Do you have incel friends? How to motivate them?

[corrector]

Hard to tell. None have expressed any anger or resentment towards women. It’s more of a ‘well that’s just the way things are.’ Kind of attitude.

Are they happy with them?

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Yeah, I mean if they'd really rather be gaming or whatever, who cares? Unless they're planning on procreating, there's no real need for women outside of validation and companionship. If they can get by without it, far be it from me to tell them it's wrong.



My ‘cels are all gamers. I love gaming too, but I love women more. This has been going on for over a decade. This thread has made me reconsider. Maybe I should just let them be.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Are they happy with them

I don’t think they are happy.

 

[corrector]

They are not happy with women....because...they are ignoring them and only talking to you?

 

[Hamurabimbi]

They are not happy with women....because...they are ignoring them and only talking to you?

Just vaguely unhappy with their lives. I think, for most of them, the concept of getting a GF is simply alien. They don’t seem to resent anything. I get the impression they just have accepted that this is just the natural order of the world.

 

[evan12]

My incel friends are incel because they aim for smv that are too high or they are video game/ netflix addict.

They dont even try to get in shape or dress well, it is sad. They are ok living a mediocre life.

I see this all the time women have very strong motivation to loose weight and improve while men are not. my explanation is that women get a better tier of men with each improvement while men not .
I have a couple of incels, some of them lack social awareness and some are very socially awared but deep inside they lack motivation to look better and loose weight .
It is hard to say to a man who got rejected for year and have no enjoyment in life to stop playing games or to go to gym.

I feel like my buddies are hitting the wall, they don't want to go out as much

If they are that good looking most likely they have some action but keep it secret to themselves , back to your question , I have two incels one of them I stopped talking with him as he is very blue pilled, the other one I want to sit with him and suggest to him to start fresh start, he is currently trucker , spending all his time and weekend working, and use that as an excuse why he cannot find a woman, he is over weight, even though he bough many gym machines and already registered in expensive gym , but he lack motivation to really loose weight.

 

[zekko]

Just vaguely unhappy with their lives. I think, for most of them, the concept of getting a GF is simply alien.

I just thought of another guy much like the first one I mentioned. He has unrequited crushes on girls who don't care about him. But he does go out with several girls as friends. Also lacking in masculinity and edge. Complains a lot about how he can't find a girl who "likes" him.

I can't think of anyone who just never talks to girls at all. I suppose some of them are just used to not being around them. I enjoy women too much to be content with that.

 

[lamath]

I see this all the time women have very strong motivation to loose weight and improve while men are not. my explanation is that women get a better tier of men with each improvement while men not .
I have a couple of incels, some of them lack social awareness and some are very socially awared but deep inside they lack motivation to look better and loose weight .
It is hard to say to a man who got rejected for year and have no enjoyment in life to stop playing games or to go to gym.

Yeah women just need to look good, for men its alot more

 

[lamath]

but gaming and netflix is not necessarily worse than having sex with women

PS you can c.um in 5-10min, what will u do during rest of day? waste time shopping clothes or at gym? muscles will leave you one day

Bad mindset
Bad argument.imo

Gym is just good overall habit, style set you apart does not.mean its only to get women.

Unless its a quickie 5-10min fuking is way too short.

 

[Xenom0rph]

Incel is something that will affect more and more guys in the coming years as social media artificially inflates female ego beyond their true SMV.

I'm seeing guys who are Chad-lite that are becoming incel despite how much effort they put into socializing with women.

In a few years:

* being 6' isnt going to be enough, you have to be at least 6'2" .

* Being Chad wont be enough, you gotta be Super Chad.

* $100k aint enough, you need at least $150k salary.

The dating game aint looking good for regular guys....

 

[Xenom0rph]

I believe the reason why Inceldom is becoming a recurring topic on this board is because a lot of guys are finally waking up to the fact that the skew in SMV between males and females (precipitated by social media like Instagram) is pushing more and more guys into inceldom, guys who in the early 2000's would have no problem in the dating game but now are struggling just to even score a starbucks date.

Even guys who have had relationships in the past are now finding themselves being pushed towards the boundaries inceldom as they are now finding it harder to deal with womens' ever increasing expectations.....

..... I would even say there are a lot of guys on this board that are being forced into inceldom whether or not they have had relationships in the past....

