fun night but I did make it up to her the next day.

 

[GearsGod310]

He adviced me to take half of a 100mg pill. Which pills did you use?

Wow dude 50 mgs is a lot for a healthy man I think.
I used 25 mgs and it was more than enough.
Crazy hardons and last forever.
I used a generic brand of viagra.

 

[xplt]

Hey OP,

No worries. I have issues with this on and off too. It's 100% psychological for me. Mainly with new partners. I've also noticed as I've gotten older, alcohol affects things too. I take (only) 10mg of Viagra with new partners the first few times and it works like a charm. As a side benefit, I'm in this small percentage of men where Viagra delays your orgasm. I've had experiences where I've f*ucked a chick for an hour and didn't c*um--stayed hard as a rock too. It's good for her, and fun, but it does desensitize things for me. I've had some tell me to stop because they were getting sore, lol. Still, eventually I do get off so all is well. Most of the natural, organic s*hit doesn really work. Just try a smaller dose of V if you want to keep taking it and don't like the side effects. 10-20 mg should be plenty for a healthy man.

Wow dude 50 mgs is a lot for a healthy man I think.
I used 25 mgs and it was more than enough.
Crazy hardons and last forever.
I used a generic brand of viagra.

Alright, I‘ll go for your advice and try a quarter. Haven‘t tried it yet, but at least my sexdrive is coming back. Hail the legday.

 

[xplt]

Seriously. It took me awhile to realize liquid courage was actually doing the opposite when it came time to do the dirty. So learned to balance it. I also learned to understand that it can happen after a night of drinking so I had to be decisive if I wanted to proceed with a woman after a certain point or number close and see if I can save it for another day. Whiskey **** is not fun. I've even had one start crying over it lol not a fun night but I did make it up to her the next day.

I‘ve always had problems when alcohol is involved. So I drink lots of water and coffee on the side when I‘m out. Let girls down too, when I had too much...

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I don‘t go after obese women I didn‘t like her taste and smell. Just not mine... and my lust was gone.

I just read about horny goat weed, I think I will give it a try.

T levels low was also on my mind, but I don‘t have any related symptoms, except this one... I‘m 32, daily active with sports, intermediate fasting and good diet.

I hope I just ****ed my head...

You can get horny goat weed at bb. COM or your local holistic shop. Do research. You want content dense and bio availability. Not placebo.

Get testosterone checked. No diss.

Clean up diet. Lose spare tire lol its the holiday season. Everyone should clean it up.

You mean intermittent lol not intermediate lololol. Fasting is good for you.

The chick Could be gross or smells. If its a one off, whatever. If uts routine, get checked out. Do a physical. It could be serious.

 

[JohnChops]

This happen to me with my current girlfriend. At the time I was mainlining caffeine upwards of 900mg a day. Safe to say when I backed off my d1ck ce back to life lol

 

[lamath]

Lmfao... Its your body and physiology telling you to step your game up.

Rsd Madison once posted a thread telling other black men to stop pulling obese white women lol


Try horny goat weed. Get testosterone checked. I've pulled with whiskey ****kkk lol


I could smash but no nut. She waa sore and had lock jaw. Lulz

Yohimbe also if you can get it.
used it for fat burning a long time ago, had a big effect on my E

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Have a very young GF who has little tolerance for failure. So I do have PA.

 

[Fireballs]

Had the same problem .. I missed out on banging some hot girls because of it .. finally had enough and got some Cialis to get the confidence back. Tried Viagra too but one 5mg dose of Cialis seems to last 2-3 days