Stripper Game

[DonJoel]

Hi Lads. Had a strange thing happen last night and I'm wondering how to play it.

Once in a while I like to go to a strip club and try out my game on the girls. It's easy mode because they approach you, so you should be able to make a fun conversation with the girls and keep frame. They can be quite manipulative trying to get you in back for a lap. It's good practice and I was in the mood for it.

Usually the girls aren't great. They're covered in ugly tats or bad boob jobs or cold personality. But last night one girl caught my eye. HB7-8, mid 20's, nice face with almond eyes, brunette, natural body. Looked like an ex that I lost and still mourn a bit.

She sits down with me and we connect easy. We go in back for what I think will be the standard two song lap dance, but what turns into the most epic of my life. We were back there for an hour. We were talking about everything. Getting into some kinky stuff. Her ***** was so wet that she made my shorts damp. She seemed to be genuinely into it. Not like the normal lap where they just put in the time.

We talked about guns so I tell her I want to take her shooting. She says yes. We talk about the performance fitness coaching I do. She seems genuinely interested.

Its been like an hour in back. She didn't watch the clock. We are both ready to move on. We go out front and I give her my number. She was going to give me hers but I didn't have my phone. I gave her a nice tip.

She says she'll call me at 1am. I tell her not to, cause I'll be a sleep. I lose frame a little in the end.

So, I'm trying to figure out what happened and what to do. Did I get played? It was a slow night so she wasn't losing much by giving a long session and keeping me going. But her ***** was way wet, and that's not normal in my experience.

I don't want a stripper gf, or a sugar baby, but a FWB would be amazing.

For now I'm just going to move on and mark "most epic dry hump" off my bucket list. Seriously, it was way better than a lot of sex I've had. I've been in a rut for a while and it was a great confidence boost to know I could get a good looking woman excited.

But in case she does contact me (50% chance I'd guess), any wisdom on stripper game?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Keep it moving. Dont give them money. She will attempt to invalidate you quickly. Dont trust them. Have fun. They have "jobs" for guys. Be one shes fvcking. Date other bab3s

 

[John9999]

This is like trying to date an escort. It just doesn’t work. In their mind they trade sex for money.

 

[Jager]

Hi Lads. Had a strange thing happen last night and I'm wondering how to play it.

Once in a while I like to go to a strip club and try out my game on the girls. It's easy mode because they approach you, so you should be able to make a fun conversation with the girls and keep frame. They can be quite manipulative trying to get you in back for a lap. It's good practice and I was in the mood for it.

Usually the girls aren't great. They're covered in ugly tats or bad boob jobs or cold personality. But last night one girl caught my eye. HB7-8, mid 20's, nice face with almond eyes, brunette, natural body. Looked like an ex that I lost and still mourn a bit.

She sits down with me and we connect easy. We go in back for what I think will be the standard two song lap dance, but what turns into the most epic of my life. We were back there for an hour. We were talking about everything. Getting into some kinky stuff. Her ***** was so wet that she made my shorts damp. She seemed to be genuinely into it. Not like the normal lap where they just put in the time.

We talked about guns so I tell her I want to take her shooting. She says yes. We talk about the performance fitness coaching I do. She seems genuinely interested.

Its been like an hour in back. She didn't watch the clock. We are both ready to move on. We go out front and I give her my number. She was going to give me hers but I didn't have my phone. I gave her a nice tip.

She says she'll call me at 1am. I tell her not to, cause I'll be a sleep. I lose frame a little in the end.

So, I'm trying to figure out what happened and what to do. Did I get played? It was a slow night so she wasn't losing much by giving a long session and keeping me going. But her ***** was way wet, and that's not normal in my experience.

I don't want a stripper gf, or a sugar baby, but a FWB would be amazing.

For now I'm just going to move on and mark "most epic dry hump" off my bucket list. Seriously, it was way better than a lot of sex I've had. I've been in a rut for a while and it was a great confidence boost to know I could get a good looking woman excited.

But in case she does contact me (50% chance I'd guess), any wisdom on stripper game?

The relationship between you and a stripper is nothing more than a business transaction. That’s it. I wouldn’t expect anything special out of it, because strippers get all the validation and attention they need from their patrons and clients. My observation is that strippers are VERY low-grade women. They survive on manipulating a man’s biology. Specifically, needy and desperate men. Keep that in mind. Strippers have made an art out of it.

