That's it! it's finally over...

[stovepipe]

I don't understand where you guys find these "women"

Most girls I know are push overs

Some get angry yes, but assault rifles? Seriously?

Where on earth do you find them

You don't find them, they find you.

 

[2Rocky]

SGt. can you give us a time line on all this?

 

[SgtSplacker]

I absolutely agree I overlooked a ton of stuff, she was already pregnant so I gave it a go. Lots of women are damaged, I gave her a chance, she had her virtues, it didn't always suck. The entire thing lasted about 6 months. From the moment I met her to the moment she moved out. I should be finalizing the divorce in about two weeks and she gets nothing. I took out a restraining order on her and made her sign a contract that stated I would drop the order if she agreed to a little move out money and to unconditionally sign the uncontested divorce and that was it. doing it this way came out cheaper than filing a contested divorce so it worked out because of that. I do agree my performance was poor on this one. She was 15 years younger than I was and that was a real turn on. She was in her prime childbearing years. I really wanted it to work. And the person that pointed the gun at me was a cop she told I was dangerous.

 

[soulforge]

I absolutely agree I overlooked a ton of stuff, she was already pregnant so I gave it a go. Lots of women are damaged, I gave her a chance, she had her virtues, it didn't always suck. The entire thing lasted about 6 months. From the moment I met her to the moment she moved out. I should be finalizing the divorce in about two weeks and she gets nothing. I took out a restraining order on her and made her sign a contract that stated I would drop the order if she agreed to a little move out money and to unconditionally sign the uncontested divorce and that was it. doing it this way came out cheaper than filing a contested divorce so it worked out because of that. I do agree my performance was poor on this one. She was 15 years younger than I was and that was a real turn on. She was in her prime childbearing years. I really wanted it to work. And the person that pointed the gun at me was a cop she told I was dangerous.

Damn bro.. You met a chick, got her pregnant and married her, moved her ass in... ALL in 6 MONTHS???

Dude you don’t know shyte about a chick in only 6 months!

Most woman are on BEST behaviour for atleast one year, before the unbearable cvnt rears its ugly head.

In some ways you got lucky that you got out 6 months in... Instead of investing 2 years on her...

What have we learned here... NEVER ignore those red flags... You will pay a price!

 

[SgtSplacker]

Yeah man, I saw an opportunity to start a family and I went full retard, lol. My justification was that all women are the same at this age. I'm done with that recklessness. I looked in her closet and saw fuggin Castle Greyskull with a whole Skeletor family in there!

 

[soulforge]

Yeah man, I saw an opportunity to start a family and I went full retard, lol. My justification was that all women are the same at this age. I'm done with that recklessness. I looked in her closet and saw fuggin Castle Greyskull with a whole Skeletor family in there!

I know how you feel.. As we get older, we want to leave the GAME behind and find a chick to settle down with..

However because we are older, we need to be EXTRA careful about the girl we get into an LTR with, as we don’t have time to waste.

I've been there.. Dude I nearly got into an LTR with an ex stripper and ex pornographer, also cocaine user.

Luckily i dumped and walked away early.

In the future I would suggest you vet the shyte out of women.. Don't even consider exclusivity till atleast the 6 month mark.

Bishes like a challange... You became too easy and gave her EVERYTHING 6 months in.

She wants marriage? Or raise kids with you?

You have to make her earn that privilage, by showing constant good behaviour.

 

[user43770]

Yeah man, I saw an opportunity to start a family and I went full retard, lol. My justification was that all women are the same at this age. I'm done with that recklessness. I looked in her closet and saw fuggin Castle Greyskull with a whole Skeletor family in there!

You can have a child, but don't expect a family

It becomes a near impossibility the older you get.

 

[Epic Days]

You can have a child, but don't expect a family

It becomes a near impossibility the older you get.

Surrogate mother. Too simple.
You even get to select and even meet the woman.

 

[user43770]

Surrogate mother. Too simple.
You even get to select and even meet the woman.

Wait. What? Are you suggesting surrogate mothers?

 

[user43770]

Some guys really want to spread their seed. Can't blame them, as it comes natural to all of us. But the lengths we'll go...

@SgtSplacker you're just bored with life. And how could you not be? It's all a fvcking joke, man.

