2 hours! Uh. Big mistake. Huge mistake. Talking and texting is only to setup plans to meet in person. That’s it, nothing else. Hell after 2 hours talk/ text what the hell would you discuss face to face, you already know everything. Stay a mystery.
Talked to that 40yr old HB7 nurse for about 2 hours tonight.
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its the same thing for women in their 40s, 50s, 60s.. its all PHYSICAL attraction first.
Why dont you answer this, (i'm gona be extreme about this) would you F a mongoloid looking chick from a special ed class even though she makes you cookies everyday and makes you laugh??
And if you do end up ****ing her, its either pity sex or you are just a straight up a damn good person.
Hell know i wouldn't screw the tard.
Great posts bigdave about post-wall women who have fbw. You are officially my rival on here for sad threads.
You should watch "Under The Skin" (2013) since you recommended Amazon Prime in my other thread, and I'm guessing you have that too. It has Scarlett Johanasson playing a nude alien who is preying on weak guys like yourself and then using them for alien food in her home planet. I think if a girl approached you like her, you'll jump at the opportunity because you sound desperate. Watching this is better than chasing post-wall women and thinking it a big deal you spent 2 hours over the phone. At least if you are wasting your time, do it in style!
You should watch "Under The Skin" (2013) since you recommended Amazon Prime in my other thread, and I'm guessing you have that too. It has Scarlett Johanasson playing a nude alien who is preying on weak guys like yourself and then using them for alien food in her home planet. I think if a girl approached you like her, you'll jump at the opportunity because you sound desperate. Watching this is better than chasing post-wall women and thinking it a big deal you spent 2 hours over the phone. At least if you are wasting your time, do it in style!
you see, its the physical attraction first.. they have to be attracted to the physical first. Like how their physical attracts YOU!@
Women won't admit this..but its true, MOST of them are shallow like us. Please, remember that. Burn that in your head.
your photo reminds me of clay aiken..Kinda scrawny ish feel to him.... i really think u just have to work out. I'd rather let you know now So you can make that change sooner in your 20s. Don't be trying to make that physical change in your 50s, 60s...its gona be really too late by then.
Experiment with your looks.. Its all A/B testing.
Your face/hair color right now looks monotone. Perhaps try dying your hair black...grow a beard if u can. I really think you can pull it off man. Or maybe..shave hair? Photoshop it first. Maybe wear black framed NON prescription glasses. $10 at amazon < easy instant change
Experiment with your looks.. Its all A/B testing.
Your face/hair color right now looks monotone. Perhaps try dying your hair black...grow a beard if u can. I really think you can pull it off man. Or maybe..shave hair? Photoshop it first. Maybe wear black framed NON prescription glasses. $10 at amazon < easy instant change
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Umm, if you hadn't noticed yet.. He's "special" too.
Getting the names confused. Bigwhatever.
My part time job if I have a beard you have to keep it neatly trimmed. I dont have time for that. When I didnt have that job I wouldn't shave for a week. I'd look like hockey players during the playoffs.
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In what universe is this a good thing? Clearly not this one.
She texted me tonight and we chatted for just over an hour. She's dropping her FWB friend now, that 49 year old dude. Her former boss who's a dept director at another location sent her flowers she said. Her boss said is she dense LOL. So she says they got along when they hangout as a group at work and as a group are going to Key West next week for a couple days. Still friend zone she said.
The last time I texted her was over the weekend and she texted me out of the blue tonight. She like I said sounds interested but she said the distance thing is a serious concern being 60 miles. She also asked me what my views were and if I want to have kids. I know where that leads to. I know she doesn't want kids. So this time I said I have no preference and it goes either way it doesn't make any difference to me. She seemed to think that was an okay answer. I know that trap. She had a miscarriage right after she had cancer when she was younger.
Oh and she just separated in May. Husband did it over a text. In Sept. it was finalized by the state. Her ex husband still dog sits and does work on her house though and wanted to rent a room from her lol for a grand a month but she isn't going to. Since I didn't hear from her since Sat when I texted her I figured she was just going to ghost and move on but yea, she sent me a text first tonight.
The last time I texted her was over the weekend and she texted me out of the blue tonight. She like I said sounds interested but she said the distance thing is a serious concern being 60 miles. She also asked me what my views were and if I want to have kids. I know where that leads to. I know she doesn't want kids. So this time I said I have no preference and it goes either way it doesn't make any difference to me. She seemed to think that was an okay answer. I know that trap. She had a miscarriage right after she had cancer when she was younger.
Oh and she just separated in May. Husband did it over a text. In Sept. it was finalized by the state. Her ex husband still dog sits and does work on her house though and wanted to rent a room from her lol for a grand a month but she isn't going to. Since I didn't hear from her since Sat when I texted her I figured she was just going to ghost and move on but yea, she sent me a text first tonight.
Dude! Have you learned a single thing on this forum? Hello. This woman is NOT interested in you as a romantic thing. She is using you as her therapist. You are 100% deep in friend zone. Hello? Can’t you see that. She’s literally telling you about the guys she wants as romantic partners.
At least shes talking. I want to break through the friend zone barrier. I want to strategize how to break it.
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And the 21 and 17 years old girl you were trying to groom?
I never see the 21 year old at work due to the days I work.
Biggoal, alot of the guys here are being real. I'll tell you that. The reason being is because this is a sign/behavior of a woman who isn't interested BASED on ALL OF OUR EXPERIENCES. We have historical databases in our heads and our replies is a reflection of it.
But, then again, its your time and energy. But then again, its good experience for you whether you get laid or not...i feel ya on this. And i hope u do get laid by all means.
But, then again, its your time and energy. But then again, its good experience for you whether you get laid or not...i feel ya on this. And i hope u do get laid by all means.
Haha. Break thru the friend zone. It would be easier to get the earth to spin on its opposite direction. No man has ever succeeded in that. Do not waste your time