Honestly, though? Just tell her straight up that you want a FWB relationship. If you got her turned on to the point where she’s dripping all over your jeans, she’s more than likely down for it. Read “Mode One: Let the Women Know What You’re REALLY Thinking”. It’s a genius book.

 

[Reyaj]

I've had strippers randomly give me hand jobs, make out with me, and I even dated one (in the light her body was smoking but she had a big jaw which turned me off). Literally two weeks ago I got another hand job from one without even asking and she threw her number at me afterwards.

I'd say this happens for me about 20% of the time I get a lap dance, so by no means am I saying this is normal and typical.

What I am saying though is this girl isn't that into you.

 

[2Rocky]

Strippers and Escorts don't date clients. EVER.

If you have ever paid the woman to give you or remedy an erection, you are a client....

 

[John9999]

Hell. All women make you pay for it one way or another! All of them!!

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Hell. All women make you pay for it one way or another! All of them!!

If she values you you pay in DYCK. No cost in $ or pain.

 

[John9999]

Ok. Fair enough. I’ve had a handful of women who only wanted to bang. No payment of money, time, effort. ETc,,,,

 

[The Duke]

Hi Lads. Had a strange thing happen last night and I'm wondering how to play it.

Once in a while I like to go to a strip club and try out my game on the girls. It's easy mode because they approach you, so you should be able to make a fun conversation with the girls and keep frame. They can be quite manipulative trying to get you in back for a lap. It's good practice and I was in the mood for it.

Usually the girls aren't great. They're covered in ugly tats or bad boob jobs or cold personality. But last night one girl caught my eye. HB7-8, mid 20's, nice face with almond eyes, brunette, natural body. Looked like an ex that I lost and still mourn a bit.

She sits down with me and we connect easy. We go in back for what I think will be the standard two song lap dance, but what turns into the most epic of my life. We were back there for an hour. We were talking about everything. Getting into some kinky stuff. Her ***** was so wet that she made my shorts damp. She seemed to be genuinely into it. Not like the normal lap where they just put in the time.

We talked about guns so I tell her I want to take her shooting. She says yes. We talk about the performance fitness coaching I do. She seems genuinely interested.

Its been like an hour in back. She didn't watch the clock. We are both ready to move on. We go out front and I give her my number. She was going to give me hers but I didn't have my phone. I gave her a nice tip.

She says she'll call me at 1am. I tell her not to, cause I'll be a sleep. I lose frame a little in the end.

So, I'm trying to figure out what happened and what to do. Did I get played? It was a slow night so she wasn't losing much by giving a long session and keeping me going. But her ***** was way wet, and that's not normal in my experience.

I don't want a stripper gf, or a sugar baby, but a FWB would be amazing.

For now I'm just going to move on and mark "most epic dry hump" off my bucket list. Seriously, it was way better than a lot of sex I've had. I've been in a rut for a while and it was a great confidence boost to know I could get a good looking woman excited.

But in case she does contact me (50% chance I'd guess), any wisdom on stripper game?

Don't be a customer. Cut out the lap dances. Make 3-4 visits over a month then ask her out.

Some of these girls hand out free lap dances hoping they can con you into paid sex after the club closes. Many of the traveling girls do this.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I used to make them buy my beers, if they wanted me to hang out. They usually acted shocked, at first, but you get what you expect. Hanging out in strip clubs at a young age(drinking age was 18, and I'd been going to bars since 14) was where I learned to keep it in my pants(my wallet).

Some other guy paid for the beers. But she catches onto the fact that you know the game.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Of course. That's the point. Don't be the sucker; be the guy she spends the sucker's money on. I used to have girls calling me to come hang out. I'd let them talk me into it, "reluctantly." I'd walk in while they were taking some poor sucker's paycheck. They'd kiss off the sucker and come to me. I'd drink free beers for a half hour or an hour or maybe even two, until she got off. Effortless. Casual.

They need someone like you to motivate them to get more money.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Yeah. Maybe. Never thought of it like that.

She looks at a guy like you as her friend who understand her and she makes the "sucker" pay. She admires you. Strippers are like a guy in their psychology. The suckers are the "dumb girls" and you are the girl she likes or she thinks your wise.

 

[Crosstimbers Okie]

A year ago I had a stripper chase me down on Zoosk. She came over two days in a row for sex, good sex. Then she disappeared and I never heard from her again. Typical females. The only money I spent on her was for a hot chocolate at Starbucks on our first meeting. Two hours later we were naked in my apartment.