 

[DariusTheBartender]

Been off the forum for a while because I meet a girl and tied the knot. At the beginning it was awesome... she was pregnant, she was sexy and young, she had a high libido, she was kinky, we shared common interests. I was finally going to start a family, it was awesome. Then the paranoia started. Over and over again I was accused of cheating. Every time it was an explosive event where since I was supposedly a "cheater" I then deserved no respect or consideration. We split, aborted, I kicked her out, we reconciled, she moved back in, split over and over again the same thing. The whole time I was torn between being a quitter or a pushover, I still do not know which path holds the most virtue till this day. My name was slandered to family and friends, special events ruined, the police called multiple times, I had an assault rifle pointed at me on my birthday. All because I was supposedly some kind of evil womanizer.

Over and over again I had to prove my innocence. Showing her security footage, calling strange numbers on speaker to act like I knew a girl so she could see the girl really did not know me "hey it's me Sgt, how's it going? you don't know who I am? Hey! it's me! Ops, I must have a wrong number sorry"... lol. I tried to make it work over and over again, just to see it break over and over again. I think the only bad thing I really did to her was to physically push her away from me on one occasion, she came at me screaming and just caught me at the wrong time. I was mourning the death of my father so I was emotionally unstable that night and sincerely made a mistake I regretted. She hit the floor hard, I apologized and left the house to sleep at my sisters for the night. What torment. And of course like any woman she took absolutely no accountability for her actions. Even after proving my innocence it was always my fault in the end, always that lingering suspicion that prevented a full apology and reconciliation. I was always good to her, except for that one time.

This last week another accusation of cheating. It's crazy to just sit there while a person is screaming at you 110% sure you did something that you just.. didn't.. do. After having to defend myself so many times I just sat there with a feeling of resignation, I felt so defeated. It was 3AM and she woke me up screaming, I just didn't have the will to defend myself yet another time. I felt she took it as a feeling of guilt and admission rather than resignation and defeat. Emotional states that feel very similar oddly enough, opposite yet the same. It's crazy but I actually did feel guilty in a way. What a strange thing the human mind is. It's true someone can sit there and repeat something to you and you will actually start to kinda believe it. It just starts to sink in. As she walked out the door for the last time her last words were "your dead to me" I just looked at her and shook my head. At this point I had already moved her out, ready to file for divorce. I was just trying to give things another chance. Always trying to make the best of a bad situation, I accepted her anger and accusations as a tool to keep her away from me. I accepted what was happening. I accepted that my marriage was over. Good riddance.

I am honestly sharing this as an outlet for my emotions, I also hope it can serve someone and help them avoid the same. Don't ignore those red flags as I did. Don't skip the proper vetting of a female before letting her into your life and home. Daddy issues are bad, m-kay. Don't let yourself be rushed and manipulated. Always maintain your social life from day one, even if you have to lie and say you are going to your friends house or out with them and really just go sit in a parking lot by yourself to read or something, always create that space from the very first day. Women are nothing to be pedestaled. Listen to what your woman is talking about, rather than what she is saying to really understand her motivations and interests. Stay away from women that see shrinks, they can hide their true feelings but they can't hide those visits to the shrink forever. And never ever be afraid to walk away, always be ready to just turn around and walk away right up until the moment that ring goes on her finger keep your bags packed and ready to go. Maybe even after that too lol.

Just a simple thank you. Thank you for sharing... no matter how many of these stories there are... always reinforces what we all need to know and remember. Thanks brother and hope you are ok.

 

[Epic Days]

Wait. What? Are you suggesting surrogate mothers?

If someone wants children that bad? Sure. If they want to be sure that they won’t loose them.
What do you think concubines were for?

What’s really interesting is that most of modern civilization can be traced back to three women.
Men are not guaranteed offspring or even a woman to have sex with. I have four that I know of. I’ve had plenty of unprotected sex in other places.

INCELs are upset because they aren’t guaranteed a woman to bear children and love them forever.

 

[user43770]

If someone wants children that bad? Sure. If they want to be sure that they won’t loose them.
What do you think concubines were for?

What’s really interesting is that most of modern civilization can be traced back to three women.
Men are not guaranteed offspring or even a woman to have sex with. I have four that I know of. I’ve had plenty of unprotected sex in other places.

Eh, that's taking the easy way out.

"The true man wants two things: danger and play. For that reason he wants woman, as the most dangerous plaything."

