HB 7 date lasted 2 hours, went well tonight. Was I friend zoned?

[biggoal]

Didnt see much on Google for her but she is divorced it shows even though she says it was a boyfriend she broke up with. Also she's a defendant listed in a USC 42 section 1983 lawsuit as well involved in an beating case. Maybe she was fired?

Would you consider this baggage a red flag?

 

[sexymanman]

just text her telling her you have a boner. tell her your going to jerk off to nina hartley porn.

 

[Suave88]

just text her telling her you have a boner. tell her your going to jerk off to nina hartley porn.

No don't text.

 

[Suave88]

Didnt see much on Google for her but she is divorced it shows even though she says it was a boyfriend she broke up with. Also she's a defendant listed in a USC 42 section 1983 lawsuit as well involved in an beating case. Maybe she was fired?

Would you consider this baggage a red flag?

No, It is not a baggage. What do you care about her private life. You only want to fvck her. Concentrate in fvcking her.
Well, she was sued. It's unclear whether she lost or not. So she was definitely a LEO.

 

[Suave88]

Correct.

Don't text her unless she texts you and before texting back, post the text on SoSuave. There is people here who wants you fail.

 

[biggoal]

Don't text her unless she texts you and before texting back, post the text on SoSuave. There is people here who wants you fail.

What if she doesn't text me?

 

[user43770]

I bet there are some bad ass prosties down there @biggoal

Edit - check that. I know there are, as I fvcked a couple of them

 

[Suave88]

What if she doesn't text me?

You can attempt to contact her during the last quarter of the moon cycle for the zip code where you live, AND not Before! Don't ask me why use the old farmer almanac.

 

[RickTheToad]

Nobody wants him to fail.

Some members just know it’s over before others. They’re just waiting for the moment the light bulb finally turns on.

This ^^^

We've all tried to help this dude. @Amante Silvestre even took him under his wing; no luck. He will only learn by his own experience. At 35, he shouldn't be this green. Even if his is (which, he is), he doesn't listen to others here. He only listens to what he wants to listen to. @Suave88 is the only one entertaining his antics now; for the most part.

 

[The Duke]

@biggoal You think too much. You analyze too much. You constantly try to appease the woman. You are always worried about how you are perceived by the woman. This mentality won't get you laid.

Live in the moment, ride the wave, drink a few, stop worrying so much about how she feels, go after what you want, steer the ship. Women reward men like this with --> \ ! /

 

[Suave88]

@biggoal You think too much. You analyze too much. You constantly try to appease the woman. You are always worried about how you are perceived by the woman. This mentality won't get you laid.

Live in the moment, ride the wave, drink a few, stop worrying so much about how she feels, go after what you want, steer the ship. Women reward men like this with --> \ ! /

are you a female?

 

[Suave88]

This is not a train wreck. It is derailment.

 

[Suave88]

What happened to the HB9.5 from the last summer?

 

[Suave88]

Hey! It was nice meeting you too!
OK, this is called reciprocation.

We can plan on meeting up.
She is OK meeting you again, BUT

I will just have to play it by ear. So much going on with the house, work, and my trip.
BUT,BUT, BUT,BUT, she is giving you some excuses. she has a gear stick shift transmission, not automatic.

But we should be able to meet up for a drink before I leave. [.quote]

She is now moving forward again and this time smoothly.


I removed the excuses from her text. Remember, you are in an impersonal relationship with a woman. You met her online.
In my experience, personal relationships move faster. For example, you are her coworker, meet thru friends, family, in person in college or class.

Hey! It was nice meeting you too! We can plan on meeting up. We should be able to meet up for a drink before I leave.

I don't see a test here. I don't think she is testing you. Just wait.

 

[biggoal]

I texted a bit tonight with her. She leaves for her trip on Wed and comes back on Mon but must work everyday though. She said she's playing it by ear so meeting will be hard since she works everyday and in the process of moving so she's busy until then and I work too but she wants to meet though and still showing interest. So likely it will be when she comesback from her trip but she knows I like her and she wants to meet again obviously.

So what do I do in order to keep her interest level up until she gets back from the trip? How often do you think I should text? She isn't the type that likes to text a lot and blow your phone up. So maybe like every other day text her a bit? I always try adding a subtle flirting in my texting as well just so she knows I'm interested and I know she gets the hint the way she replies sometimes.

So it will probably be after her trip we meet up. I did suggest though when we both have a day off so we can plan something fun for a day. Any suggestions other than a drink something that is a few hours?

I really dig her personality. She's not the kind that will put out the second or third date, I already know that, BUT the next date I expect some making out though. I figure with more time and hanging out for a few hours on the next date will build a lot more up in her.

 

[Suave88]

I texted a bit tonight with her. She leaves for her trip on Wed and comes back on Mon but must work everyday though. She said she's playing it by ear so meeting will be hard since she works everyday and in the process of moving so she's busy until then and I work too but she wants to meet though and still showing interest. So likely it will be when she comesback from her trip but she knows I like her and she wants to meet again obviously.

