@cheyne I have to ask, what is the end game? You're playing the numbers but adapting very little, every post is pretty similar. Is your long term goal to get a bunch of ONS? To land a 10 and date? To be spinning plates?
Imo a journal doesn't make sense if you're going clubbing and simply trying to get the lay count up. A journal shows some serious intent, I'm going to guess you actually want a STR or LTR. Usually clubs aren't the place for that.
One significant thing I'm noticing is you're not building on PUA stuff. PUA stuff is very short sighted, strictly for ONS. Consider building a network of women and men that you meet out and focus on having a good time with them rather than trying to bang them. You'll find you can call on them later and go out as a group or they may start inviting you out if you're fun to be around. This does wonders in game. Social status is a big part of attraction for women in any setting and you'll find this network of people can help you by sending interested women your way or inviting you to events where they know you'll have good odds. They may also polarize a lot of women in your favor while you're out, and again the social status will disarm a lot of women. The caveat is you can't act like a dog if you want the network to work for you.
Also it's great to not care about rejections but imo you shouldn't go out looking for them or normalizing them. It's feedback, learn from it. Go out to enjoy yourself with the people you meet. Live in the moment and play the 'anti-game' sometimes. By this I mean actively push things away from sexual escalation and into the moment. You'll find women either enjoy your bomb attitude about having fun or they start to try and seduce you themselves. When they sense that you would rather have fun in the moment they start to see you as higher value. They think 'here is this guy that would rather dance and have a good time than take me home with him right now. He must have options, he must be high value for me to phase him so little.' they love working for a guy. When a guy is actively pushing for the bedroom he's telegraphing low value. He's being extremely easy, and that's no fun for a hot girl. Not to mention that's extremely common and the reason why so many women constantly have walls up.
Hot girls like anticipation and not knowing whether they completely have you. Your job is to keep them guessing and give into their seduction at the end of the night. Or blow them off if you're not feeling it.
You said you're built but a bit fugly. Compensate with a banging wardrobe and a kick as$ personality. Remember, every single guy women talk to when they're out tries to bang them. Stand out for fun. See if you can get her to forget about having her walls up by pulling her into the moment, then don't push to get laid. Invest in a long term network strategy. The ones that see this will be pleasantly surprised by you. The ones that assume you're trying to pick them up and reject you would have rejected you anyway.
The more time a woman spends around you, the more likely she'll see something in you that she likes and wants. Increase the time exposure to each women and build a deep charming and charismatic personality that inspires and indirectly validates. These types of connections lead to the most fulfilling encounters.
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