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Incel is something that will affect more and more guys in the coming years as social media artificially inflates female ego beyond their true SMV.

I'm seeing guys who are Chad-lite that are becoming incel despite how much effort they put into socializing with women.

In a few years:

* being 6' isnt going to be enough, you have to be at least 6'2" .

* Being Chad wont be enough, you gotta be Super Chad.

* $100k aint enough, you need at least $150k salary.

The dating game aint looking good for regular guys....

Well they can cuddle her at night when chad flakes on a booty call and take her to free dinners!

 

[Xenom0rph]

The dating game has essentially turned into a giant poker tournament. For those that dont know, in a poker tournament each round the antes and the blinds increase. Soon the antes and the blinds increase so drastically that it automatically knocks out guys that are short-stacked.....

I'm seeing the same thing in the dating game where decent looking guys with decent jobs and prospects get sidelined because they arent good enough, because every woman these days is an aspiring instagram model that deserves Chad.....

 

[Epicwinguy]

As an incel myself, i will just get a sex doll. I actually have options...but a sex doll is better than a tweaker or another dude

 

[corrector]

As an incel myself, i will just get a sex doll. I actually have options...but a sex doll is better than a tweaker or another dude

Why would you mention another dude and call that an option? Are you gay or something. That's sick. What's wrong with you?
Get a female prostitute and stay hetrosexual.

 

[Epicwinguy]

Why would you mention another dude and call that an option? Are you gay or something. That's sick. What's wrong with you?
Get a female prostitute and stay hetrosexual.

I never considered being gay but that doesn't stop fags from trying to convince me. And i agree it is sick.

Currently looking for the safest surest way to pay for sex with someone attractive. I'm not paying for a toothless old lady.

 

[corrector]

I never considered being gay but that doesn't stop fags from trying to convince me.

Don't talk with them or tell them to get lost.

And i agree it is sick.

Of course that's sick.

Currently looking for the safest surest way to pay for sex with someone attractive. I'm not paying for a toothless old lady.

You won't be able to get hard with a toothless old lady or won't be able to get into the mood. If you are in Canada there are internet sites that list escort contacts. I don't have a fear of turning gay unless I commit fornication with a woman so I'm not really motivated to use any escort on that ground. You get all the motivation in the world to not be incel if gay guys are after you just to show them you are hetrosexual and to back the **** off. Luckily I don't have that problem. But that's natural motivation for you thought.

 

[Epicwinguy]

Don't talk with them or tell them to get lost.



Of course that's sick.



You won't be able to get hard with a toothless old lady or won't be able to get into the mood. If you are in Canada there are internet sites that list escort contacts. I don't have a fear of turning gay unless I commit fornication with a woman so I'm not really motivated to use any escort on that ground. You get all the motivation in the world to not be incel if gay guys are after you just to show them you are hetrosexual and to back the **** off. Luckily I don't have that problem. But that's natural motivation for you thought.

Here in the sjw ****hole us, people will roast you to death if you refuse gay men too harshly. Like you have to make it funny while getting the point across. I am dumb as a rock in terms of quick thinking humor and controlling my temper. If I ever have to I could fight some faggot(s) though.

I am for the girls all the way.

 

[AttackFormation]

The dating game has essentially turned into a giant poker tournament. For those that dont know, in a poker tournament each round the antes and the blinds increase. Soon the antes and the blinds increase so drastically that it automatically knocks out guys that are short-stacked.....

I'm seeing the same thing in the dating game where decent looking guys with decent jobs and prospects get sidelined because they arent good enough, because every woman these days is an aspiring instagram model that deserves Chad.....

I would bet that each of those guys are both trying to meet women through OLD, antisocial media and clubs, and that they don't enjoy any of those mediums. A man who has a social life with many women in it, or who enjoys trying to pick up women in clubs or wherever, won't have these problems. I don't think extroverts are suffering as much from inceldom - just look at this board or elsewhere. Are we talking about men with a big social life who enjoy the process itself of going out to cold approach women?

The guys I know of who have met women either did it through rich, overlapping social spheres where they are in proximity, or they enjoy clubbing in of itself, or they look so good that they can use OLD and antisocial media and women may hit on them day to day too.

 

[Epicwinguy]

Thanx guys for reminding me how much i hate faggots