So what do I do in order to keep her interest level up until she gets back from the trip? How often do you think I should text? She isn't the type that likes to text a lot and blow your phone up. So maybe like every other day text her a bit? I always try adding a subtle flirting in my texting as well just so she knows I'm interested and I know she gets the hint the way she replies sometimes.

So it will probably be after her trip we meet up. I did suggest though when we both have a day off so we can plan something fun for a day. Any suggestions other than a drink something that is a few hours?

I really dig her personality. She's not the kind that will put out the second or third date, I already know that, BUT the next date I expect some making out though. I figure with more time and hanging out for a few hours on the next date will build a lot more up in her.

Ok, but did you text her twice or she texted you back today?

Did you find out or not when the last quarter of the moon cycle is for your zip code? You need to find out!

She goes to a trip and will be back. Let her go to Jurassic Park if she is going there. Don't need to text her when she is with the dinosaurs...... Give her some space. You don't want to be bothering her.

I am sure she will have a lot of entertainment whereever she is going.

When she gets back ask her out.
I don't give square ****. Everyone has time after work or before work. If she works at night, she can see you in the morning.
If she is free in the evening, she can see you after she gets off.

She has no family, she is not from down here, and I have not heard anything about elder sick parents.
That means no busy. She can go out with you. The human body needs at least 6 hours of rest. I have gone out, drunk 6 beers and I driven back home like nothing.

So find about the moon cycle and ask her out during this time. I can guarantee you two will make up. But do not plan in getting your Dlck wet.
Where are you planning to take her out?

I don't recommend to take her to a restaurants.
Once I took a coworker to a Chines wok. As we were waiting for our meal, I got up from my chair and kissed her in the mouth. She was married, but I didn't give a fvck the public, the staff, or the fact she was married.
So begin to plan where you will take her now. I don't know if you are shy or not, but you need to determine the place and have more than one location in mind.

 

[biggoal]

Ok, but did you text her twice or she texted you back today?

Ok, but did you text her twice or she texted you back today?

I just texted her first today about if she wants to meet Tue evening. She works though since she's leaving Wed, she's working Mon and Tue to have extra money. She's 25 miles away to that makes it tough because I work Monday nights and Tue is the only day but she's busy getting ready. She seems into me, but shy. Even on the date she was shy and said she used to be an introvert in the past. Just her personality I can tell. I just want to keep her interest level there still so when she gets back.

 

[biggoal]

I"m talking to a 43 year old MILF on the facebook app right now. She too says I look really young! What is up lately with older women showing interest in me even though they say I look really young for my age? Is that good or bad?

 

[Suave88]

I"m talking to a 43 year old MILF on the facebook app right now. She too says I look really young! What is up lately with older women showing interest in me even though they say I look really young for my age? Is that good or bad?

If she is talking to you and you find her attractive, it means you like her. If she finds you young that means she finds you attractive. Since you doubt that you are looking young, then take it as she likes you. Any time, a pvssy you like, talks to you is good. Don't hold yourself back.
Just make sure the other girl does not find out.

 

[Suave88]

You have a dynamic in your relationship with HB7 former LEO you don't seem to have notice.
RickTheToad and Amante Silverter were quick to correct me when I said some in here want to see you fail.

In early post, you posted she is leaving on the 18th for 4 days I think. I know it's the 18th but don't remember how long. I know a day or two before she will be busy probably and who knows might even work since she will be gone so she has extra money for her trip.

Your latest posts now say she is leaving on the 16th, but before you said she is leaving on the 18th???? Is she driving or flying???? I fly cheap on AA. I always try to buy my air plane tickets early on. Why is it that she is changing the dates???? First, she said you two can meet before the trip and now she is leaving early, so no time to meet before but only maybe after.??????

I texted a bit tonight with her. She leaves for her trip on Wed and comes back on Mon but must work everyday though. She said she's playing it by ear so meeting will be hard since she works everyday and in the process of moving so she's busy until then and I work too but she wants to meet though and still showing interest. So likely it will be when she comes back from her trip but she knows I like her and she wants to meet again obviously. what is this??????????????

So what do I do in order to keep her interest level up until she gets back from the trip? How often do you think I should text? She isn't the type that likes to text a lot and blow your phone up. So maybe like every other day text her a bit? I always try adding a subtle flirting in my texting as well just so she knows I'm interested and I know she gets the hint the way she replies sometimes.
Concentrate on your new 43 MILF. Do not text her anymore.

So it will probably be after her trip we meet up. I did suggest though when we both have a day off so we can plan something fun for a day. Any suggestions other than a drink something that is a few hours?
She is talking about work and owing money......

I really dig her personality. She's not the kind that will put out the second or third date, I already know that, BUT the next date I expect some making out though. I figure with more time and hanging out for a few hours on the next date will build a lot more up in her.

See what else is changing..... do not text her anymore. you know she is leaving. Try to get her when she returns. DO NOT TEXT HER, LET HER LIVE.