 

[user43770]

If someone wants children that bad? Sure. If they want to be sure that they won’t loose them.
What do you think concubines were for?

What’s really interesting is that most of modern civilization can be traced back to three women.
Men are not guaranteed offspring or even a woman to have sex with. I have four that I know of. I’ve had plenty of unprotected sex in other places.

INCELs are upset because they aren’t guaranteed a woman to bear children and love them forever.

I reckon all of Civilization can be traced back to ONE woman, if you look far enough. And no, I'm not talking about Eve, though I won't rule that out.

Incels are mad for that reason, and I can't say that I blame them. The world isn't what we thought it was. It's difficult for every man to accept.

Doesn't mean you lay down the sword. There is victory to be found in defeat, sometimes.

 

[Epic Days]

I reckon all of Civilization can be traced back to ONE woman, if you look far enough. And no, I'm not talking about Eve, though I won't rule that out.

Incels are mad for that reason, and I can't say that I blame them. The world isn't what we thought it was. It's difficult for every man to accept.

Doesn't mean you lay down the sword. There is victory to be found in defeat, sometimes.

Lay down the sword?
Live fast. Live beautifully. Live dangerously. Women live boring lives.

 

[user43770]

Lay down the sword?
Live fast. Live beautifully. Live dangerously. Women live boring lives.

Sex at their beck and call. I wish I could live such a boring life!

 

[Focal core]

It sounds like bpd to me. Part of the disorder is the need to push away the man they love, then draw him back and repeat the cycle. I'm sure she told you all about how you are THE WORST PERSON IN THE WORLD, right? I've been there.

I'm with you mate

 

[Focal core]

If you are codependent, and you don't deal with it, it may well "deal" with you sooner or later by attracting a cluster B woman like this who is drawn to you like moth to flame. You attract women on your own wavelength or function or dysfunction. Without selfrespect you were already a dead corpse that just hadn't fully decayed yet, the BPD you inevitably attracted because of that was just the detective who looks for dead people like you.

Fully agree on this, work on yourself first, get any core trauma resolved wether by yourself or professional before enduring into another relationship,
it feels as though you've found your 'soul mate.' There's a similar vibration or frequency you two share, due to your primal abandonment issues. While the nature of those early difficulties were alike, they've played out in different ways for each of you~ but the scars from that time remain, unless there's been some serious core-focused intervention.

 

[Skyline]

Hey Sarge, I enjoyed your posts when you were active.

I had an ex that would start arguing over not seeing me enough. The first month, we we’re hanging out 3-4 times a week. I told her it was to much and dropped it to 1-2.

But that wasn’t enough for her because she wanted to meet my family and hers all at once. Despite my protest, she still wanted to see me more and her pestering honestly just got annoying.

She would try to guilt trip me and I just saw through it. She resorted to physically hitting me(two different occasions in the arm) when I would say something that she didn’t like. She also praised a video of Antifa destroying stuff but condemned the Proud Boys being violent, I learned that she wasn’t so bright early on.

She talked to me about her ex messaging her and even stopping by to pick some stuff up. I brushed it off, no drama etc., but I did not forget that.

We would make up after arguing about not seeing her enough and standing firm on my boundaries. But she would always bring it back up which prompted me to go radio silent.

I would ignore her messages, calls, and told her to go home(via text) when she showed up unannounced. She later thanked me for telling her to go home because she said it was crazy behavior...

Rinse repeat, she wants to meet up. I decline, she breaks up with me over text. I agree and amplify and assume she found another guy. A week later, she’s back with her ex.

I was hurt at first but that relationship lasted 2 months. She became very predictable and the only thing I miss was her bouncing double D’s and swallowing my load.

She got annoying with the predictable guilt trips and I remembered all of the red flags. The physical violence, manipulation attempts, and the ex.

But this girl wasn’t genuine and I caught on early on. The girls that are genuine are the most dangerous. They can hook you early on and flip a switch later. So like bipolar, bpd, etc...

In my opinion, you came out with no kid and minimal loss. You have an interesting story to tell and can probably prep for any future encounter with someone similar.

The thing with women like this is that you have to be as controlling as humanly possible for her to be acceptable.

 

[sosousage]

So she pointed weapon at u and u still with her ha ha ha beta cuck